I bought a brand new Nokia AD-43 adapter assuming it would work on my Desire HD (I've got an app, Headset Button Controller, which works with iphone-friendly headsets). Want to use my favourite 3.5mm headphones, basically you plug them in to enable you to switch tracks/change volume etc.
Basically, it doesn't work, it's all muffled. It only works with Nokia phones, apparently.
So, if anyone has a similar headset which works with ipod/Android devices, I'd be happy to do a straight swap.
AD-43 picture: http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41OUS12FDCL.jpg
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