Just broke up with the man who I have been with for over 4 years a few weeks ago. I am alone in the country usually we went to his mum's for Christmas and New year, this time I am on my own for the first time.
I caught him having affair with 2 chinese young girls who are both in their early 20s earlier this year, he's 42 with 2 children in their earliy 20s, I am 33. Last year he stayed in china for 3 weeks and had Christmas and New year there he told me he was going to see some of his male friends who he met when he went there on holiday a few years ago, I believed what he said but later I found out it was actually a big lie. I was broken and soon I asked to separate he promised me he wouldn't do it again he cried on the floor asked me to give it one more go, since then I caught him still doing it with the girls a few times including romantic emails and chat history.
I spoke to the girls and one of them appologised as soon as she knew I was his girlfriend but the other one wouldn't go away and she even told me she was so sure that the ex must have loved her a lot and he offered her to come over to UK. I believed if he didn't keep in contact with her then she wouldn't have any chance to exsist between us. Now he told all his family and friends that we broke up because I wanted to marry him so badly and he only wants to have freedom, which is another big lie!
I know I should have just given up when I first found out what he was up to but I just felt hard to do it.
Now I am alone and feeling lonely. I only hope 2008 to go quickly I have had enough of it!