RFC:
your right its rude of him to tell you ,he should just take himself off to the toilet and be done with it!
for the record am not a she!
martinwallis:
Would you prefer it if he said "I find you repulsive"?
Any body can find anybody replusive without actually saying it to their face, but for a guy to find a lady sexually attractive is something else, especially when its coming from a married guy.