OK all of my OH family hate me even tho they dont really no me. His mum has only met me twice for about halh an hour each time. we often babysit for his sister but she will not talk to me and last time i was in a room by myself while he was making coffee and i said hello, she looked at me and wallked out of the room. he has told me that she has never asked me to babysit she ask's him and I just go with him. I met his daughter once and we got on fine. the next week when she was ment to come to the house she told my OH i dont want to come I hate her and his ex said she dose not want to see her she hates her. (ok its hard for kids but they have been divorced for six yeard and she has another kid with her partner).
I cant go to any of his family coz his oldest daughter (19) never wants to met me so i cant go to partys and they have lots (he is going to one on saturday)
His mum has called me a freek and dose not even no me.
I dont no if i really want to no this family but they are part of my OH life and i feel so left out as he is always invited to my family things.
how would you deal with this?