right, my mums boyfriend has invited my mum, brother, his GF, me and my BF round for a bbq for tea at about 7ish, short notice, i found out an hour ago, but as far as im concerned, not a big deal.
now i txt my BF asking if he wanted to come and he sed yes but
1) hes at work wth no stuff for stayin at mine (however I have a set of casual clothes of his and I can wash and dry his work stuff for the morn)
2) he has to get everywhere on his bike
wer also allowed to stop over if convenient, if not my brother will be driving back (hes got an early start 2moro so it wouldnt be late) so we can hop in with them to my house
now i gave him 3 options
1) come straight to mine from work, ill wash his work clothes, we'll go with mum or my bro to the bbq and get a lift back with my and he'll go back to work in the morn on his bike
2) go home, get changed, pack stuff for tomorrow, bike to the bbq, stop over there and bike it to work from there (its closer than both his house or mine)
3)go home, get changed etc, we'll pick him up on the way, come back to mine with my bro, and he can ride his other bike thats already at mine to work in the morn
so he rings me up asking what my plan is, i said going with mum to the bbq at 6:30ish, but he ses he needs to know what the rest of the plan is, and wev had a major argument bcoz he cant simply pick 1, 2 or 3, he needs to know where im sleeping, i said, wherever is best for you, whichever option is more convenient for him (i dont have any plans for tomorrow, so any option is absolutely fine)
am i being unreasonable asking him to pick n option? i dont see why he needs to know every1 elses plans when they have no effect on what is convenient for him. all my plan is go to the bbq with mum, either with him, or picking him up or meeting him there, any is fine.
i dont understand why its so hard!!! what on earth is the big deal, its not a life or death decision. hes so difficult at times
rant over, manyapologies