Ok guys i know this has been discussed before but i thought i'd air my annoyance with you all again and ask for a serious discussion to how you view them!
right - a while ago i joined quite a few and regulary logged on and chatted to blokes etc and accumulated a couple of nice friends to chat to, so i thought! - One turned out to be a perv who was clearly looking to just get his jollies over the net and the other was talking to a friend of mine on the same site, nothing wrong in that as we were only chatting not getting married etc, except he was using the exact same lines/chat! pmsl!
Now today i logged on to a couple of sites and it seems nothing changes, there seems to be alot of men wanting sex, alot of profiles suggest this in many different ways, im NOT suggesting all men are like this before anyone gets annoyed lol, but i would like you men out there to tell me if any of you take such sites seriously or are they just a laugh iyo?
my main questions are?
Am i wasting time with them or are there any genuine users?
what sites do you/did you use/recommend?
Any success stories?
And how long do you chat to someone before risking meeting them? how do you know they are genuine etc?
one last one for you men, does a women having kids put you off dating them, honestly?
And yes im bored and feeling lonely today :)