Ok so im single and have been for a while, started talking to some girls I know and I have a few that seem interested, one seems very interested other seems almost as interested but im not sure if its just as im sweet, other is a girl I like who works in Tesco but always says hi to me and gets me to talk to her even if my shopping it on a different belt and always smiles at me, shes very pretty and sweet.
The first girl is 30 years old and wanting to settle down, she was with a guy for 4 years who became abusive towards the end or went drinking every night and never contacted her.
Second is 21 and very sweet and giggly, we spend 4 hours on MSN(before I went to bed as I had toothache) she told me about her ex how she was with him 3 years and lived and had a mortgage with him, how her dad left her mum after she had 2 miscarriages, then a baby with cerebral palsy then got post natal depression and tried to take the kids away from her mum. How she was bullied at school for being overweight(prob why shes very slim and pretty now)
Third girl I like and id say is the more traditional good looking of the most, is very girly and giggly and has an Irish accent, we also have very similar interests like she is doing the degree im thinking of changing to.
So its go for the 30 year old and have a fast relationship with settling down quick and a traditional relationship
Go for the 21 year old(the second one) who like most her age likes some nights out and spending time with friends.
Or try some more with the 19 year old who I know little about but "click"
Also im out of practise with relationships, most of mine are just more female friends i.e we go up town to shops then come back and watch a dvd, or go clubbing never had a "date" as such. But the first one in particular has invited me out for a coffee at a local cafe sometime which I have never done.
So I dont know to be a total gentleman and hold her chair and help her to sit down and buy a present(shes curvy so not sure if choccys are good) or to try it with the 2nd or 3rd girl as I like all 3 in different ways.