Just wondering what's the longest someone has been with some one before they got married or have they decided not to get married & just live together as everything is perfect that way..
The reason im asking is been with my OH now for nearly 9 years, an she keeps dropping hints & saying about getting married as she dont no any one who has had to wait this long to get married. (she been married once before, iv never been married)
I love her loads & do anything for her BUT a ring & a piece of paper will not change any thing about how i feel, the ring will just be for show & the paper well me tucked away in a draw somewhere. Plus we have 5 kids between us & have debts that never seam to go down. So I would prefer to spend any extra £'s that we have on the kids & trying to clear the debts......Is that such a wrong view to take?