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Another driver at my work has been disciplined for calling one of the female employees that meet us in the morning to recieve the store deliveries, 'beautiful' In her statement she wrote that he s…
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banned8y, 5m agoPosted 8 years, 5 months ago
Another driver at my work has been disciplined for calling one of the female employees that meet us in the morning to recieve the store deliveries, 'beautiful'

In her statement she wrote that he said to her....'morning beautiful',....which she took as an sexual innuendo.

Apparantly now this is deemed as sexual harrasment. I live in Yorkshire and the common term used by men for women here is 'love', or 'darlin' where I came from down south. I have to say, some women really need to get over themselves.
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banned8y, 5m agoPosted 8 years, 5 months ago
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#1
lol-now thats really stupid!
#2
thats pretty ****....ALTHOUGH...

without knowing all the in's and out's we shouldnt judge.....the guy could have been feeling her up for the past 6 months, against her will !!!!!
#3
I think that commenting on a person's looks unless they are a good friend can be construed as being over-familiar but not necessarily a sexual innuendo.
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#4
One of the catering team in my old job got cautioned (by the police) after he was heard to say What can I get for you my luvver? to a female customer. He was suspended from his post for a couple of weeks after she made a formal complaint. WTF ?

The fact that its a Bristolian saying and harmless, the silly bint should have been grateful. A lot of us say it. Made us all mad so we wrote angry letters to the head of catering.
#5
Duh, she's just trying to get some money!!
#6
the world has gone bonkers imo :roll:
banned#7
shocking isnt it Ultimo
#8
http://neatorama.cachefly.net/images/2007-11/bizarro-magic-baby.JPG
#9
http://www.tu-chemnitz.de/phil/leo/bilder_neu/politicallycorrect.jpg
#10
These stories wind me up - the moment you worry is when no-one calls you beautiful!

I get called affectionate cute names all the time by the girls or ladies I know - I like it and can see no possble harm in it - though it's hard to really know the ins and outs of this specific case - without specific or actual knowledge, nor the tone of voice used.

All nonsense really, our great grandparents fought through world wars for this carp?
#11
I call everyone hun........apologise to those who I've offended/led on etc etc :oops:
















NOT
banned#12
k13 wjd
thats pretty ****....ALTHOUGH...

without knowing all the in's and out's we shouldnt judge.....the guy could have been feeling her up for the past 6 months, against her will !!!!!


Nah first time he had met her :roll:
banned#13
midjet666
Duh, she's just trying to get some money!!


Or attention cos she's so hard up :thumbsup:
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jellybaby22
or some men need to keep their mouths closed....:thumbsup:


Agreed :thumbsup:

k13 wjd
without knowing all the in's and out's we shouldnt judge.....the guy could have been feeling her up for the past 6 months, against her will !!!!!


also true, context is everything. The case is being reported from the man's perspective here...

crd67
I think that commenting on a person's looks unless they are a good friend can be construed as being over-familiar but not necessarily a sexual innuendo.
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Not necessarily, but it can be. I've seen lots of laddish behaviour that is clearly sexual and directed against women in a way that obviously makes them feel uncomfortable, and if it does, it's wrong. I'm guessing that this woman made it clear to this man on a number of previous occasions that she wasn't comfortable with his behaviour, and if she did and he didn't stop, then he overstepped the mark. Some people simply have to learn that sexist behaviour isn't tolerated as much as it once was :)

choc1969
http://neatorama.cachefly.net/images/2007-11/bizarro-magic-baby.JPG


You may laugh, but the cartoon is poking as much fun at theists as the so-called pc brigade. In fact, 'magic baby' just about sums up all this silly christian hocus pocus! :thumbsup:
#15
That's what is great about regions of our country - that we have particular "sayings" or how we call people. God forbid if we can't call each other "alright my luvver" or "mate" or "hello treacle" - There is no malice in it - its being friendly for God's sake! As for "beautiful" - what a lovely thing to call someone - it would make my day!!
banned#16
ODB_69
shocking isnt it Ultimo


Shocking how, women think that just cos a bloke is being friendly, they are trying to get into their knickers........but then I suppose some women would feel that way.
#17
Foosball Chum
Nah first time he had met her :roll:


:thinking: Just to say - I wouldn't usually call a stranger 'beautiful' - without her being a friend of a friend or something. Maybe 'love' if I was feeling real cheeky n' confident lol

Still too much pc nonsense by the sounds of it.
banned#18
Train Driver
If he had called her a dog I bet she still wouldn't be happy.............You just can't please some women:whistling:


of course you can, but only when their interested - lol
#19
Or "hello ordinary looking woman..."
banned#20
starsparkle2311
Oh ffs! Are we all supposed to walk round like unemotional robots! It comes to something when a man/woman is made to feel like some sort of criminal for trying to make an otherwise ****** world happier by giving someone a lighthearted cheery greeting. I'm from up North, not that that should have anything to do with it, but it's lovely to hear someone say hello pet, darling. love, whateva? If you're gonna get you're knickers in a twist over something so innocent you really need to loosen up a bit!:-D


Yeah you think they would really, still......what can you say :roll:
banned#21
franbo60
"hello ordinary looking woman..."


hi ya :thumbsup:
#22
Foosball Chum
Or attention cos she's so hard up :thumbsup:


Foosball Chum
Shocking how, women think that just cos a bloke is being friendly, they are trying to get into their knickers........but then I suppose some women would feel that way.


See it from another perspective: look at what you've written above. Your words betray your attitude towards women, attitudes which might be perceived as worthy of the term 'shocking'...





Or don't see it from this other perspective. All I can do is lead the horse to the water... :)
#23
Train Driver
If he had called her a dog I bet she still wouldn't be happy.


Why would you want to call a woman a dog? :? Again, the irony here is that of course you are unlikely to see this story from the woman's perspective - how could you if you can say things like this..? Sorry to be a bore, but someone's gotta be on these important issues :thumbsup:
#24
starsparkle2311
WTF are you on about? :-D


Seems pretty clear to me - the only thing I left out was "...but you can't make it drink" :)
#25
A lot of blokes here in Yorkshire call women "duck".....................................
#26
Liddle ol' me
Why would you want to call a woman a dog? :? Again, the irony here is that of course you are unlikely to see this story from the woman's perspective - how could you if you can say things like this..? Sorry to be a bore, but someone's gotta be on these important issues :thumbsup:


It was a poor attempt at post modern ironic humour from me:oops:
#27
donnydude
A lot of blokes here in Yorkshire call women "duck".....................................


thats a Nottm saying round here " Aye Up Me Duck! :p but its said to both sexes
#28
Train Driver
It was a poor attempt at post modern ironic humour from me:oops:


I thought it was a good attempt lmao
#29
Train Driver
It was a poor attempt at post modern ironic humour from me:oops:


Yes, I accept that, especially as I noticed that you had deleted the comment by the time I posted. :thumbsup:
#30
robtallica
:thinking: Just to say - I wouldn't usually call a stranger 'beautiful' - without her being a friend of a friend or something. Maybe 'love' if I was feeling real cheeky n' confident lol

Still too much pc nonsense by the sounds of it.


Really??
That surprises me, blokes down here (Essex) always call us girly's 'darling', 'beautiful', 'love' etc.. it dont bother me one bit - I also don't mind the door bein held open for me:roll:
#31
sassie
hi ya :thumbsup:


sassie why have u been blanking all of my pms pmsl!:p
#32
bitseylango
thats a Nottm saying round here " Aye Up Me Duck! :p but its said to all three sexes


That's Nottingham for you:-D
#33
Train Driver
That's Nottingham for you:-D


http://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/midi/konfus/c018.gif
#34
dont you live in ely?
#35
Mclovin
dont you live in ely?


who? me? no :?
#36
bitseylango
who? me? no :?


Your secret life is catching up on you:-D
#37
Train Driver
Your secret life is catching up on you:-D


jellybaby22
bitsey...u have something to tell us??? :p


*Bitsey heads for the door before her cover is blown! :whistling:
#38
jellybaby22
looooooooooooool
run bitsey run ......


lol! some people can run but they cant hide :thumbsup:
#39
I would like to think that anybody calling out "hey beautiful" was trying to make me feel good ( so long as there was no prior unwanted cat calling/persistent embarrassment comments). We should learn to moderate our speech if it is offensive, but don't cut our language up any more or cut out "humourisms" or " regionalisms" because then we aren' t a unique culture anymore.
#40
evening ppl good job she doesnt work at the same place as me she.d be putting a complaint in ever 5 mins not many ppl get called by their correct names it just goes with the job its abit of fun :-D

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