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There seems to be no respect for them at all.........in Misc, infractions and suspensions have become the all new badge of honour where the more they have then the greater the kudos is in their minds.
There are "look at me.....i'm back. Aren't i a hero for being suspended threads' and people compaining and judging all the decisions made.
Totally agree with you there Sy. (Can't comment on the FS/FT as I rarely venture in there nowadays.)
One of the biggest "problems" I've seen is the continual baiting of members in the misc. forum. There's a few people on misc. who seem to delight in starting threads which they are well aware will cause problems amongst members.
It's a difficult thing to moderate I would think as there becomes a fine line between allowing "freedom of speech" and "freedom to incite". I'm all for open debate but in reality this very rarely happens and controversial subjects just end up in name calling, abuse and the thread locked.
Seems to me members need to learn a couple of things, self control in not being drawn into those subjects where they cannot control their feelings and how to use the "ignore" function,
The members that post these baiting threads have no respect for anything other than satisfying their own attention seeking needs and will soon stop posting if nobody responds.
Difficult I know as most of us at some stage or other have responded to these "trolls" but it is the only way to get rid of them and not get oneself into trouble.
Just my opinion.