I bought an item 3 months ago he replies to my first message 3 weeks after i purchased it but still didnt recieve the item. He tells me he was involved in a car accident (a bad one) and that i shouldnt bother him. I left it 2 weeks and messaged him agian he didnt say anything in return than the other day i went on e bay for first time since than and find out he is no longer registered. I have not recieved my item and i have lost money. how do i get a refund now. ??????????