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Do you think a leopard can change there spots? (liars, thieves, murderers etc)

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I know I've changed a lot because I believen what I'm doing but do you think murderers liars, thieves, cheats and gamblers etc can change there spots or are they destined to live out there lives as sc… Read More
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7y, 10m agoPosted 7 years, 10 months ago
I know I've changed a lot because I believen what I'm doing but do you think murderers liars, thieves, cheats and gamblers etc can change there spots or are they destined to live out there lives as scum?

Like I said, I changed drastically to improve myself and people cannot believe the transformation and it's not something I've been doing for days but I've kept it up for years because I had the right mentality to WANT to change.

So what do you think? :)
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7y, 10m agoPosted 7 years, 10 months ago
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#1
I think you've answered your own question.
#2
They can change, but that doesnt mean they will stay changed. People will use the resources that they are confident in using and ones that are effective. And when it comes to the crunch then sure as hit they will fall back on those. :)
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StevenA2000_uk
They can change, but that doesnt mean they will stay changed. People will use the resources that they are confident in using and ones that are effective. And when it comes to the crunch then sure as hit they will fall back on those. :)


I think that's true in most people but I don't think that applies to everyone, as I am living proof of that. :)
#4
I agree with "the saint", you have answered your own question.

You have changed, so can other people.

Just because a person is a liar or thief it does not mean they stay like that all their lives.

I was watching a gardeing program the other day and it featured a guy who was a drug addict who stole from a garage and went to prison.

When he came out he decided to get off drugs and go straight. He got involved in local projects for ex-offenders and finsihed up helping to design a garden at this years Chelsea Flower show.

http://www.24dash.com/news/Housing/2009-05-19-The-Key-turns-silver-for-200-homeless-and-disadvantaged-gardeners-at-Chelsea
#5
That's very true Guilbert, like I said though, he had a realisation and wanted to make the change to better himself.

That's definitely an inspiring story and I hope everyone takes note on how to better themselves. :)
#6
I've seen people radically change their behaviour overnight. One guy I know, an alcoholic for almost ten years, gave the booze up for good. I believe that people will stay what they are unless they have the determination to better themselves.
#7
I think the people who really want to change can, I think if it's something they are willing to fight for, put in the hard work, sweat and sometimes tears it can take to change then they can.

Other people say they will change but never do, and never will, these people are not really interested in changing and are only interested in pretending to change to get people to believe in them again, normally for thier own gain
#8
i think most people can change it all come with being happy and content alot of people that steal cheat and lie are unhappy people and also depends on the way there life has gone so if they change there live to be more happier then sure they change as for murderers i personally think if you are capable to do it in the first place then they always have that with them i hope i am making sense here lol.
#9
Most people have the capacity to change. However, people like yourself, are 1 in a million. Good luck to you and well done but the majority will always remain scum.
#10
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Most people have the capacity to change. However, people like yourself, are 1 in a million. Good luck to you and well done but the majority will always remain scum.


That's unfortunately probably true.

I know I'll never go back to what I once was, as I've matured and learned what life's all about. :)
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A person isn't a "murderer" or a "thief" or a "criminal" and perceiving them in that way labels them as something negative, which is ultimately destructive.

A person is an individual and all individuals have the capacity for great good and great evil.

It is the behaviour which must change, not the individual as such. We are all human beings.

RFM are you having a bit of an identity crisis just lately? Your post yesterday covered a similar field.

We have all done things we may be ashamed of. The past is only important because we learn from our actions then. The future is what you make of it.

The present is what is important, all we do in the here and now is who we truly are.

Hope this helps x x
#12
I'm not having any identity crisis but I know some people that are. :)

My friends situation still hasn't been sorted though...really need to show him the thread but will probably do it tomorrow, as I have a wedding to prepare for. :)
#13
yes , sometimes its called growing up. it just some of us do more extreme things than others.

some of us need a reason to change eg starting a family, finding a good woman/man

well done x x x x
#14
realfriendlyman
I'm not having any identity crisis but I know some people that are. :)

My friends situation still hasn't been sorted though...really need to show him the thread but will probably do it tomorrow, as I have a wedding to prepare for. :)


is he asking questions? you seem to be wondering what makes some people stop cheating.

if you're feeling guilty for past mistakes.. dont.

the past is history.

if your current girlfriend knows all that and she chooses to be with you anyway, you're laughing x x

P.S. No-one is "scum". It's never helpful to call others names and can be dangerous for your own self.
#15
ClarityofMind
is he asking questions? you seem to be wondering what makes some people stop cheating.

if you're feeling guilty for past mistakes.. dont.

the past is history.

if your current girlfriend knows all that and she chooses to be with you anyway, you're laughing x x


The past is history but it should never be forgotten because the people that don't believe change will repeat...that's why we have history lessons to teach people about others mistakes....I can't think of any other use for it. :giggle:
#16
realfriendlyman
The past is history but it should never be forgotten because the people that don't believe change will repeat...that's why we have history lessons to teach people about others mistakes....I can't think of any other use for it. :giggle:


My daughter is going to Auschwitz, Poland to visit a concentration camp soon.

I remember the first time I walked through those gates, my hands touching the sides of the tunnels thinking... the people who walked through here so many years ago were walking to their death. It's like one can sink ones fingers into the very walls and feel their pain.

The past helps us remember so that we can make things better in the future.

But it isn't wise to focus too much upon the past. It isn't fair to stir guilt within others. We all have to come to terms with who we are, to perceive ourselves in a positive light.

I fully believe what happens in the course of true love, is meant to happen.

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