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My 16 year old starts work in Sept. How much Board do you think he should pay per week? Read More
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9y, 1w agoPosted 9 years, 1 week ago
My 16 year old starts work in Sept. How much Board do you think he should pay per week?
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9y, 1w agoPosted 9 years, 1 week ago
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#1
Start him off at £100 a month.
#2
Do you not think it should go on a percentage of his weekly/monthly wage?
#3
I pay £10 a week! im 18 haah
[mod]#4
frollickingfrill
Do you not think it should go on a percentage of his weekly wage?


No. Start it easier for him but make him realise that you are doing it to ease him in. After about a year you should raise it. Make sure you keep track of his finances though too.
#5
Pitbikeboy
I pay £10 a week! im 18 haah


Thats shocking!:thinking:
#6
i pay nothing and im 21

but i guess thats cos i lived at uni most of the week.

Now i've got my own place but if i was to move back home it would be 100pounds per month for me (mainly because i wouldnt be here alot other than to sleep and take some food lol)
#7
Nothing, otherwise he will charge you when your old and can't look after youself, karma, its a bitch eh?`
#8
im assuming its FT work so may as well start to prepare him for living alone and charge him a reasonable amount which im guessin includes food washing etc etc
#9
frollickingfrill
Do you not think it should go on a percentage of his weekly wage?


Will any future landlord? I assume you are trying to teach him that sort of lesson and not because you actually need his money as such? I think £100 a month is a nice and reasonable sum for both parties, far below what he would have to pay elsewhere. I have no idea what he will be earning of course.
#10
He will have no other outgoings . I will be taking him and bringing him back from work so he does'nt even have that expence
#11
onlyme23
im assuming its FT work so may as well start to prepare him for living alone and charge him a reasonable amount which im guessin includes food washing etc etc


Thats my outlook on it, he has to learn the value of money;-)
#12
Then I would even suggest that you consider asking him for money for transport to and from work (even if at the end of it, you still get the same amount of money as you originally planned). That way, he starts to see the cost of living (board to you) and working (such as transport costs). It will be a very valuable lesson in the long run.
#13
Is this full time work hon?
#14
its dependent on is he working full time?

is he earning enough a month for you to charge him 100pounds a month?

100pounds a month seems to be the 'going rate' thats what 2 of my friends pay their parents.
#15
You could have a converstation with him - ask him why he sees as fair... he may surprise you.
#16
pghstochaj
Will any future landlord? I assume you are trying to teach him that sort of lesson and not because you actually need his money as such? I think £100 a month is a nice and reasonable sum for both parties, far below what he would have to pay elsewhere. I have no idea what he will be earning of course.


Well he doesnt yet!! they want tell him until he gets his GCSE results but its an engineering apprentiship so should be reasonable wage for a 16 year old
banned 1 Like #17
Depends on what he earns, i personally think its a massive problem that the youngsters today have no reponsibilities and to much money in their butt pocket
#18
Before my three left home they paid £120 a month. They were well grown however with decent salaries.
#19
sassie
Depends on what he earns, i personally think its a massive problem that the youngsters today have no reponsibilities and to much money in their butt pocket


Thats my view, we dont really need the money but we have to help teach him about the big wide world
#20
wait and see what he is earning and then sit down and talk about it with him, most teenagers are unwilling to pay any rent to there parents lol but when he moves out he will realise how easy he had it
#21
he will be on £80 a week.

Make him a deal - He buys his own food.
#22
I mentioned £40 per week but he says thats to much, Which i guess is true, but I just dont have any idea what to expect off him
banned#23
frollickingfrill
Thats my view, we dont really need the money but we have to help teach him about the big wide world


If you really dont need the money then put it away for something later on, maybe a family holiday, maybe put it away for when he will want a deposit on a home, Kids round here drive round in brand spanking new cars, party form friday till monday, because they have nothing to pay, their wages is their pocket money, i dont think this helps anyone
#24
frollickingfrill
Well he doesnt yet!! they want tell him until he gets his GCSE results but its an engineering apprentiship so should be reasonable wage for a 16 year old


Won't be much at all if most other apprenticeships are anything to go by, £100 a month might be excessive. I used to work for Mercedes arranging apprentices for them during my time at Uni, the going rate was £70 to £120 per week for that.
#25
cut him a deal for either a fixed amount inc bills and food etc or a basic amount for room and board and then he pays any additional costs like his own food and cut of bills inc his phone calls on top, he will soon realise which is the better option!
#26
Kick off at 15% of his monthly income, stepping up 5% every 6 months. Soon enough it'll be worth him moving out and standing on his own 2 feet.
#27
pghstochaj
Won't be much at all if most other apprenticeships are anything to go by, £100 a month might be excessive. I used to work for Mercedes arranging apprentices for them during my time at Uni, the going rate was £70 to £120 per week for that.


He is hoping to get around £10k per year and the reason he is saying that is because my nephew started with united utilites on a Apprenitship after finishing school and he started on £12K per year!!!!
#28
frollickingfrill
I mentioned £40 per week but he says thats to much, Which i guess is true, but I just dont have any idea what to expect off him


40pounds per week is just below what i paid in rent acc last year..everything included bar food. so maybe thats a bit high to start off with

ps my house last year was great and prime location to uni :thumbsup:
banned#29
If he earns a £100 per week and pays you £25 all in, that leaves him £75 per week in his pocket, can i move in with you :-)
#30
frollickingfrill
He is hoping to get around £10k per year and the reason he is saying that is because my nephew started with united utilites on a Apprenitship after finishing school and he started on £12K per year!!!!


UU are quite good though, is he working in a similar sector? It depends on their costs more than anything, is the apprenticeship tied in with a local school/college or indepedent? If the former, the wage will be lower because of the costs of that etc.
#31
sassie
If he earns a £100 per week and pays you £25 all in, that leaves him £75 per week in his pocket, can i move in with you :-)


LOL:roll:
#32
pghstochaj
UU are quite good though, is he working in a similar sector? It depends on their costs more than anything, is the apprenticeship tied in with a local school/college or indepedent? If the former, the wage will be lower because of the costs of that etc.


He will be working for FLYMO!!!! 1st year at Colledge and 3 years in the work place
#33
20 a week seems reasonable, especially if hes only getting ~100 a week.
banned#34
Jelly
20 a week seems reasonable, especially if hes only getting ~100 a week.


think the op needs to aske themselves how much per week they have to blow in their pocket per week, i certainly dont have £20 let alone £80 after i have paid all the bills
#35
allstar2
40pounds per week is just below what i paid in rent acc last year..everything included bar food. so maybe thats a bit high to start off with

ps my house last year was great and prime location to uni :thumbsup:



depends on area too tho £40 a week here would get you a cardboard box on a corner lol, the rent should somewhat reflect the living costs of the area they are in to prepare him for the future
#36
if he earns 10k a year after tax and ni he will approx have 164pounds per week wages so work around that and see what he should pay
#37
frollickingfrill
He will be working for FLYMO!!!! 1st year at Colledge and 3 years in the work place


That's unfortunate, I could tell you a lot about various engineerring salaries but wouldn't have a clue about Flymo! I would guess it's not going to be great, so perhaps wait to see his wage first. £100 is typical per month in my experience, but not if they are earning very low amounts.
#38
onlyme23
depends on area too tho £40 a week here would get you a cardboard box on a corner lol, the rent should somewhat reflect the living costs of the area they are in to prepare him for the future


belfast, in the posh malone road area :thumbsup: tho now i pay 250 per month on rent alone so thats prob a better reflection of costs
#39
make sure that whatever you decide on that it is a reasonable amount to cover the expenses you are actually incurring and that it increases as costs go up. if you make it too cheap you'll have him forever. i know i now have the child their spouse and grand kids now and no sign of them ever going as its too easy here :-)
#40
allstar2
belfast, in the posh malone road area :thumbsup: tho now i pay 250 per month on rent alone so thats prob a better reflection of costs



i think i need to move :?

here (south east coast england) your lookin at a minimum of £400 just for a diddy bedsit! :x

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