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can you forgive and forget?

donnaraine Avatar
7y, 1m agoPosted 7 years, 1 month ago
i find i cant hold a grudge against someone i know, i always forgive them but never forget. but i can quite easily hold a grudge against someone i dont know.

what about you guys?
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7y, 1m agoPosted 7 years, 1 month ago
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#1
Ah FFS not another baffledsalmon thread
#2
OMG let it go woman,,,,,,,
#3
I never hold a grudge-- life is too short.
banned#4
has your cousin been banging her way round town again whilst making you listen from the spare room?
#5
more details please
#6
modoc
Ah FFS not another baffledsalmon thread


hahahaha poor BF
#7
modoc
Ah FFS not another baffledsalmon thread


no not at all. whats this got to do with her? im simply asking if anyone else is like me on this topic
#8
ClarityofMind
I never hold a grudge-- life is too short.

+1 totally agree life is for living :thumbsup:
#9
A grudge is for life, not just for Christmas.
#10
dimebars
has your cousin been banging her way round town again whilst making you listen from the spare room?


nope we dont talk now. although she did text the other night to say she had found something out about my mam, trying to stir stuff. but she failed cos i already knew hahahaha
#11
wulshaz
+1 totally agree life is for living :thumbsup:


:friends:
#12
if you can never forget then you havent truly forgiven then have you?

there is enough hatred in the world over things that actually MATTER than falling out over a load of nonsense as so many people tend to do.
#13
magicbeans
more details please


no details to spill mb, just something we were talking about at work and wondered what everyone does on here
#14
barky
if you can never forget then you havent truly forgiven then have you?

there is enough hatred in the world over things that actually MATTER than falling out over a load of nonsense as so many people tend to do.


i think you can and i have done
#15
I forgive, then bring it up in every argument :)
#16
Lulu'sMammy
I forgive, then bring it up in every argument :)



did you go to the same school as mrs barky by any chance?
#17
I noticed earlier in the single parent thread, a person who had moved into their Dads after falling out with their Mum in April, and they haven't spoken since. Life's too short to hold a grudge, especially with your own family.

Most grudges are over petty little things as well, when, in the grand sceme of things, it just doesn't matter.
#18
Yeah barky, sisters united....does she fart in bed too :? x
#19
peodude
I noticed earlier in the single parent thread, a person who had moved into their Dads after falling out with their Mum in April, and they haven't spoken since. Life's too short to hold a grudge, especially with your own family.

Most grudges are over petty little things as well, when, in the grand sceme of things, it just doesn't matter.


well this was my cousins choice. after accusing me of saying stuff to someone about her (which i hadnt) she decides to send texts threatening me with violence and cutting me out her life completely. i tell her to stop being paranoid and either phone me to sort it out or do as she says and cut me out her life. she chose the latter. i gave her chance to sort it out and she declined
banned#20
donnaraine
well this was my cousins choice. after accusing me of saying stuff to someone about her (which i hadnt) she decides to send texts threatening me with violence and cutting me out her life completely. i tell her to stop being paranoid and either phone me to sort it out or do as she says and cut me out her life. she chose the latter. i gave her chance to sort it out and she declined


is her name [SIZE="7"]baffledsalmon?????????????????[/SIZE]
#21
Lulu'sMammy
I forgive, then bring it up in every argument :)


god hun we are so simular xx
#22
bykergrove
is her name [SIZE="7"]baffledsalmon?????????????????[/SIZE]


no i am in no way related to her
#23
i fire and forget
#24
donnaraine
no i am in no way related to her

Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely thats just wrong!! I hope they were lying (no names mentioned!)
banned#25
Lulu'sMammy
Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely thats just wrong!! I hope they were lying (no names mentioned!)


why do the ladies hate baffledsalmon for?
#26
Lulu'sMammy
Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely thats just wrong!! I hope they were lying (no names mentioned!)


dunno, who knows? lol
#27
bykergrove
why do the ladies hate baffledsalmon for?

Don't tar me with that brush...i've never spoke to her. Just bitchness rumours i suspect.
#28
bykergrove
why do the ladies hate baffledsalmon for?


i could tell you my reasons, but i dont want to turn this into a bitching thread, and before you say no it has nothing to do with her looks
#29
Lulu'sMammy
Someone told me she had a womens face, but a fellas manhood....surely thats just wrong!! I hope they were lying (no names mentioned!)


another lady gaga thread?:whistling:
banned#30
donnaraine
i could tell you my reasons, but i dont want to turn this into a bitching thread, and before you say no it has nothing to do with her looks


pm plz
#31
barky
another lady gaga thread?:whistling:

I think thats what brought the comments on....after talking about sausage gaga!
#32
bykergrove
pm plz


no.
#33
donnaraine
well this was my cousins choice. after accusing me of saying stuff to someone about her (which i hadnt) she decides to send texts threatening me with violence and cutting me out her life completely. i tell her to stop being paranoid and either phone me to sort it out or do as she says and cut me out her life. she chose the latter. i gave her chance to sort it out and she declined


The way i look at it is, if they died tomorrow, would you regret not making it up to them. Slightly different in your case, as you are the grudgee, not the grudger. If you feel you have done all you can to repair the relationship, then that is all you can do, until the other person comes round.
#34
i hold grudges yes
#35
peodude
The way i look at it is, if they died tomorrow, would you regret not making it up to them. Slightly different in your case, as you are the grudgee, not the grudger. If you feel you have done all you can to repair the relationship, then that is all you can do, until the other person comes round.


i think if i died tomorrow she would regret it as she said herself i was the only person she could talk to. the rest of the family dont bother with her due to her trouble causing and manipulative ways. however she made the choice not me.

personally she did my head in too, but being family i had to put up with it lol. also felt a bit sorry for her as she had no one apart from me
#36
donnaraine
nope we dont talk now. although she did text the other night to say she had found something out about my mam, trying to stir stuff. but she failed cos i already knew hahahaha


Share the details. I won't tell anyone - promise:whistling:
#37
donnaraine
no.


lol
#38
but i can quite easily hold a grudge against someone i dont know.



is this another I am jealous of Baffled Salmon thread?



I like both of you,no fighting please:)
#39
I'm going for a wee.
#40
boothy
is this another I am jealous of Baffled Salmon thread?



I like both of you,no fighting please:)


ok this is not about her, and i am not jealous of her.

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