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8y, 1m agoPosted 8 years, 1 month ago
Right, there's been too much heartache going on and it has to be sorted out right now!

A lot of people are feeling emotionally drained and have shed more than a tear or two because of all this rubbish going on between certain members of the community.

We all come online to have a joke and get away from our real life problems, so why do we get the need to upset people we are never likely to meet?

And to those who get upset....please ignore the haters or attention seekers and just report them to the mods/admin and they'll swiftly resolve the issue (an advance appology to the mods for all the extra work on the way lol).

Never ever show these people are getting to you because you're feeding there hunger..don't give them the ammunition to continue because without a reaction....... they're just sad people talking to themselves.

If you agree with this, please sign this post and leave your comments below and remember.......this is all a fantasy world for us...so play nicely.

Thank you for reading and please stop hurting strangers and concentrate on the people that really matter....your mothers, fathers, husbands/wives, children and friends because they're the people that really matter and we don't know how long we're here for...and this is coming from someone that has lost 3 family members within the last couple years.

RIP Yusuf Dede, Ozgun and Figret eniste.
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8y, 1m agoPosted 8 years, 1 month ago
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#2
^about to say the same thing.
#3
thesaint
Hasn't this been done before?


I don't know but I hope this will finally get it through to people because too many people are getting hurt now and the bored people in the world are wasting their time on something that has no meaning.

All those comments have come straight from the heart and has to stop now. :)
#4
realfriendlyman
I don't know but I hope this will finally get it through to people because too many people are getting hurt now and the bored people in the world are wasting their time on something that has no meaning.

All those comments have come straight from the heart and has to stop now. :)


I agree with you, especially as this hasn't been started to target anyone specific.
I just feel that any change will last a day or two, and normal service will resume.

It's the internet. Serious business?
#5
jellybaby22
if its been done before it aint working......


It wasn't done properly.....we all need to take note of the comments made and that includes the people that are reacting.

Remember, the people that are reacting are feeding this, so they also have a big part to play if they want things to change.
#6
thesaint
I agree with you, especially as this hasn't been started to target anyone specific.
I just feel that any change will last a day or two, and normal service will resume.

It's the internet. Serious business?


That's the thing.......we all need to stick to it, so it won't be an overnight thing.

If we really enjoy being on here, then we have to do something about it because if people are left in tears, then it obviously means they're no longer having a good time and may as well find something more enjoyable to do with there life.
#7
i think im gonna have to spam this rfm soz mate but as saint and bg have said, theres already a huge thread for this and i think its actually if we leave things b for the minute, that thread got locked for a good reason and eventually i could see this thread turning nasty also...so ive spammed and my reason as i said at the beginning is that this is a duplicate and not needed.
#8
God it's hard work on here sometimes:roll:
#9
acecatcher3
i think im gonna have to spam this rfm soz mate but as saint and bg have said, theres already a huge thread for this and i think its actually if we leave things b for the minute, that thread got locked for a good reason and eventually i could see this thread turning nasty also...so ive spammed and my reason as i said at the beginning is that this is a duplicate and not needed.


I appreciate your opinion AceCatcher but it turned nasty because we let it.

Please support this, as HUKD used to be a nice place once upon a time and it's being ruined by bored people.

This isn't targetting anyone in particular but we're all playing a part here......the victims are also guilty of letting this continue, so we need to sort it out together.
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Ya know I agree with ya RFM but at the end of the day its just t'internet. You don't like it change sites FFS there are thousands of 'em.
Some one gets on yer nerves put 'em in yer ignore list
Someone steps over the line report 'em its what the MOds are there for!
And if the worst comes to the worst ya'll find the shut down option in yer start menu.
There really is no point in throwing dummys out the pram, getting upset with strangers, winding people up to 'big' yerself up. Its not big and its not clever its just small petty and imature.

Gods know there are much much more imprtant things out there peeps. Get a grip!
#11
jennybubbles
Ya know I agree with ya RFM but at the end of the day its just t'internet. You don't like it change sites FFS there are thousands of 'em.
Some one gets on yer nerves put 'em in yer ignore list
Someone steps over the line report 'em its what the MOds are there for!
And if the worst comes to the worst ya'll find the shut down option in yer start menu.
There really is no point in throwing dummys out the pram, getting upset with strangers, winding people up to 'big' yerself up. Its not big and its not clever its just small petty and imature.

Gods know there are much much more imprtant things out there peeps. Get a grip!


Exactly and that's what we need to remember!

My 18 year old cousin died from cancer last month and he didn't get to enjoy his life....and I think if some people on these forums took a long hard look at themselves.......they'd realise they'd change there life in a lot of ways if they could start from scratch, so we need to get things moving now.
#12
jellybaby22
harder than my real life occasionally :p


Tell me bout it lol
[admin]#13
Ok, this has been done before and we've said over and over- if any member receives nasty comments, either in the forum or by PM then report it or send in a contact us form. If you don't get on with someone then put them on ignore, if you don't get on with a group of people then put them all on ignore. If you aren't interested in a thread title, then don't feel it necessary to go into the thread... it's all common sense guys- it doesn't have to be hard work.
#14
jennybubbles
Ya know I agree with ya RFM but at the end of the day its just t'internet. You don't like it change sites FFS there are thousands of 'em.
Some one gets on yer nerves put 'em in yer ignore list
Someone steps over the line report 'em its what the MOds are there for!
And if the worst comes to the worst ya'll find the shut down option in yer start menu.
There really is no point in throwing dummys out the pram, getting upset with strangers, winding people up to 'big' yerself up. Its not big and its not clever its just small petty and imature.

Gods know there are much much more imprtant things out there peeps. Get a grip!


well said:thumbsup:
#15
Did this thread just disappear and reappear again? Or am I totally losing it?
#16
what happens when you put someone on 'ignore'? Does it mean that you wouldn't see posts by them, or just pm's?
#17
damn my bad rfm for spamming, clearly the mods feel it is needed here, so for that i apologise...

hannah19790
God it's hard work on here sometimes:roll:


it really doesnt have to be tho hannah, instead of threads which end up creating arguements ppl shud just pm the person they had a problem with.

Im a member who knows this first hand, its no secret that i had a few big arguements with bg saint and sassie, did i once pm them to try and sort things out...nope, i brought my problem to misc and put a real shadow on it. When i was banned i came on the site just to read the misc during work and realised how dumb i had been and how stupid my problem with those members were. i laugh everytime someone says "internet..serious buisness" coz its 100% true, if u have a problem just shut down ur pc or just log off the site for a bit. Since ive been bk ive talked to all of those members and i believe it took 1 maybe 2 pms just to squash the issue and to say sorry for my actions...i suggest the ppl who have the problems discuss it im pms and dont make "your problem" a problem of the whole misc community. really is gettin a bit silly now, i remember before admin talking about putting peoples accounts on suspensions for a while just so everyone calms down, maybe it would be a good idea, my time out definately made me realise to take things on here with a pinch of salt and just enjoy the site, it helps me thru my extremely boring days at work so now whenever i log in i look for funny posts that ppl like snowtiger, skusey, kemo post, here for the lols ppl,lets all chill
#18
kidcat
Did this thread just disappear and reappear again? Or am I totally losing it?


lol, yh it did - don't worry:-D
#19
kidcat
Did this thread just disappear and reappear again? Or am I totally losing it?


It did, so don't worry. :)

P.S Thank you to the mods for putting it back on......I do realise that it creates more work for you but we all know that something has to be done as HUKD will lose a huge fanbase, as most of the best members are going elsewhere because the community has turned to rubbish.

If we care about this site, as some make out they do, then we have to group together and ignore the idiots and report them every single time.

Please ignore the comments above if you're happy to be abused.
banned#20
any examples of such threads?
#21
Laffy42
what happens when you put someone on 'ignore'? Does it mean that you wouldn't see posts by them, or just pm's?



Read this thread to learn about it

Buddy/Ignore

Why people refuse to use the ignore function is beyond me, it's simple and will enhance your experience on HUKD.

You see the same people spoiling threads started by members they don't like, they could simply ignore them, says more about them than the person they are harassing.
#22
acecatcher3
damn my bad rfm for spamming, clearly the mods feel it is needed here, so for that i apologise...



it really doesnt have to be tho hannah, instead of threads which end up creating arguements ppl shud just pm the person they had a problem with.

Im a member who knows this first hand, its no secret that i had a few big arguements with bg saint and sassie, did i once pm them to try and sort things out...nope, i brought my problem to misc and put a real shadow on it. When i was banned i came on the site just to read the misc during work and realised how dumb i had been and how stupid my problem with those members were. i laugh everytime someone says "internet..serious buisness" coz its 100% true, if u have a problem just shut down ur pc or just log off the site for a bit. Since ive been bk ive talked to all of those members and i believe it took 1 maybe 2 pms just to squash the issue and to say sorry for my actions...i suggest the ppl who have the problems discuss it im pms and dont make "your problem" a problem of the whole misc community. really is gettin a bit silly now, i remember before admin talking about putting peoples accounts on suspensions for a while just so everyone calms down, maybe it would be a good idea, my time out definately made me realise to take things on here with a pinch of salt and just enjoy the site, it helps me thru my extremely boring days at work so now whenever i log in i look for funny posts that ppl like snowtiger, skusey, kemo post, here for the lols ppl,lets all chill


Appology accepted mate but you were more than in your right to provide that opinion.

I couldn't agree more with you.
I was very frustrated in the past because a certain member had been following me around for a year and complaining about my posts and I wrongfully took it into my own hands and threatened him by PM, which gave me an automatic ban for a month.

I was angry at first because I felt the victim had been punished, while the aggressor was laughing his head off but after a bit of time, I came to the conclusion that I became the aggresor and I was out of order and actually felt like I went a step further than he did.

It sometimes feels like a losing battle when you keep ignoring certain people and they keep coming back at you, which I did for an entire year but if you don't show a reaction and you keep reporting them.......eventually, justice will provail.

Besides, I felt like an idiot after a while for getting so worked up over a sad person following me around, as it just proved how boring his life was to do something like that and I think we all need to remember that.

The people that have the need to do things like this HAVE NO LIFE and will do anything to get through the day, so don't give them a reason to have there thrills. :thumbsup:
#23
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#24
acecatcher3
damn my bad rfm for spamming, clearly the mods feel it is needed here, so for that i apologise...



it really doesnt have to be tho hannah, instead of threads which end up creating arguements ppl shud just pm the person they had a problem with.

Im a member who knows this first hand, its no secret that i had a few big arguements with bg saint and sassie, did i once pm them to try and sort things out...nope, i brought my problem to misc and put a real shadow on it. When i was banned i came on the site just to read the misc during work and realised how dumb i had been and how stupid my problem with those members were. i laugh everytime someone says "internet..serious buisness" coz its 100% true, if u have a problem just shut down ur pc or just log off the site for a bit. Since ive been bk ive talked to all of those members and i believe it took 1 maybe 2 pms just to squash the issue and to say sorry for my actions...i suggest the ppl who have the problems discuss it im pms and dont make "your problem" a problem of the whole misc community. really is gettin a bit silly now, i remember before admin talking about putting peoples accounts on suspensions for a while just so everyone calms down, maybe it would be a good idea, my time out definately made me realise to take things on here with a pinch of salt and just enjoy the site, it helps me thru my extremely boring days at work so now whenever i log in i look for funny posts that ppl like snowtiger, skusey, kemo post, here for the lols ppl,lets all chill


With u on that one hun, it's all gettin way too serious. :thumbsup:
[mod]#25
Oh my god.............why would you get upset at some anonymous people on the internet :o

My advice...........if you are getting too involved........flick the switch :-D

http://cdn.mydeco.com/media/data/cms/image/2007/10/01/electrical-plug-socket_.jpg
banned#26
this is the internet .. I would worry more if this was in real life face to face.. wont work ... move on
#27
Syzable
Oh my god.............why would you get upset at some anonymous people on the internet :o

My advice...........if you are getting too involved........flick the switch :-D

http://cdn.mydeco.com/media/data/cms/image/2007/10/01/electrical-plug-socket_.jpg



That could be our hukd logo:thumbsup:
banned#28
lah lah lah lah not listening .....
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/75/213097848_8fc1019e0f.jpg?v=0
#29
Am really quite shocked that some people have been nasty but at the same time also that some people have also been very upset by ......strangers really, who they have probably never met. Lets just chill and enjoy x
#30
dog_cop
lah lah lah lah not listening .....
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/75/213097848_8fc1019e0f.jpg?v=0


lmao - see, a bit of lightning up is whats needed here:thumbsup:
#31
why wht has been happening?
banned#32
mum2b;3166528
why wht has been happening?

nowt much :whistling:
#33
i caome on here everyday for the last few months but still dont have a clue wht has been happening :(
#34
mum2b
why wht has been happening?


I am not sure either but whatever it is its not worth getting upset about

That said I couldn't agree with Jennybubbles post more
#35
Syzable
Oh my god.............why would you get upset at some anonymous people on the internet :o

My advice...........if you are getting too involved........flick the switch :-D

http://cdn.mydeco.com/media/data/cms/image/2007/10/01/electrical-plug-socket_.jpg


dog_cop
this is the internet .. I would worry more if this was in real life face to face.. wont work ... move on


I agree with you but unfortunately, some people do get hurt by these comments, as not everyone are used to having nasty comments for unjust reasons and nor should people have to.

I don't mind taking nasty comments onboard but there's a few people that mean a lot to me that's been hurt by all the bitching going on around here and I want to do something to make it stop
#36
dog_cop
lah lah lah lah not listening .....
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/75/213097848_8fc1019e0f.jpg?v=0



mmm Listening I'm Not

Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.”
#37
http://maximumseriosity.com/serious.jpg
banned#38
realfriendlyman
I agree with you but unfortunately, some people do get hurt by these comments, as not everyone are used to having nasty comments for unjust reasons and nor should people have to.

I don't mind taking nasty comments onboard but there's a few people that mean a lot to me that's been hurt by all the bitching going on around here and I want to do something to make it stop


I get terribly upset by your continual unjust comments about my football team! :w00t:
banned#39
for those who need some support ......................................
http://www.lancashire.police.uk/uploads/pics/body_armour.jpg
good for back stabbers and general hurtful abuse... can come in pink for the ladies amongst you
#40
dog_cop
for those who need some support ......................................
http://www.lancashire.police.uk/uploads/pics/body_armour.jpg
good for back stabbers and general hurtful abuse... can come in pink for the ladies amongst you


Are the stripes still silver though?

There may be some clashing!

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