serious replys only please! and dont judge me on this either.
last friday i went to a lass from works house party and one of the fellas from work was there. one thing lead to another and you know what. also on monday i went over his for the night. hes now said he would like to see me when we are both of work next week before he goes on holiday.
thing is i work in a care home and the lass whos house it was has told everyone and one of the residents has found out. he keeps saying sly comments and fishing for information from us and other staff. hes said that the manager is going to be discussing the matter with us at some point.
my question is can i get into trouble for what i do out of work with another member of staff? surely if i want to start seeing someone from work it shouldnt be a problem unless it affects the way we work, which it isnt. also me or him werent the ones who told people and therefor cant be held accountable for this resident finding out? its doing my head in cos the gossips are loving it. hes also text me saying hes had them going on at him tonight.
i dont want to upset anyone from work or put my job on the line. but as far as im aware we havent done anything wrong?