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pinkshaz Avatar
6y, 7m agoPosted 6 years, 7 months ago
i am doing this but i lost my friend as everyone knows a couple of weeks back and it was hard and then her mum went also i am sooo hurt...
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6y, 7m agoPosted 6 years, 7 months ago
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#1
she went on the monday and her mum went on the friday th 19th march!
banned 1 Like #2
wulshaz
she went on the monday and her mum went on the friday th 19th march!


is that meant to be the tag line to your joke, because i don't get it.
#3
wulshaz
she went on the monday and her mum went on the friday th 19th march!


:? Where'd they go? :?
#4
lumoruk
is that meant to be a joke, because i don't get it.


and your 1st joke was sick? did you think i never seen it!!!
she died on the 15th and the mum on the 19th and ps thanks for the support!!!
#5
starsparkle2311
I don't know why you're doing it either, you must know some of the idiotic replies you will get (see above).

Sorry to hear of your loss btw


^^this
#6
hope they RIP :)
#7
maybe i just want a release i give lots of support on her and would like some back!
#8
bossyboots
^^this


please do not reply in my thread unless it is geuine i do hurt you know!
#9
wulshaz
please do not reply in my thread unless it is geuine i do hurt you know!


alcohol & emotion are not a good mix.
#10
ilovelilac
hope they RIP :)


thank you it does hurt she was only young.
#11
starsparkle2311
I don't know why you're doing it either, you must know some of the idiotic replies you will get (see above).

Sorry to hear of your loss btw


bossyboots
^^this


Are you two takin the Michael Fish?......its not as if you pair are the pillars of sincerity on here!!! :p
#12
Dealing with the loss of loved ones and liked ones is hard... brings the total realisation of the futility of unimportant worries... and how quickly crap happens, and how much crap there really is.

Hope you are ok Wulshaz, and if not hope you come to terms as soon as possible.

We are all strangers on here and maybe not the place for "support"... but certainly understanding.
#13
bossyboots;8329840
alcohol & emotion are not a good mix.

alcohol and fun are though (there I go again oops inappropriate):oops:
#14
uh oh
1 Like #15
StevenA2000_uk
Are you two takin the Michael Fish?......its not as if you pair are the pillars of sincerity on here!!! :p


:p
#16
bossyboots
alcohol & emotion are not a good mix.

why do you always come up with that? i did not reply in your thread the other week with lulu,s mammy and your drunken thread? thank you but it does not always come down to alcohol!
#17
wulshaz
maybe i just want a release i give lots of support on her and would like some back!


have you got mutual friends with the friend that passed... maybe talk to them as they know what you're going through

just take it easy, its hard losing someone you love but hey that life you have to get over it sometime even though you might remember them and have a cry every now and then but you cant let it hold you back, this is coming from someone that has experienced many losses in her lifetime :thumbsup:
#18
Lots of insensitive people around, what happened btw, whats the story? 2 deaths so close to each other, sad stuff :(
#19
if ppl have nothing good or encouraging to say prob best not to say anything? gosh! :roll:
#20
starsparkle2311
Yeh like you're one to talk, sorry Wulshaz, I'll leave now
#thank you anyway
banned#21
wulshaz
and your 1st joke was sick? did you think i never seen it!!!
she died on the 15th and the mum on the 19th and ps thanks for the support!!!


soz but I thought you were doing a **** take on that thread from earlier with the woman whos husband was walking out on her, while she was sat on her computer talking to us.
1 Like #22
starsparkle2311
Yeh like you're one to talk, sorry Wulshaz, I'll leave now


LOL wot? the OP never mentioned anything about them passing away ffs!!!

for all we know they could have fallen out and left her ...or went on holiday or summit fcs!!!

some people :roll:
#23
lumoruk
soz but I thought you were doing a **** take on that thread from earlier with the woman whos husband was walking out on her, while she was sat on her computer talking to us.

sorry a dont know anything about that :oops:
#24
starsparkle2311
sad reflection on your life, yes many peeps probably do leave you, without giving a reason, maybe you should take time out and think why? lol

Think it's pretty obvious what the OP is getting at, once again I shall leave this thread.

Soz wulshaz, but I had to reply to the insensitive wenker, yes, I just HAD to:whistling:


Wow..personal attack and hate. Lowest form. :roll:

Edit : and nothing is obvious on here.
banned#25
really sorry to hear this wulshaz, i know nobodys words or comfort will help and its something you neer really get over, you just learn to handle it better with time, its ok to feel like crap, although alot of hukd members no longer seems able to show compassion there are still some who can still see someones misery, take care x
#26
StevenA2000_uk
Wow..personal attack and hate. Lowest form. :roll:

Edit : and nothing is obvious on here.


Especially if you have got the personality of a Psychopath and the brains of a piece of string. This was pretty obvious and you should have left well alone.... DH
#27
jonb2412
Especially if you have got the personality of a Psychopath and the brains of a piece of string. This was pretty obvious and you should have left well alone.... DH


and people shouldnt post in misc if they know fine well the types of responses they will get. DH
#28
sassie
really sorry to hear this wulshaz, i know nobodys words or comfort will help and its something you neer really get over, you just learn to handle it better with time, its ok to feel like crap, although alot of hukd members no longer seems able to show compassion there are still some who can still see someones misery, take care x

thank you sassie and i do appreciate it and it does hurt with no doubt what else can i say? nothing unless you have been there you will understand!
#29
StevenA2000_uk
and people shouldnt post in misc if they know fine well the types of responses they will get. DH


There's always hope that some people will eventually grow up and realise there voice is not always needed or required. KH
#30
jonb2412
There's always hope that some people will eventually grow up and realise there voice is not always needed or required. KH


pathetic, get a life. KH
#31
yes thank you as some people have no idea of the hurt i/we have went through the last few weeks it has been terrible but we are trying to cope!
banned#32
wulshaz
thank you sassie and i do appreciate it and it does hurt with no doubt what else can i say? nothing unless you have been there you will understand!


you dont have to say anything else really, and people shouldn't have to have been where you are to feel for you
#33
starsparkle2311;8329936
I was under the impression that only people possessing such qualities could sign up to to this forum, brb checking the registration rules...............................

Nah its anybody...Im here:-D
#34
sassie
you dont have to say anything else really, and people shouldn't have to have been where you are to feel for you

thank you honestly anyway goodnight sassie :thumbsup:
banned 1 Like #35
wulshaz
thank you honestly anyway goodnight sassie :thumbsup:


take care, and give yourself time to feel however you do, night x
#36
StevenA2000_uk
pathetic, get a life. KH


You are so right.... sorry

My apologies Wulshaz... I guess experiencing a death unfortunately is a requirement in realising the reality of it.... having lost parents, uncles, aunties and a brother I know how it made and still makes me feel, and sometimes the surreal nature of it all hits hard. The pain is harsh, but as the saying goes.. life goes on. Again... hope you become ok... Sorry
#37
starsparkle2311;8329943
lol, you make me laugh:-D

Thanks thats a first:thinking:
1 Like #38
Why do people refer to the dead as "lost"? We know exactly where they are (sometimes in life we don't even know that much), yes they are gone but not forgotten, the only thing I would change about the British culture is the morbid view of death, don't mourn the life that no longer is but celebrate the life they had, why do we have to be so gloomy?

Get together with shared friends & family and remember the good times.
#39
harlzter
Why do people refer to the dead as "lost"? We know exactly where they are (sometimes in life we don't even know that much), yes they are gone but not forgotten, the only thing I would change about the British culture is the morbid view of death, don't mourn the life that no longer is but celebrate the life they had, why do we have to be so gloomy?

Get together with shared friends & family and remember the good times.


I agree.... but the mourning process cannot be just this, its an important part, but so is the sadness of the loss.... Its not a morbid view of death, it's a personal experience.
1 Like #40
harlzter
Why do people refer to the dead as "lost"? We know exactly where they are (sometimes in life we don't even know that much), yes they are gone but not forgotten, the only thing I would change about the British culture is the morbid view of death, don't mourn the life that no longer is but celebrate the life they had, why do we have to be so gloomy?

Get together with shared friends & family and remember the good times.


its easier to celebrate life if a person died old, like my grandma when she died we celebrated her life cos she achieved a lot and stuff lots of party and food etc obviously some sadness but if a person dies young some untimely death or murdered its not as easy to celebrate their life trust me cos you feel cheated but like i said before you'll have to get over it sometime and move on with it and try to keep remember the time you had with them good memories etc

i've experienced so much death in my life that if i hear someone i know died today i prob wont cry im not scared of death :thumbsup:

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