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humadoon Avatar
7y, 9m agoPosted 7 years, 9 months ago
My m8 is in big trouble ..what happened is that his gf is pregnant ..but he don't wants the baby..
basically what happened is that the gf told kevin (my m8) dat she is taking pills so they dont need to use the condoms...but after few months she told him dat she is pregnant and she is not faking cause we have seen her reports...

What does the Law says and what would u recommend..he is asking me for advice and i've got nothing to tell him..
:(
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7y, 9m agoPosted 7 years, 9 months ago
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#1
Jeremy Kyle?
#2
Nothing he can do if he doesn't want the baby and she does.

Tell him to use condoms next time !
#3
I suggest he grows up and you learn English.
#4
deb8z
Nothing he can do if he doesn't want the baby and she does.

Tell him to use condoms next time !


+1

Girls lie
#5
suchafunkymonkey
I suggest he grows up and you learn English.


:-D
#6
I suggest your "m8" starts saving up, the kid's gonna be expensive.
#7
well always wear a bloody man ....... then he won't be in this position

he has 2 choices ... 1 is the ideal 1 is immoral

1. take on the child and make a family with his gf
2. walk away and let her fend for herself

anyways its both their responsibilities to use contraception .. one use one method, the other as no method is 100% safe
#8
suchafunkymonkey
I suggest he grows up and you learn English.


Sorry bruda not interested in learning english...:whistling:
#9
Its OK us taxpayers will pick up the bill :thumbsup:
#10
faevilangel
well always wear a bloody man ....... then he won't be in this position

he has 2 choices ... 1 is the ideal 1 is immoral

1. take on the child and make a family with his gf
2. walk away and let her fend for herself

anyways its both their responsibilities to use contraception .. one use one method, the other as no method is 100% safe


Well def its a lesson for everyman...i dont think anyone would like to live with such bitch who can lie about such serious ..

i think he might need to opt the 2nd option..
#11
humadoon
Sorry bruda not interested in learning english...:whistling:

Dont ask for English points of the view then :)
#12
Put bluntly....The man has no right to tell the woman what to do with her body and their child.

No contraceptive is 100% effective.. if you can't risk a child.. abstain!

Time for him to face his responsibilities.

Best start saving!
#13
In all fairness,she might not have lied,she may have missed a day etc and not realised the implications.:w00t:

It takes two to tango,as someone already said,if ya don't want kids etc don't rely on one form of contraception.
#14
humadoon
Well def its a lesson for everyman...i dont think anyone would like to live with such bitch who can lie about such serious ..

i think he might need to opt the 2nd option..


seriously grow some balls and realise the responsibilities :w00t:

how you know she lied about being on the pill ? you can still get pregnant if your on the pill

anyways its his problem too ....... he should have covered it up
#16
Lulu'sMammy
Dont ask for English points of the view then :)


why r u guys so rude..get some life man :(
#17
tinkerbell28
Wow what a charmer, well if she knows his full name, it's not as easy as walking away I am afraid the agency who has now taken over the CSA will make him pay up.


:thumbsup:


only if he has a job
#18
Whoever is suggesting to walk away......the father runs the risk of CSA (now being rebranded by government and ALOT of money going in to make it work) so you will have to pay. Other than that, wait for the kid to be born, go on Jeremy Kyle, get put up in a hotel and have a free breakfast, get a DNA test and find out.....
#19
humadoon
Well def its a lesson for everyman..]i dont think anyone would like to live with such bitch who can lie about such serious

i think he might need to opt the 2nd option..



He should of thought that before he had blown -----------------------------------------his chances of NOT being a father :)
#20
humadoon
why r u guys so rude..get some life man :(

Ive got a miff, i'm not a man :)
#21
faevilangel
well always wear a bloody man ....... then he won't be in this position

he has 2 choices ... 1 is the ideal 1 is immoral

1. take on the child and make a family with his gf
2. walk away and let her fend for herself

anyways its both their responsibilities to use contraception .. one use one method, the other as no method is 100% safe


3rd option - dont be with the girl but take responsibility for his child and be a father, if he dont want to in person at least financially

if a man dont want to be a father, take the responsibility to ensure you dont seriously, take no ones word for anything and look out for yourself.
banned#22
tell Kevin to start calling his father 'grandad'

tell Kevin to buy one of those 'people carriers'
#23
On the plus side,she'll no doubt get a nice house to go with the baby:x:w00t:
#24
Lulu'sMammy
Jeremy Kyle?


:w00t::w00t:
#25
tinkerbell28
Wow what a charmer, well if she knows his full name, it's not as easy as walking away I am afraid the agency who has now taken over the CSA will make him pay up.


:thumbsup:


hmmm im still not convinced of this - my ex is still avoiding coughing up for our 3 and still reproducing :roll:
#26
tonyg1962
only if he has a job


Thats true, lets all hope so:whistling:

kemo
He should of thought that before he had blown -----------------------------------------his chances of NOT being a father :)


Yeah it takes 2 to tango:thumbsup:

Lulu'sMammy
Ive got a miff, i'm not a man :)


You tell him LLM:giggle:
#27
Lulu'sMammy
Jeremy Kyle?


trust you
#28
Why do people post saying its a "mate" or "friend" hmmm lol
#29
......or tell him to get a better friend than you that asks for advice on a forum :-)
Just kidding. Good luck with your mate. But I reckon support her until the baby is out and then see how he bonds - but every man that has sex needs to face any consequences i.e. children. Any bloke that disappears is a coward and deserves to be castrated ;-)
#30
but he don't wants the baby

You are Popeye and i claim my £20.
" I yams what i yams "
#31
loupomm
3rd option - dont be with the girl but take responsibility for his child and be a father, if he dont want to in person at least financially

if a man dont want to be a father, take the responsibility to ensure you dont seriously, take no ones word for anything and look out for yourself.


i should have clarified the 1st point more ...... being a family doesnt mean being with the girl, but being there for the child ... a man who runs and hides is a coward
#32
tinkerbell28
No don't, I used to know someone who did that, new penthouse, carpets, cooker if that was not enough she blagged some benefit fraud too............so I reported her as she wanted a character reference looooool.


lol what character:w00t:

Seems to be the way of the world these days,young girls having babies and never working.
#33
deb8z
lol what character:w00t:

Seems to be the way of the world these days,young girls having babies and never working.


How i hate these people. I was watching a program last night about them and how the drain our money and time.:x
#34
tinkerbell28
It's changed now though, if you have the right info, they will take it right out of wages. They are also looking at taking things like driving licence and passport away, for non payers. Also prison sentences.
If this new agency sorts out the mess of the CSA, it could get nasty for all those run away daddies.


this is recently :thumbsup:

maybe others will have more luck ;-)
#35
deb8z
Why do people post saying its a "mate" or "friend" hmmm lol


its def not me if i was i def not scared to put it here ;-)..
okay consider its me :whistling:
#36
humadoon
its def not me if i was i def not scared to put it here ;-)..
okay consider its me :whistling:


man up boy! :whistling:
#37
Woman are snakes. Although we love them. :-D
He is an idiot. Make sure he gets himself a lot of money. FAST.
I suggest he joins the forces, that way he can enjoy his life and supply the money!
#38
tonyg1962
only if he has a job


he has one.. but his Irish gf is on benefits..
banned#39
if you u/ur m8 who got the girl preggers, does not wnat anything to with it, move away out of the uk jurastiction csa cant touch you or get money if you live in the south of ireland, theres a few countries that you can do this
#40
Lulu'sMammy
Dont ask for English points of the view then :)


i didnt see where the op specificly asked for an 'english persons' point of view. There are more than just english people using this forum.

And to the op, it's just a life lesson your mate has learned the hard way. women lie. period. they generally only give a damn about their own feelings. Not all are 2 faced manipulative cows....but you can bet we've all had at least one in our lives.

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