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I've got a dilemma, one of my friend is a forever living rep, and tries to push some of the products, which i don't really believe are as natural as they claim, and as I'm tight (they're expensive), a… Read More
LillyM Avatar
4m, 2w agoPosted 4 months, 2 weeks ago
I've got a dilemma, one of my friend is a forever living rep, and tries to push some of the products, which i don't really believe are as natural as they claim, and as I'm tight (they're expensive), and not sure about them, have managed so far to avoid buying. Did a swap with her with some aloe gel, which I didn't mind, and have been thinking about getting again, but looking at the ingredients, I've found some on amazon that is 1) cheaper and 2) doesn't contain any of the rubbish hers does. I've known her as while and she's a really good friend who comes regularly for dinner so concerned she'd see it in the fridge and get offended. What would you do?
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4m, 2w agoPosted 4 months, 2 weeks ago
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put it somewhere she won't see it and then ask for a discount from her.

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#1
put it somewhere she won't see it and then ask for a discount from her.
#2
Buy the cheaper 'better' one if you want to and if she does notice it in the fridge, you could always say it was a gift?
#3
davewave
put it somewhere she won't see it and then ask for a discount from her.
Thanks! :)I have asked already, she said she'd do cost price ;) think will just go for the cheap one and say I was trying bit out to see the difference or as suggested by chuckiedoll :)
#4
chuckiedoll
Buy the cheaper 'better' one if you want to and if she does notice it in the fridge, you could always say it was a gift?
Great idea, I'll say some of my mates from school run got it for me, she doesn't know them, and say I was trying it to see the difference. Dilemma solved! :)
banned#5
This is weird you post this because a lady I work with sells this. Only today one of the girls was saying how she trys to force her to become a rep for her and sell it herself when she's told her she has no interest numerous times. Desperate little leeches trying to force all this ''natural'' crap off and make you feel bad not for buying.

I would tell your mate if they are that easily offended to kindly **** off.
#6
Explain it's a pyramid scheme and that you don't want to buy it for the reasons stated.
#7
If she is supposed to be your friend and she's making you feel obliged to buy her product (which she will know are expensive for what they are), surely that is worse than you potentially offending her?
banned#8
HotEnglishAndWelshDeals
Explain it's a pyramid scheme and that you don't want to buy it for the reasons stated.

I think you would make a good Forever rep HEAWD, you talk a lot of nonsense and make it sound convincing!
#9
MrScotchBonnet
This is weird you post this because a lady I work with sells this. Only today one of the girls was saying how she trys to force her to become a rep for her and sell it herself when she's told her she has no interest numerous times. Desperate little leeches trying to force all this ''natural'' crap off and make you feel bad not for buying.
I would tell your mate if they are that easily offended to kindly **** off.
It's a weird thing, because I've known her for years, and have felt awkward a lot of the time when she starts banging on about it because honestly the products are way overpriced for fairly basic products. I mean I swear by aloe vera for burns, I have plants in the house which we use regularly, but I just think the products are full of cr*p, and when I mentioned the parabens they use, which any "natural" cosmetic would shun, she got slightly annoyed with me :| the whole thing is a fraud in my opinion and I tried tonwarn her when she joined, but to no avail...
#10
I'd be telling my friend plainly and politely that I'm not interested in what they sell, if they take offence to that then that's their problem. No need to dance around the issue, sounds like an uncomfortable friendship to me.
#11
I'd buy new friends with the money I'd save buying the cheaper one.


Edited By: Aiden1512 on Feb 07, 2017 21:33
#12
Maybe grow a pair
Or
Remain a doormat

You decide! Hth
banned#13
LillyM
MrScotchBonnet
This is weird you post this because a lady I work with sells this. Only today one of the girls was saying how she trys to force her to become a rep for her and sell it herself when she's told her she has no interest numerous times. Desperate little leeches trying to force all this ''natural'' crap off and make you feel bad not for buying.
I would tell your mate if they are that easily offended to kindly **** off.
It's a weird thing, because I've known her for years, and have felt awkward a lot of the time when she starts banging on about it because honestly the products are way overpriced for fairly basic products. I mean I swear by aloe vera for burns, I have plants in the house which we use regularly, but I just think the products are full of cr*p, and when I mentioned the parabens they use, which any "natural" cosmetic would shun, she got slightly annoyed with me :| the whole thing is a fraud in my opinion and I tried tonwarn her when she joined, but to no avail...


She's been sucked in and brainwashed like they all have.
#14
transit
Maybe grow a pair
Or
Remain a doormat
You decide! Hth

You have such a way with words X)
#15
I'd show her it and tell her, her products are crap. Why lie ? Why not inform her.
#16
HotEnglishAndWelshDeals
Explain it's a pyramid scheme and that you don't want to buy it for the reasons stated.
She argues it's not and it's a multi level marketing company...
#17
LillyM
HotEnglishAndWelshDeals
Explain it's a pyramid scheme and that you don't want to buy it for the reasons stated.
She argues it's not and it's a multi level marketing company...
Lol.. see if she can draw the organizational chart for you...
#18
tell the truth and give her a 10p pack if hankies you don't want her growing up deluded do you , she's supposed to be a friend after all she will thank you in the long term
#19
moneysavingkitten
If she is supposed to be your friend and she's making you feel obliged to buy her product (which she will know are expensive for what they are), surely that is worse than you potentially offending her?
Yes she is, and she doesn't push them too much, think she got it when I told her about the parabens, but it's probably me who'd feel awkward more than anything, I know she wants to do this full time instead of her job, so to use a product she sells from another brand might look like some kind of betrayal? Dunno, anyway will buy the one online, will see what happens :)
#20
Tell her that she is never going to get the coveted and mythological Mini
#21
bynouk
I'd be telling my friend plainly and politely that I'm not interested in what they sell, if they take offence to that then that's their problem. No need to dance around the issue, sounds like an uncomfortable friendship to me.
It's been slightly but because of forever living where everyone you know becomes a potential customer...we're close otherwise...
#22
Drink some rum.
#23
transit
Maybe grow a pair
Or
Remain a doormat

You decide! Hth
No it doesn't, but that's cool, plenty of people have :p

Edited By: LillyM on Feb 07, 2017 21:43
banned#24
I'm getting a notification everytime you reply to someone LillyM saying you have replied to me. How odd.
#25
Aiden1512
I'd buy new friends with the money I'd save buying the cheaper one.

He he he, would you know if they're available on prime? ;)
#26
paulsalmon77
LillyM
HotEnglishAndWelshDeals
Explain it's a pyramid scheme and that you don't want to buy it for the reasons stated.
She argues it's not and it's a multi level marketing company...
Lol.. see if she can draw the organizational chart for you...
Maybe I should, think that would hit a nerve, to be fair it's done wonders for her personally, she's more confident, etc, just the n products are b*llocks!
#27
MrScotchBonnet
I'm getting a notification everytime you reply to someone LillyM saying you have replied to me. How odd.
I'm stalking you.....8)
#28
MrScotchBonnet
LillyM
MrScotchBonnet
This is weird you post this because a lady I work with sells this. Only today one of the girls was saying how she trys to force her to become a rep for her and sell it herself when she's told her she has no interest numerous times. Desperate little leeches trying to force all this ''natural'' crap off and make you feel bad not for buying.
I would tell your mate if they are that easily offended to kindly **** off.
It's a weird thing, because I've known her for years, and have felt awkward a lot of the time when she starts banging on about it because honestly the products are way overpriced for fairly basic products. I mean I swear by aloe vera for burns, I have plants in the house which we use regularly, but I just think the products are full of cr*p, and when I mentioned the parabens they use, which any "natural" cosmetic would shun, she got slightly annoyed with me :| the whole thing is a fraud in my opinion and I tried tonwarn her when she joined, but to no avail...

She's been sucked in and brainwashed like they all have.
She has! Such a shame, I'm sure she'll see the light one day :)
#29
LillyM
moneysavingkitten
If she is supposed to be your friend and she's making you feel obliged to buy her product (which she will know are expensive for what they are), surely that is worse than you potentially offending her?
Yes she is, and she doesn't push them too much, think she got it when I told her about the parabens, but it's probably me who'd feel awkward more than anything, I know she wants to do this full time instead of her job, so to use a product she sells from another brand might look like some kind of betrayal? Dunno, anyway will buy the one online, will see what happens :)

Sounds like you might be saving her from a fall by being truthful...
#30
tomminator
tell the truth and give her a 10p pack if hankies you don't want her growing up deluded do you , she's supposed to be a friend after all she will thank you in the long term
She's so into it at the no, it's well awkward. I do try here and there to bring things up, but she has all the spiel to counteract arguments...
#31
Anyone remember Amway
#32
batezy_1984
Tell her that she is never going to get the coveted and mythological Mini
Yeah that also, I mean already my area is full of fl reps, how are they suppose to recruit and make money? It's advertised everywhere. I saw an ad in a mag before she got into it, checked it out and looked wonderful and then realised what it entailed, so didn't pursue. It had scam written all over it...
#33
archer1204
Anyone remember Amway
Absolute carp at sky high prices. It could only have come from the good old USofA.
#34
moneysavingkitten
LillyM
moneysavingkitten
If she is supposed to be your friend and she's making you feel obliged to buy her product (which she will know are expensive for what they are), surely that is worse than you potentially offending her?
Yes she is, and she doesn't push them too much, think she got it when I told her about the parabens, but it's probably me who'd feel awkward more than anything, I know she wants to do this full time instead of her job, so to use a product she sells from another brand might look like some kind of betrayal? Dunno, anyway will buy the one online, will see what happens :)
Sounds like you might be saving her from a fall by being truthful...
Yeah for sure, it's how I go about it, I'm not really known for being very tactful oO have been called rude many a time for speaking !y mind and offending some of my mates...
#35
thewongwing101
Drink some rum.
Whisky's my tipple of choice, though I doubt that a shot of that would have the same effect, especially in the morning, I'm already a fierce contender for mum of the year amongst my friends, think this would seal the deal, lol

Edited By: LillyM on Feb 07, 2017 21:59
#36
Just say you don't want to buy it. How is this a dilemma?
#37
RossD89
Just say you don't want to buy it. How is this a dilemma?
That's not the dilemma, which has now been solved, it was that I want to get a better (in my eyes) version of an product she sells, and was worried she'd see it and it'd be awkward.
#38
archer1204
Anyone remember Amway
I've just read this this is exactly how fl operate. Maybe I should show it to her...
#39
LillyM
RossD89
Just say you don't want to buy it. How is this a dilemma?
That's not the dilemma, which has now been solved, it was that I want to get a better (in my eyes) version of an product she sells, and was worried she'd see it and it'd be awkward.

That is exactly the "dilemma"... just say you don't want it

Edited By: RossD89 on Feb 07, 2017 22:26
#40
Thanks peeps for the input, I've ordered the one I wanted, will see next time she comes around if she spots it in the fridge :{

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