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i used to go out with this guy, we never really split up he moved away and it kind of sort of just went dead the realtionship as we couldnt see much of each other, but i was supposed to be moving up t… Read More
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7y, 1m agoPosted 7 years, 1 month ago
i used to go out with this guy, we never really split up he moved away and it kind of sort of just went dead the realtionship as we couldnt see much of each other, but i was supposed to be moving up there and so on. a couple of year later we contact each other and he has a new gf. only thing is he being all nice to me ect wanting to come round ect ect n could go on and on about all the things he wants. but he still with his gf!!!! so i says are you happy with her and he said yeah, but can they be as happy as he making out if he saying all this stuff to me about maybe you never know what the future brings about us getting back together ect.

so what sort of txt can i send as he assured me she dont read his messages as he has a pin!!!
the txt i want him to get back with me but what can i write thats soooooooo soppy ect
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7y, 1m agoPosted 7 years, 1 month ago
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dont text - dont get involved - will all end in tears
#2
The answer is this, he wants to pump you and thats it. Hes never gonna dump her.
#3
makershaker
The answer is this, he wants to pump you and thats it. Hes never gonna dump her.


blunt yeah - but spot on

/thread
#4
The term 'have his cake and eat it' comes to mind. Don't do it as if you do get back with him, what's to say he won't text others behind your back. The fact he is being sneaky with his pin says it all. The man is just after fun and he's just playing you...I've been there and it ends in heartache :cry:
#5
no but seriously hes not like that, honestly
#6
sarahjane1988
no but seriously hes not like that, honestly


lol, we all are
#7
does his actions not speak for themselves?? He's texting behind her back!!!
#8
bossyboots
dont text - dont get involved - will all end in tears


I agree with BB, its going to end up in one big mess & by the sounds of it only after one thing !!!
#9
sarahjane1988
no but seriously hes not like that, honestly


of course not.
#10
Best term for him is a player, been there done that :)
#11
makershaker
The answer is this, he wants to pump you and thats it. Hes never gonna dump her.


sarahjane1988
no but seriously hes not like that, honestly


makershaker
lol, we all are


lol, you cant be more honest then that.
#12
wind up thread.
#13
he assured me she dont read his messages as he has a pin
#14
I think he has now shown his true colours - untrustworthy. Gives us a bad name to us nice guys :(
#15
oh dear
if he really wanted to get back with you he would finish with his gf.
maybe u r hanging on to who he used to be, or what yous used to have together.
you both will have changed in some way.
think how you would feel if you were the gf.
and to me if he has a pin on his phone, it says to me he needs to hide something......and hes admiting to u that hes gonna see you and hide it from her.
i cant say not to.......but i say be prepared cos he will hurt u.
banned#16
Just do him.

Your a woman, its your duty to do as your man asks.
#17
sarahjane1988
no but seriously hes not like that, honestly


every guy will do that :lol: im a very relationshippy type of guy, but i times i will ******** an ex for a ****, its all hes doing
#18
he just wants a **** buddy cos he probably isnt getting enough sex from gf, i think its your feelings that'll get hurt at the end of it, not worth it IMO....
#19
Och one night in bed with the guy wont do you any harm. It'll be good to catch up
#20
Does anything we say make any difference anyway? You're gonna text him cos you have rose tinted glasses on! Otherwise you wouldn't have asked and are just looking for someone to say yes so that will justify it! Next thread will be that you met him, ended up in bed with him then he hasn't called for a few days....were you used? I'll answer that now for you....YES!!
#21
fern37
Does anything we say make any difference anyway? You're gonna text him cos you have rose tinted glasses on! Otherwise you wouldn't have asked and are just looking for someone to say yes so that will justify it! Next thread will be that you met him, ended up in bed with him then he hasn't called for a few days....were you used? I'll answer that now for you....YES!!


lol true, plus he hasnt said he's gonna leave the gf to get with you so whats the point being the bit on the side :? except you just want sex :whistling:
#22
ilovelilac
lol true, plus he hasnt said he's gonna leave the gf to get with you so whats the point being the bit on the side :? except you just want sex :whistling:


ahh...but does she want the sex or does she think that will be the way to get him back PLUS he's said things are fine with him and gf!! He's not saying he is going to leave her so why text him? You'd hate it done to you if you thought your relationship was fine.
#23
If he just wants to catch up invite him and his girlfriend around for dinner. if hes not trying to boff you he's got nothing to hide.
#24
fern37
ahh...but does she want the sex .



You better believe it. Its biting the leg off her now
#25
Op has gone quiet....maybe she had already sent the text and he is there now! :whistling:
#26
hes in germany and shes in northampton!!!!!!!! ans he has a blackberry wich to my understanding as i i dont have one all blackberrys have a pin on
#27
hes away on work
#28
If you meant that much to him, and he was a decent bloke, he'd finish it with the other girl before trying to hide the sausage with you. Seems he wants to stuff you behind his GF's back. that makes you a *****. Grow up. Smell the coffee etc, etc.
#29
sarahjane1988
hes in germany and shes in northampton!!!!!!!! ans he has a blackberry wich to my understanding as i i dont have one all blackberrys have a pin on


so what have you decided after reading the replies?
#30
sarahjane1988
hes in germany and shes in northampton!!!!!!!! ans he has a blackberry wich to my understanding as i i dont have one all blackberrys have a pin on


my blackberry storm didn't have one for the 3 days I used it!
#31
oh i dunno, refuse to sleep with him behind her back. I would email her anyway if anything happened does that make me harsh!!! or i dunno but thanks for opening eyes a little still dazed with him !!!
#32
sarahjane1988
oh i dunno, refuse to sleep with him behind her back. I would email her anyway if anything happened does that make me harsh!!! or i dunno but thanks for opening eyes a little still dazed with him !!!


Just walk away hunny. It's one of those things you will regret in later life if you do contact him. He's shown his true colours and better you find out now whilst he is with someone else and not with you. If anything does happen....don't email her...that's plain nasty and he'll wiggle out of it and blame you! Your his ex for a reason...and i think you've had a lucky escape cos he does sound like a player! he may have contacted other women saying the same in the hope one might give in :x
#33
just be honest to yourself.....are you likely to be with him in 5 years time if it didnt last before?

go with the flow, you know him unlike the people in this thread........

maybe its worth a go but whats the point in daft messages be honestabout the situation and see what he suggests.....maybe he is with her through convenience.....it happens. doesnt mean he is a cheater.....
#34
casparwhite
just be honest to yourself.....are you likely to be with him in 5 years time if it didnt last before?

go with the flow, you know him unlike the people in this thread........

maybe its worth a go but whats the point in daft messages be honestabout the situation and see what he suggests.....maybe he is with her through convenience.....it happens. doesnt mean he is a cheater.....


if he's with her for convenience sake then that's not really fair on her. He should end it and move on not try and find his next partner before he finishes with his last one. That's cowardly.
#35
[COLOR="Red"]I'll sort him out

ps :pm me his number lol[/COLOR]
#36
Put yourself in the gf's shoes :thumbsup:
#37
dcx_badass;8722489
Stop been a bitch and trying to ruin someone elses relationship?

+1
#38
i think even if you got him back he would then be texting her like its been said b4 he wants his cake and eat it he wants a girlfrend and someone he can play with lol dont be the play thing your worth more x
banned#39
sarahjane1988
so i says


i stopped reading at ^
banned#40
My wife knew i had gf when she invited me round. She got me drunk then got her boobs out and took me to bed where she gyrated on me butt naked. Then stopped before going any further. I dumped that other girl the next morning :shock:

Moral of the story, a girl has gotta do what a girls gotta do to get her man.

vibeone
Just do him.

Your a woman, its your duty to do as your man asks.


I burst out laughing while walking outside.

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