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Hi everyone, I have been using an internet dating sites for a while trying to meet new people. one person I have got on with v well, and we have had number of convos on msn/skype etc etc. I am meet… Read More
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7y, 10m agoPosted 7 years, 10 months ago
Hi everyone, I have been using an internet dating sites for a while trying to meet new people. one person I have got on with v well, and we have had number of convos on msn/skype etc etc.

I am meeting her on tuesday, for the first time ever. I do go out much, what should I say/wear/do im so nervous.

if you have not got nothing nice to say please don't reply, I find it hard meeting new people, and found internet dating fills this void.
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7y, 10m agoPosted 7 years, 10 months ago
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#1
:thumbsup:Just dress casual and be yourself.......relax and have fun
#2
yes just relax together.. tell her how you feel x x
#3
are you male or female?
#4
as above, and j stunna please please please chance yr blinking avi to a smiley face :-D:-D:thumbsup:
#5
michelleleemoo
as above, and j stunna please please please chance yr blinking avi to a smiley face :-D:-D:thumbsup:


Maybe he will on Wednesday morning? :whistling:
#6
michelleleemoo
as above, and j stunna please please please chance yr blinking avi to a smiley face :-D:-D:thumbsup:


This is good advice.. act happy and you'll feel happy :)
#7
ClarityofMind
yes just relax together.. tell her how you feel x x

lol, I cant im to shy, I think she may be the one, I dont know though, im so nervous. my first ever date.

thanks for the advice, I know i should just relax and have fun, its easier said then done though


ADZ1478
are you male or female?

im male.
#8
If you were yourself on msn and skype then thats how you should be on Tuesday, as for what to wear just jeans and a nice t shirt or something, that way its not too stuffy and you should feel comfortable.

Where are you meeting on Tuesday?
#9
AshleyRFC
If you were yourself on msn and skype then thats how you should be on Tuesday, as for what to wear just jeans and a nice t shirt or something, that way its not too stuffy and you should feel comfortable.

Where are you meeting on Tuesday?

we live quite close so were meeting in a local bar, then going bowling.

I have not told her that i suffer from depression either, should I tell her on the first date or wait a while?
#10
J_Stunna
lol, I cant im to shy, I think she may be the one, I dont know though, im so nervous. my first ever date.

thanks for the advice, I know i should just relax and have fun, its easier said then done though



im male.


you saying you think she maybe the one already is a bad bad bad way to go about things. you havent even met her yet mate dont go getting your hopes up.
Fingers crossed it all works out well but tbh if you go in with the intentions if it being the best thing ever where u are married in 10days you will get your heart broken.
Go their see what happens and if all goes well do something again. Dont rush things tho let them happen naturally and if she really is the one you will know later on down the line!
#11
J_Stunna;5614172
we live quite close so were meeting in a local bar, then going bowling.

I have not told her that i suffer from depression either, should I tell her on the first date or wait a while?


how old are you ? :?
#12
tinkerbell28
Just wait and try not to worry, it will all come out in good time, don't feel like you have to bare your soul on the first date:thumbsup:


I agree.
#13
scotland88
you saying you think she maybe the one already is a bad bad bad way to go about things. you havent even met her yet mate dont go getting your hopes up.
Fingers crossed it all works out well but tbh if you go in with the intentions if it being the best thing ever where u are married in 10days you will get your heart broken.
Go their see what happens and if all goes well do something again. Dont rush things tho let them happen naturally and if she really is the one you will know later on down the line!

yeah your right, shes just the first girl I've actually bonded with, we get on so well and have so many things in common, the light of my day is just talking to her, sad i know.

thanks for advice everyone.
choc1969
how old are you ? :?

23
#14
J_Stunna;5614217
yeah your right, shes just the first girl I've actually bonded with, we get on so well and have so many things in common, the light of my day is just talking to her, sad i know.

thanks for advice everyone.

23


not at all

you're still quite young so take a deep breathe and take things slowly.....or you'll frighten her away

face to face is a whole new ball game, and IF it doesn't materialise that she's the love of your life at least you've made a new friend :)
#15
Good Luck, I hope it all goes well for you.

Nice to see that the post spoilers haven't hit this yet and started calling names, lets keep it like it is now, caring and sensitive.
#16
love the smiley face

http://www.taylormadeestore.com/2007/images/antenna/Heart_smiley_face_peace_statue.JPG

good luck
#17
Remember clean underwear !!
banned#18
get real picture of her and make sure she is not a moose
1 Like #19
Remember, be honest. Don't tell any porkies, you know that you're a pilot or a high flying business man, when really you're a bricky. If she is the one, you'll only have to talk your way out of the fact you drive a £400 car!!
banned#20
clean your teeth and get mum to check you look ok before you go out
banned#21
always practice safe sex
#22
stefor
Remember, be honest. Don't tell any porkies, you know that you're a pilot or a high flying business man, when really you're a bricky. If she is the one, you'll only have to talk your way out of the fact you drive a £400 car!!

lol she already knows what I do and everything, we have been talking for a while. thanks for the info.

dog_cop if you have not got nothing nice to say dont say nothing :(
#23
Relax, be yourself and take your time.
Ask her lots of questions about herself and listen to her answers.
Dont tell her your life story just yet - this is just a first date so you dont want to get too deep into really personal things at this stage, you just need to find out if you both 'click' face to face as opposed to only over the internet.
Good luck, wear anti-perspirant, smile lots and be yourself.


**if eating food - avoid anything spicy or with garlic, and dont get bladdered on booze**
#24
Offer To Pay For The Night Out She Will Like That M8 She Can Pay Next Time
#25
J_Stunna
lol, I cant im to shy, I think she may be the one, I dont know though, im so nervous. my first ever date.
thanks for the advice, I know i should just relax and have fun, its easier said then done though
im male.


Don't go saying anything stupid like "I think she may be the one", that's crazy axe murdering ish, you haven't even met her yet.

J_Stunna
we live quite close so were meeting in a local bar, then going bowling.
I have not told her that i suffer from depression either, should I tell her on the first date or wait a while?


Again, don't go saying anything stupid... why would you tell her that on a first date.

Good luck
#26
JasonMason
Relax, be yourself and take your time.
Ask her lots of questions about herself and listen to her answers.
Dont tell her your life story just yet - this is just a first date so you dont want to get too deep into really personal things at this stage, you just need to find out if you both 'click' face to face as opposed to only over the internet.
Good luck, wear anti-perspirant, smile lots and be yourself.


**if eating food - avoid anything spicy or with garlic, and dont get bladdered on booze**

i am going to watch a few chick flicks to see what the guys do there and what not to do. I know its a film and its not real but it can give me a few pointers.

thanks jason
#27
J_Stunna
we live quite close so were meeting in a local bar, then going bowling.

I have not told her that i suffer from depression either, should I tell her on the first date or wait a while?


If the subject comes up hon, then don't lie about it, it isn't anything to be ashamed of... just be honest and open about everything :)

One of the main things that really attracted me to my husband now is that he always trusted me completely from day one of our relationship...He was always startlingly honest with me and I felt so... special to him to be entrusted with all that honesty.

His honesty and trust bowled me over and made me promise to myself I'd never do anything to damage that.

Just relax with the girl.. you know her a little already, go out and have fun... dont expect too much on your first date and treat her like she is someone special to you then she will feel that she is.

Let us know how it goes x x
banned#28
depression is a serious illness and not to be confused with feeling down when things down feel right, to many people confuse these two, go out be yourself and have a nice time
#29
J_Stunna;5614427
i am going to watch a few chick flicks to see what the guys do there and what not to do. I know its a film and its not real but it can give me a few pointers.

thanks jason

Movies do not = real life.
You will not be saving the day, cheese does not work, and putting her on a pedestal will swiftly shunt her into the friend zone - if it becomes platonic, chances are it'll stay that way. You are a man, ffs act like it.
Women give the worst advice when it comes to dating - they will claim to want the nice guy, the sweet guy etc etc. Total crap - look what kind of guy gets the girl. Google "why do I stay with him" etc. "Just be yourself" is not good advice.
Be smart, funny, slightly cocky. Don't be a loser on the first date. At 23 your big enough and wise enough to know that "just being yourself" hasn't got you a date this far.

:whistling: So glad neg rep is gone having written that...
#30
J_Stunna
i am going to watch a few chick flicks to see what the guys do there and what not to do. I know its a film and its not real but it can give me a few pointers.

thanks jason



This can not be a serious thread with a quote like that....surely.....
#31
seancampbell
Movies do not = real life.
You will not be saving the day, cheese does not work, and putting her on a pedestal will swiftly shunt her into the friend zone - if it becomes platonic, chances are it'll stay that way. You are a man, ffs act like it.
Women give the worst advice when it comes to dating - they will claim to want the nice guy, the sweet guy etc etc. Total crap - look what kind of guy gets the girl. Google "why do I stay with him" etc. "Just be yourself" is not good advice.
Be smart, funny, slightly cocky. Don't be a loser on the first date. At 23 your big enough and wise enough to know that "just being yourself" hasn't got you a date this far.

:whistling: So glad neg rep is gone having written that...


sean :w00t:

how are you? long time no see!
#32
seancampbell

:whistling: So glad neg rep is gone having written that...

ilovepink
This can not be a serious thread with a quote like that....surely.....


Hey!... special needs have feelings too!!!
#33
loupomm;5614610
sean :w00t:

how are you? long time no see!

I'm good thanks, been a bit busy! Couldn't resist posting on this one though!
#34
Well done Jon, your be fine, let her do most of the talking.
#35
RuthIess;5614628
Well done Jason, your be fine, let her do most of the talking.


tinkerbell28;5614626
Just be yourself is fab advice, not everyone likes a cocky bloke, I actually think what the op has done is dead sweet.

Sweet = friend.
JBY = Not getting a date till 23 (assuming this isn't a troll!)
1 Like #36
tinkerbell28
:x


Really though... 23, "she's the one" attitude - when hasn't even met her, ready to divulge into their life story and depression on first date. Willing to watch some films to see how/what to say on a first date. If this thread isn't a joke, then the OP is. That's not me being horrible, that's just the unfortunate truth.
#37
Make sure you have a shower, shave brush teeth etc. Dress smart, be polite, hold doors open, buy her a drink, don't be a smartass/ put her down, don't tell her about your depression it is not something she would expect you to tell her on the first date. Don't scare her off by being too full on. Be prepared for things to be completely different face to face, I have been in this situation before and felt completely different when I met the person and really embarassed about all the stuff we had talked about.
#38
ClarityofMind
If the subject comes up hon, then don't lie about it, it isn't anything to be ashamed of... just be honest and open about everything :)

One of the main things that really attracted me to my husband now is that he always trusted me completely from day one of our relationship...He was always startlingly honest with me and I felt so... special to him to be entrusted with all that honesty.

His honesty and trust bowled me over and made me promise to myself I'd never do anything to damage that.

Just relax with the girl.. you know her a little already, go out and have fun... dont expect too much on your first date and treat her like she is someone special to you then she will feel that she is.

Let us know how it goes x x

thanks for the info, very good people on here.
sassie
depression is a serious illness and not to be confused with feeling down when things down feel right, to many people confuse these two, go out be yourself and have a nice time

I have depression, and thanks im to try and enjoy my self, just nervous as hell lol.
RuthIess
Well done Jason, your be fine, let her do most of the talking.

i was saying thanks jason as that was the posters name, my names Jon:-D
#39
Jon, hopefully you can tell which people know what they're talking about and which are just flexing their egos by moving their fingers and act accordingly.

Good luck on your date and have fun x x
#40
hukd don
Really though... 23, "she's the one" attitude - when hasn't even met her, ready to divulge into their life story and depression on first date. Willing to watch some films to see how/what to say on a first date. If this thread isn't a joke, then the OP is. That's not me being horrible, that's just the unfortunate truth.


Probably people like you that's dented his confidence in the first place!
Relax & don't think about things to much as this will make you anxious, clear your mind & just go with the flow :thumbsup:

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