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Would really love a black hole to throw my boyfriend into, has anyone seen any good deals on these? He's getting right on my nerves at the moment, let's face it, it's better than getting put on a mur… Read More
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9y, 2m agoPosted 9 years, 2 months ago
Would really love a black hole to throw my boyfriend into, has anyone seen any good deals on these?
He's getting right on my nerves at the moment, let's face it, it's better than getting put on a murder charge!
Anyone else having problems with their other half?
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9y, 2m agoPosted 9 years, 2 months ago
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#1
Why not just dump him if he's that bad? "it's better than getting put up on a murder charge!" :lol:
#2
I will dispose of him for £10,000...







only joking... It'd have to be nearer £20,000 :P lol
#3
have you tried selling him on flea bay
#4
donbreach
I will dispose of him for £10,000...







only joking... It'd have to be nearer £20,000 :P lol


Deal, hehe.

It's alot more complicated than just dumping him. I feel trapped with him. We have children and he has told me if we split up he will report me to social services or go on the run with my child. He is evil and his only aim in life is to make me miserable. He's never hit me but he might as well, at least the pain goes when you get hurt. When it's mental and emotional it never ends or stops. I might get a day where he is generally okay, but most of the time he gets off on telling me how useless i am, how lazy i am cos i am a stay at home mum with a toddler. If I don't do things when he wants me to he kicks off, moaning at me calling me and making me feel like dirt.
So anyone got any black holes???
#5
Idaho150
Deal, hehe.

It's alot more complicated than just dumping him. I feel trapped with him. We have children and he has told me if we split up he will report me to social services or go on the run with my child. He is evil and his only aim in life is to make me miserable. He's never hit me but he might as well, at least the pain goes when you get hurt. When it's mental and emotional it never ends or stops. I might get a day where he is generally okay, but most of the time he gets off on telling me how useless i am, how lazy i am cos i am a stay at home mum with a toddler. If I don't do things when he wants me to he kicks off, moaning at me calling me and making me feel like dirt.
So anyone got any black holes???


WHAT! Lady, just tell me where you live. I will actually sort him out for you.
Dump him and see if he is a man of his word. The kids will stay with you. Usually they go to the mother right?
#6
Idaho150
Deal, hehe.

It's alot more complicated than just dumping him. I feel trapped with him. We have children and he has told me if we split up he will report me to social services or go on the run with my child. He is evil and his only aim in life is to make me miserable. He's never hit me but he might as well, at least the pain goes when you get hurt. When it's mental and emotional it never ends or stops. I might get a day where he is generally okay, but most of the time he gets off on telling me how useless i am, how lazy i am cos i am a stay at home mum with a toddler. If I don't do things when he wants me to he kicks off, moaning at me calling me and making me feel like dirt.
So anyone got any black holes???

I work with Social Services a lot and know that a lot of people report others because they want to hurt them. They'll investigate but not believe without proof. Why not report him to Social Services or the police because of his threatening behaviour towards you and your child. Are there any refuges for women and children where you live?
If you don't know, ask at a local Citizens advice. Look after yourself. I know that contemplating leaving is hard and you fear the consequences but give it some consideration.
#7
Im A Qualified Hitman
banned#8
dont sleep with him
banned#9
Call his bluff and leave him. Have you got any family you can go to?

It's not fair on the children if you stay with him.
#10
Where are u located... badmanmeow and myself will bring round the HUKD boys...
#11
Ill rip the ***** neck out
#12
This dirtbag has conditioned you to think you are useless, it will take a lot of courage on your part to get away from him. For the sake of your kids get rid of him, you will not lose your kids but he might.
You do not have to live like this, life is too short.
I will be thinking of you and hope that you can become stronger with a bit of help.
Good luck xxx
#13
donbreach
I will dispose of him for £10,000...
only joking... It'd have to be nearer £20,000 :P lol


do you except paypal. only kidding

there is some sound aadvice in this page i would considerthis long and hard but in the end you need to make sure and your kid is safe.
#14
donbreach
Where are u located... badmanmeow and myself will bring round the HUKD boys...


im in!
#15
sophie***;2018816
This dirtbag has conditioned you to think you are useless, it will take a lot of courage on your part to get away from him. For the sake of your kids get rid of him, you will not lose your kids but he might.
You do not have to live like this, life is too short.
I will be thinking of you and hope that you can become stronger with a bit of help.
Good luck xxx

from us all at hukd babe he is bloody useless not making you happy He's the failure
#16
donbreach;2018808
Where are u located... badmanmeow and myself will bring round the HUKD boys...

im in
#17
REDRANGER86
do you except paypal. only kidding


Well there would be a £352.17 charge on £10k or a £704.14 charge on £20k... so unless willing to pay the fees would prefer cash... lol

only playing... or am I? :P lol
#18
So far we have...

badmanmeow
redranger86
raptorcigs
donbreach

Anyone else want to join the HUKD vigilante?
#19
donbreach
So far we have...

badmanmeow
redranger86
raptorcigs
donbreach

Anyone else want to join the HUKD vigilante?


Count me in as well chaps.....
banned#20
donbreach
So far we have...

badmanmeow
redranger86
raptorcigs
donbreach

Anyone else want to join the HUKD vigilante?


Girls allowed? I've been in training:thumbsup:
#21
I have no problem giving usless SOB a kicking. Benn there done that never want to see it happen to someone eles.

Get out of there gill don't live your life being bullied and don't ever let your child be conditioed into the same behavioral pattern!
#22
i'm in ....:)been through same sort off thing apart from i am a bloke and she treated me like that ,it can take a lot out off you and can understand why you need black hole but make sure its him that goes into it not you i lost my self for a while in my own blackhole. but have my boy now and no he's safe. you just have to make sure what you want and do it if you get rid of him do it for good and dont keep taking him back some people stay together for the kids BIG mistake...keep chin up it can and will get better if you want it to..:thumbsup: hope that all makes sence
#23
Thanks people.
He's always been a moaner, and I have treid to get past that because I thought I could put up with it. I found out last summer he ahd been taking steroids and other tablets with his so called body building friend, I found them in his van along with needles, condoms etc last october.
He promised me he wouldn't take them again, but I'm not too convinced he has given any of it up.
He has cahnged form a moaner into a deranged weirdo. He's always implying I'm not looking a fter the house or the kids proper, at first I didn't mind him being a little bit critical about the way I do the housework, but now, if it's not done when he wants to make his body building food he goes in a huff and starts chucking things around and doesn't even seem to care he might break his child's birthday presents before they've been opened... of course it would be all my fault if they got broke cos i didn't tidy up good enough.
He's got me into debt in my name, I stupidly got talked into it (you wouldn't believe I'd been to university), he's threatened to get an air rifle to my cats.
Thing is not long after all this he acts normal, like nothings happened, really friendly and helpful. I get confused wondering if he meant the things he did, or whether I am over reacting.
He's messed my head up a bit. He came in 5 mins ago with food for pets and then went back out asking if i need anything>>!
No one sees him the way i do, he's friendly decent and helpful to all, but me.
Thought about splitting up,but my daughter from a different relationship calls him Dad and doesn't know her real Dad, who was a alcoholic.
It seems i choose the wrong guys, and I feel like a right idiot for that.
I just feel in a rut and wish people could see what I see, I don't think people would believe me sadly.
You guys have helped alittle.
Thank you all, sincerely. x
#24
Idaho150;2018735
Deal, hehe.

It's alot more complicated than just dumping him. I feel trapped with him. We have children and he has told me if we split up he will report me to social services or go on the run with my child. He is evil and his only aim in life is to make me miserable. He's never hit me but he might as well, at least the pain goes when you get hurt. When it's mental and emotional it never ends or stops. I might get a day where he is generally okay, but most of the time he gets off on telling me how useless i am, how lazy i am cos i am a stay at home mum with a toddler. If I don't do things when he wants me to he kicks off, moaning at me calling me and making me feel like dirt.
So anyone got any black holes???

Sorry, i didn't realise it was serious :oops: i think that you should take the advice that others have left about leaving him, don't hink it would really help if you got the blokes on here to go round and beat him up though. As susannah said i don't hink social services would really go on what he says as it would be obvious that he is just trying to hurt you. Good luck babe :)
#25
You weren't to know, thanks tho'.x
#26
badmanmeow
redranger86
raptorcigs
donbreach
smithyp1
prissymiss
justneo

Think that goes to show what everyone thinks...
1 Like #27
I'm sorry to hear about your situation - I really feel for you.

You really need to speak to someone who can help you practically like Womens Aid - they can help with a refuge etc as well.

http://www.womensaid.org.uk/

0808 2000 247
#28
Idaho150;2018957
Thanks people.
He's always been a moaner, and I have treid to get past that because I thought I could put up with it. I found out last summer he ahd been taking steroids and other tablets with his so called body building friend, I found them in his van along with needles, condoms etc last october.
He promised me he wouldn't take them again, but I'm not too convinced he has given any of it up.
He has cahnged form a moaner into a deranged weirdo. He's always implying I'm not looking a fter the house or the kids proper, at first I didn't mind him being a little bit critical about the way I do the housework, but now, if it's not done when he wants to make his body building food he goes in a huff and starts chucking things around and doesn't even seem to care he might break his child's birthday presents before they've been opened... of course it would be all my fault if they got broke cos i didn't tidy up good enough.
He's got me into debt in my name, I stupidly got talked into it (you wouldn't believe I'd been to university), he's threatened to get an air rifle to my cats.
Thing is not long after all this he acts normal, like nothings happened, really friendly and helpful. I get confused wondering if he meant the things he did, or whether I am over reacting.
He's messed my head up a bit. He came in 5 mins ago with food for pets and then went back out asking if i need anything>>!
No one sees him the way i do, he's friendly decent and helpful to all, but me.
Thought about splitting up,but my daughter from a different relationship calls him Dad and doesn't know her real Dad, who was a alcoholic.
It seems i choose the wrong guys, and I feel like a right idiot for that.
I just feel in a rut and wish people could see what I see, I don't think people would believe me sadly.
You guys have helped alittle.
Thank you all, sincerely. x

i should put this into a private message but go see your doctor tell him/her they can sort out your next move and help seriousley there is more people going through what you are than you think and through your doctor you can get expert advice my heart goes with you.
#29
Tintern1981;2019013
I'm sorry to hear about your situation - I really feel for you.

You really need to speak to someone who can help you practically like Womens Aid - they can help with a refuge etc as well.

http://www.womensaid.org.uk/

0808 2000 247

thanx for the link
#30
If he did go to social services & you told them about his drug taking they could make him take a drug test which would show what he has been taking & would go against him anyway
#31
steroids are horrible things to use they send your testosterone so high, i used to train with a guy and he was huge easy 5x my size and his friend used roids and he was so scared of him. I didnt think anything could scare this guy.
#32
aww hun, we are all here to support u in any way possible
#33
We are all here anytime you need us, message me anytime you want.
I think you know in your heart that this can't go on much longer and that you and your partner both need professional help to get the steroid taking sorted out, you are not doing him or yourself any good by letting this situation continue.
Please get help before it's too late.
#34
Unfortunately I don't think a black hole is going to help you because throwing your partner into one would most definitely kill him in a particularly brutal way as well although due to time dilation effects this would appear to be happening far slower.

Unfortunately I don't think your partner is going to change, I've come across or known of people who are similar in that they seemed to be completely different people from one moment to the next - in one instance they can be aggressive, violent, insulting or highly argumentative then the next offering to go out somewhere or buy something as if the previous argument or threats have never happened. The cause can be alcohol, drugs or just the way some people are but the only solution is to get away although you sound to be in a very difficult situation.

John

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