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bellabonkers Avatar
8y, 1m agoPosted 8 years, 1 month ago
People pester then all the time but have nothing in particular to talk about? I have some friends and one friend in particular who thinks it is his god given right to pester me on msn all the time even if there is nothing new to chat about. I'll say Hi...he says Hi, then its like are you not talking to me or he nudges me...and if I don't reply on msn my mobile rings, and If i don't reply to that the house phone rings...and I get "are you not talking to me" then I'm like we chatted on msn at 5pm this afternoon...i've nothing to talk about aghhhh. he's just took a major huff on me cos I was sitting watching a DVD and had supposedly ignored him on here and on my mobile (which was in fact just silent) then he wanted me to talk about work at half ten on a Friday night MY work not his and I didn't so was just going yeah, right hmmm and I told him I didn't want to talk about it. so now he's spat out his dummy and canceled going out for a meal with me tomorrow evening. Do other people have these problems or is it just me?
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8y, 1m agoPosted 8 years, 1 month ago
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banned#1
please dont tell me hes a hukd member
#2
sassie
please dont tell me hes a hukd member


No not at all, i wouldnt post if he was!
#3
stalker??
banned#4
bellabonkers
No not at all, i wouldnt post if he was!


oh its just said, because you ignored him on here :?
#5
shanecr
stalker??


I've known him since I was 21 he's an old friend but it just seems that sometimes he can't leave me alone
#6
sassie
oh its just said, because you ignored him on here :?


sorry, I meant on here as in on my pc - on msn
banned#7
bellabonkers
sorry, I meant on here as in on my pc - on msn


oh thank the lordy for that, thought it was a little unfair of you to do this (thinking they where a member here)
#8
hi bella :) he's still giving you grief then? :-( put him on block :lol:
banned#9
bellabonkers
I've known him since I was 21 he's an old friend but it just seems that sometimes he can't leave me alone


maybe he is lonely, have you tried to talk to him about his behaviour, maybe that would help
banned#10
I can think of one. Fortunately I had the good sense to tell him to slig his hook.
#11
sassie
maybe he is lonely, have you tried to talk to him about his behaviour, maybe that would help


lol that might open a can of worms :whistling:
#12
yeh, I would say he has a problem hun. Talk to him about it, it sounds like he wants more from u than u want to offer. :thumbsup:
#13
cheerleader
hi bella :) he's still giving you grief then? :-( put him on block :lol:


you know what even when I am offline or marked as busy or away he is there!!! If I go offline I get I can see you...which of course he can't
#14
sassie
please dont tell me hes a hukd member


Yeah that was my first thought cos there are people like that here

Bella, I have friends like that so you are not alone. My problem is I end up feeling bad and go out of my way to make it right which in reality makes it worse
banned#15
shanecr
lol that might open a can of worms :whistling:


well aint that what we do in the real world if we have a problem
#16
hannah19790
yeh, I would say he has a problem hun. Talk to him about it, it sounds like he wants more from u than u want to offer. :thumbsup:


Hannah he has a long term partner, and he is not of that persuasion anyway....I just don't get his sudden need to be in my life at every given moment. God knows I love him but he's just so...I dunno huffy.
#17
sassie
well aint that what we do in the real world if we have a problem


not me. bottle it all up baby :whistling:
#18
Glad you cleared that up with Sass i could have put money on which HUKD member it was if you hadnt :whistling:

Dont mix virtuality with reality, thats my motto...keep them seperate xxx
banned#19
shanecr
not me. bottle it all up baby :whistling:


nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, not good
#20
sassie
nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, not good


yah lol. i know, but it works for me. I hate bothering people. Mainly because i hate being bothered myself. Am i selfish?
#21
fireheaven
Yeah that was my first thought cos there are people like that here

Bella, I have friends like that so you are not alone. My problem is I end up feeling bad and go out of my way to make it right which in reality makes it worse


Sorry, I just needed a little bit of a rant about it. even last night while I was out with another friend of mine my mobile went a few times..it was mega inconvenient for me to answer so I text when I had a chance...to be greeted with more missed calls and in the end a text..are you not answering!!
banned#22
shanecr
yah lol. i know, but it works for me. I hate bothering people. Mainly because i hate being bothered myself. Am i selfish?


trouble is how does the person thats botherig you know there bothering you if nothing is said, so its ok to blame them for being a pain in the butt, but a little unfair if they dont know they are being a pain in your butt
#23
sounds like he wants to do the nasty , why else would a man hover about a woman for so long :thumbsup:
#24
sassie
trouble is how does the person thats botherig you know there bothering you if nothing is said, so its ok to blame them for being a pain in the butt, but a little unfair if they dont know they are being a pain in your butt


Um not quite what i meant...........if someone has personal problems they should tackle them with the person thats causing it...not me.
banned#25
shanecr
Um not quite what i meant...........if someone has personal problems they should tackle them with the person thats causing it...not me.


oh right get ya ;-)
#26
snowflake
Glad you cleared that up with Sass i could have put money on which HUKD member it was if you hadnt :whistling:

Dont mix virtuality with reality, thats my motto...keep them seperate xxx


Oh my - who were you thinking?
#27
bellabonkers
Hannah he has a long term partner, and he is not of that persuasion anyway....I just don't get his sudden need to be in my life at every given moment. God knows I love him but he's just so...I dunno huffy.


sounds like he's just really needy, maybe he's feelin abit down at mo. Talk to him about it, maybe he just doesn't realise (although I can't see how to be honest):thumbsup:
#28
starsparkle2311
Having a LTP has nowt to do with it, sounds like a slimeball, keep away, don't be shy of hurting his feelings, tell him straight JOG ON!:thumbsup:


whats a LTP..i have known him for 14yrs, he seems to have become needy. ive tried telling him...still spits out the dummy.
#29
hannah19790
sounds like he's just really needy, maybe he's feelin abit down at mo. Talk to him about it, maybe he just doesn't realise (although I can't see how to be honest):thumbsup:


He isnt working at the moment (through choice!) He's full of this good advice for me, but every time we chat has turned into a lecture. it's wearing me down.
#30
starsparkle2311
I thought you said he has a long term partner!:?


he has but I dont know what LTP means?
doh im being thick in my tiss - got it now!
#31
bellabonkers;3341805
He isnt working at the moment (through choice!) He's full of this good advice for me, but every time we chat has turned into a lecture. it's wearing me down.

awww :friends:
#32
cheerleader
awww :friends:


lol you know how long this has been getting to me as well dont you cheer!
#33
bellabonkers
He isnt working at the moment (through choice!) He's full of this good advice for me, but every time we chat has turned into a lecture. it's wearing me down.


Ur gonna have to put ur foot down hun, even if it means he gets the hump and u fll out. If he's the friend u say then it may make him think and apologise:thumbsup:
#34
bellabonkers;3341829
lol you know how long this has been getting to me as well dont you cheer!

yep - too long!!! :-( :whistling:
#35
hannah19790
Ur gonna have to put ur foot down hun, even if it means he gets the hump and u fll out. If he's the friend u say then it may make him think and apologise:thumbsup:


Once we went out for lunch together and he disagreed with something I said so he got up and left me...complete with two plates full of food. He just got up and flounced out the pub like a right drama queen. A couple of days later he was so appologetic. The games are getting a little thin now.
#36
bellabonkers
he has but I dont know what LTP means?
doh im being thick in my tiss - got it now!


Long term partner I believe:thumbsup:
#37
hannah19790;3341833
Ur gonna have to put ur foot down hun, even if it means he gets the hump and u fll out. If he's the friend u say then it may make him think and apologise:thumbsup:

i keep telling her that she needs to stick up for herself, so well said hannah :thumbsup: the more people that tell her then maybe she'll start doing it :-)
#38
bellabonkers
Once we went out for lunch together and he disagreed with something I said so he got up and left me...complete with two plates full of food. He just got up and flounced out the pub like a right drama queen. A couple of days later he was so appologetic. The games are getting a little thin now.


Bl00dy ell, I don't do stroppy, just not patient enough. U seem to have done ur fair share for him. I would have to tell him this time that it is the LAST time ur gonna take it:thumbsup:
#39
starsparkle2311;3341883
For goodness sake Bella, you're worth more, sounds like he's taking the total lend!! You wanna know how I know? Been there done it, it hurts like hell, but tell him to do one, and move on, he ain't a friend!!!!

:thumbsup:
#40
I expect to go back into the living room to find a few text msgs of one sort or another. I know I shouldnt let something so minor stress me out

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