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My sister split up with her boyfriend of two years a few weeks back (mutual decision after a big fallout), she's very upset and wants him back. They had been having petty arguments (mostly to do with… Read More
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7y, 7m agoPosted 7 years, 7 months ago
My sister split up with her boyfriend of two years a few weeks back (mutual decision after a big fallout), she's very upset and wants him back. They had been having petty arguments (mostly to do with him being very immature for his 32 years of age) for a few months.

I actually quite liked the guy but after the things he said to her in a temper think she should move on. She on the other hand wants to 'get him back', he has to come around tomorrow to pick up his belongings, I've said that acting like you think it's the right decision splitting would get him back but she doesn't agree!

Any ideas from you lovely people?!
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7y, 7m agoPosted 7 years, 7 months ago
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#1
Home video?
#2
cant get people back just cos ya want em.....thats what im learning anyways.....even if he 'gives in' and takes her back itll be fake so whats the point? He obviously doesnt want to be with her so she needs to let him go and get over it.....easier said than done, I know,, but she will accept it soon enough :)
#3
All she has to say to him is " I want you back. We both said things we didn't mean. Let's move on and get back together"
Putty in her hands.
#4
Rather than playing games, why doesn't she just sit down and tell him straight out how she feels? If you try and predict how the other person will react/respond if you do this or say that, it's bound to end in tears. Straightforward honesty I reckon :thumbsup:
#5
Ann Summers?

I've said that acting like you think it's the right decision splitting would get him back but she doesn't agree!


Well i'm with her on this. What a daft idea.
banned#6
show him this thread, although might not have the desired effect - lol
#7
Buy him a drum kit, blokes love drums:
http://img.funnyanimatedgifs.net/img/539-retard-dance-drum-set.gif
banned#8
lil_tiger
cant get people back just cos ya want em.....thats what im learning anyways.....even if he 'gives in' and takes her back itll be fake so whats the point? He obviously doesnt want to be with her so she needs to let him go and get over it.....easier said than done, I know,, but she will accept it soon enough :)


says you

seems you are hurting a little and that feel your circumstances should be replicated elsewhere
#9
yeah she needs to tell him how she feels but she has to be prepared that he may not want the same thing and if thats the case she needs to move on.
#10
just be honest, why does she have to play games?
#11
buy him a big mac and chips
#12
cherishu2
just be honest, why does she have to play games?


+1:thumbsup:
#13
Bum fun?
#14
dimebars
says you

seems you are hurting a little and that feel your circumcision should be replicated elsewhere


ouch :viking:
#15
Goonieman
Bum fun?


:w00t: :-D
#16
dimebars
says you

seems you are hurting a little and that feel your circumstances should be replicated elsewhere


yup says me...cant force someone if they dont wanna be with ya :)
#17
also acting like she wants to split could come back and bite her.. lifes too short for the messing around she needs to tell him the truth and then if he feels the same he will get back with her if not then she can start to move on with her life.
[mod]#18
(mostly to do with him being very immature for his 32 years of age)


That's what us men are good at.

Just buy us some toys and sit us in the corner............we'll be fine. :lol:
#19
Most men are simple folk. Keep it simple. No more than two syllables per word, or he'll switch off and zone out.
banned#20
she should try begging
#21
toshapetriji
she should try begging


lmao
#22
offer a 3some with her best girly mate
#23
jasonrat
offer a 3some with her best girly mate


or sister ? :whistling:
[mod]#24
kyalion;6989069
or sister ? :whistling:


But definately not Grandma. :-D
#25
lil_tiger
yup says me...cant force someone if they dont wanna be with ya :)


And whats to say he doesn't?

Don't ever tell someone to just move on if it's not what they want. Firstly she has to tell him how she feels and what she wants. he may well be feeling the same, if he isn't and splitting up is what he wants, then she has to move on.
#26
ChipSticks
And whats to say he doesn't?

Don't ever tell someone to just move on if it's not what they want. Firstly she has to tell him how she feels and what she wants. he may well be feeling the same, if he isn't and splitting up is what he wants, then she has to move on.


lol Im presuming that at some point in the couple of weeks theyve been broke up theyve spoke and shes let him know she wants him back. If it was as simple as that then this thread is pretty much pointless as there will be no need to 'win' him back (lol@ it being a game) as she surely should be able to talk to him.

I admit I jumped to the conclusion they had tried the talking route already (as explained there would be no need to 'win' him back otherwise) so yeah I agree.....need to talk (which I thought they had done) :roll: then go from there...
#27
Just one question - does she really want him back or does she just not want to be alone? Not a nice question, but it needs to be said - I was in a crap relationship, many moons ago, and we'd break up and get back together - it was easier than being alone, took me 6 months to more on.
#28
lil_tiger
lol Im presuming that at some point in the couple of weeks theyve been broke up theyve spoke and shes let him know she wants him back. If it was as simple as that then this thread is pretty much pointless as there will be no need to 'win' him back (lol@ it being a game) as she surely should be able to talk to him.

I admit I jumped to the conclusion they had tried the talking route already (as explained there would be no need to 'win' him back otherwise) so yeah I agree.....need to talk (which I thought they had done) :roll: then go from there...


They may well have spoken. But I know from experience that you can speak to someone a lot without actually saying anything. Speaking and talking are quite different things. :thumbsup:
#29
ChipSticks
They may well have spoken. But I know from experience that you can speak to someone a lot without actually saying anything. Speaking and talking are quite different things. :thumbsup:


yup...agreed, like I say though I presumed they had done all the talking things through stage.....silly me :roll:
#30
in b4 man hate
#31
boothy
in b4 man hate


based on what?
#32
WoolyM
based on what?


wait and see....
#33
eh the truth might work lol how stupid can you get

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