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cant get used to living in a new place

muckyangel Avatar
7y, 3d agoPosted 7 years, 3 days ago
I moved not so long ago with my boyfriend. He left me 3 weeks ago and now Im stuck in a place I dont no. I would like to met new ppl but not ssure how. Im going to a gym but have not made friends yet. I was born in the last place and moved away 36 yrs on so how do i make new friends.
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7y, 3d agoPosted 7 years, 3 days ago
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#1
cant you move back?
#2
Go to pubs/nightclubs? :thumbsup:
#3
michelleleemoo
cant you move back?


no exchange
#4
We will help! How old are you? 36?
banned#5
ill be your friend :)
#6
When I moved from the place I'd lived for all of my life, I found new friends at my new work mainly. But also met others out around town. There's all sorts of places you can find friends :).
#7
livingthelife07
Go to pubs/nightclubs? :thumbsup:


dont want to go on my own
#8
Tell peeps on here where you are and I'm sure many of them will suggest local places for you to go :-)

How bout volunteering in a local charity shop etc over Christmas ? Or see what classes are on at your local college or library ....... do you have any hobbies you could find a local club for ? Or take up a sport....... I'm sure you'll get plenty of suggestions on here ......... good luck and hope you have a decent Christmas and New Year :-)
#9
hncb0809
ill be your friend :)


Thank you x
#10
vraptorchick
Tell peeps on here where you are and I'm sure many of them will suggest local places for you to go :-)

How bout volunteering in a local charity shop etc over Christmas ? Or see what classes are on at your local college or library ....... do you have any hobbies you could find a local club for ? Or take up a sport....... I'm sure you'll get plenty of suggestions on here ......... good luck and hope you have a decent Christmas and New Year :-)


This ^^^^ :thumbsup:
#11
hncb0809
ill be your friend :)


Just you slow down
Isaw her first :whistling:
#12
vraptorchick
Tell peeps on here where you are and I'm sure many of them will suggest local places for you to go :-)

How bout volunteering in a local charity shop etc over Christmas ? Or see what classes are on at your local college or library ....... do you have any hobbies you could find a local club for ? Or take up a sport....... I'm sure you'll get plenty of suggestions on here ......... good luck and hope you have a decent Christmas and New Year :-)


ok im in orpington. cant do volunteery work as i work full time. not many class's going on here.
not doing xmas or new year this year.
#13
Hey chill, be yourself, chat to people, and before you know it a new b/f will be on the scene
#14
renown
Just you slow down
Isaw her first :whistling:


wish i could get this kind of attention in reel life
#15
don't try too hard or worry too much, the friends etc will come, it will all appear like chance, 'searching' especially on a noisy night out is usuallly only good for one night stands imo. best of luck, nil desperandum, keep your pecker up........... i think i'll stop there:)
#16
I hear adultfriendfinder is a good place to meet people
#17
muckyangel
ok im in orpington. cant do volunteery work as i work full time. not many class's going on here.
not doing xmas or new year this year.


I was only trying to help :roll:

How bout people thro work ?
#18
muckyangel
dont want to go on my own


Where abouts are you :whistling:
#19
Wheres Orprington?


I'm in a similar boat, just moved here, know nobody, people i work with are all married, humping about and drinking and having fun, whilst i have no babysitter so i can join in arrrrrrrrrgh!
#20
Read this book: How to Win Friends & Influence People
#21
vraptorchick
I was only trying to help :roll:

How bout people thro work ?


I no sorry. It takes me an hour to work and its not the friendlys bunch i work with.
#22
livingthelife07
Where abouts are you :whistling:


orpington
#23
Lulu'sMammy
Wheres Orprington?


I'm in a similar boat, just moved here, know nobody, people i work with are all married, humping about and drinking and having fun, whilst i have no babysitter so i can join in arrrrrrrrrgh!


orpington is in kent
#24
muckyangel
wish i could get this kind of attention in real life


Well, hello-o new flesh:thumbsup:
Do you live up to your username, babe?
#25
Lulu'sMammy
Wheres Orprington?


I'm in a similar boat, just moved here, know nobody, people i work with are all married, humping about and drinking and having fun, whilst i have no babysitter so i can join in arrrrrrrrrgh!


they will all get s STD or a hangover, if lucky .....both:w00t:
#26
tigerallstars
Well, hello-o new flesh:thumbsup:
Do you live up to your username, babe?


We're trying to encourage her to make new friends not turn her into a hermit for fear of meeting someone like you...

:whistling:
#27
angelfairee
We're trying to encourage her to make new friends not turn her into a hermit for fear of meeting someone like you...

:whistling:


I only asked:p
#28
The worst is i have a 17 yr old son who i love so much and he loves me but coz he go a job just as i moved he now stays at my mum and dads house. i have been here for 4 months and he has never stayed here. I still see him every day.
suspended#29
You dont live far from me ... I also am in the same postition as you hun , I moved from my home town 2 years ago to live with my boyfriend.. I didnt know no one and still dont know many. I am lucky as my sister in laws are the same age as me and my best friend moved to london so see her a far bit. It cane be lonely tho x
#30
muckyangel
I no sorry. It takes me an hour to work and its not the friendlys bunch i work with.


Look for a new job :whistling:
#31
muckyangel
The worst is i have a 17 yr old son who i love so much and he loves me but coz he go a job just as i moved he now stays at my mum and dads house. i have been here for 4 months and he has never stayed here. I still see him every day.


move back to yr ma and pa's
#32
Tinkytayls
You dont live far from me ... I also am in the same postition as you hun , I moved from my home town 2 years ago to live with my boyfriend.. I didnt know no one and still dont know many. I am lucky as my sister in laws are the same age as me and my best friend moved to london so see her a far bit. It cane be lonely tho x


very lonly. im so sad at the mo
#33
michelleleemoo
move back to yr ma and pa's


could never move back to mum and dads after not living with them for 20 yrs. besides no room.
banned#34
Did he leave because you were mucky?
#35
vraptorchick
Look for a new job :whistling:


times are hard, i have a good job its best to keep it
#36
thanks anyway xxx
banned#37
i find it hard like you, as i am very shy and find it hard to talk to people even on her i am like a mouse

just be yourself and everything will work out great hun, since moving to scotland about 6 months ago i think i have been out of the house about 5 times i have no friends here and no family i hate it but thats life any you gotta go with the flow
#38
muckyangel
could never move back to mum and dads after not living with them for 20 yrs. besides no room.


you left your 17 year old to live with the gramps to upsticks and move in with a blokey :?
#39
Fancy a stalker?
#40
daz1981
i find it hard like you, as i am very shy and find it hard to talk to people even on her i am like a mouse

just be yourself and everything will work out great hun, since moving to scotland about 6 months ago i think i have been out of the house about 5 times i have no friends here and no family i hate it but thats life any you gotta go with the flow


but i hate being in the house by myself. I cant do it alone

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