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Is False hope better than no hope?

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banned9y, 2w agoPosted 9 years, 2 weeks ago
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banned9y, 2w agoPosted 9 years, 2 weeks ago
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#1
Oh I can see this 1 turning into an argument.
#2
Mum2Connor&Cerys
Oh I can see this 1 turning into an argument.


Nothing new round here lately ............. :)
#3
yes:)
#4
Always gotta have hope, the false hope is usually dependant on a point of view
#5
of course it is my friend...check out my topic! http://www.hotukdeals.com/item/197649/if-u-won-the-lottery-tonight-7mill-/ its good to see people excited about something that could possible happen to them!
#6
and i might "possibly" learn how to type correctly....once can only live in hope :thumbsup:
#7
If hope makes a person feel good then why would it be bad...?
banned#8
i think false hope is better than no hope to. just wandered if everyone shared this view
#9
King of Thieves
If hope makes a person feel good then why would it be bad...?

because he put the word "false" in front of it...i think that if ppl are in a bad situation which wont get any better, them having false hope is a positive thing if it gives them strength.... on the other hand, false hope could b quite dangerous.......sometimes ppl are better off preparing for a fall so that when something bad does eventually happen, they will have been expecting it, compared to having false hope, a terrible thing happening then not understanding why it happened. i dont think theres a definate answer to ur question...did u ask this for a specific reason...ie do u find urself in this situation debating whether to let someone have false hope or tell them the truth?
#10
Omgz @ Teh Lawlz False Hope = Paranoiaz Lolz Rofllmato Kthxbye
#11
smithyp1
Nothing new round here lately ............. :)


No
#12
acecatcher3
because he put the word "false" in front of it...i think that if ppl are in a bad situation which wont get any better, them having false hope is a positive thing if it gives them strength.... on the other hand, false hope could b quite dangerous.......sometimes ppl are better off preparing for a fall so that when something bad does eventually happen, they will have been expecting it, compared to having false hope, a terrible thing happening then not understanding why it happened. i dont think theres a definate answer to ur question...did u ask this for a specific reason...ie do u find urself in this situation debating whether to let someone have false hope or tell them the truth?


I know of a few people who have false hope. It's there way of coping so for them I would say it's a good thing. Personally, for me I wouldn't like to have false hope. I like to see things as they are. Dont mind having hope (e.g. winning the lottery rofl) when I know that it's extremely unlikely not to happen. But then thats not false hope because im not really expecting to win.
But i see where you're coming from and I agree. It just depends on the person really...


Here's a question though since you asked about whether I know anyone with false hope. I know someone who has false hope and i tell them there hope is false so to speak. They know themselves that their hope is false but yet they still choose to hold on to it. Why is that......?
(this is a female having false hope on a guy, so any advice from women might be good lol)
#13
well im a male so shall i quickly go docs for ya and get the sex change and come bk to answer? :P im not sure why that is tbh, maybe shes not ready to let go or something, i guess over time they will realise that in this case, its not healthy to rely on false hope and that they have to move on!
#14
Shes been like this for almost a year lol.

Let me know when you've had that sex change :thumbsup:
#15
King of Thieves

Here's a question though since you asked about whether I know anyone with false hope. I know someone who has false hope and i tell them there hope is false so to speak. They know themselves that their hope is false but yet they still choose to hold on to it. Why is that......?
(this is a female having false hope on a guy, so any advice from women might be good lol)


Its not DLM is it? :lol:
#16
lol will do, ill even post pics!
#17
MinstrelMan
Its not DLM is it? :lol:


No idea who DLM is... wait, isn't she the girl that got suspended and then she came back made a thread about child care and got bullied :?

HUKD is such a nice place, glad i joined :-D
#18
King of Thieves
No idea who DLM is... wait, isn't she the girl that got suspended and then she came back made a thread about child care and got bullied :?

HUKD is such a nice place, glad i joined :-D


thats the one.... apparently she came across as a bit of a bunny boiler, so I heard anyway
#19
Depends entirely what that hope is built upon. To most people the word "hope" is another way of living according to fate or chance. Personally, I believe in making choices that decide how my life is going to turn out. It is not chance but choice that determines the outcome of our lives. Accidents only happen because we choose to do a certain thing or go in a certain direction.
I see "hope" as "confidence" in the choices I have made. False hope will come unstuck somewhere along the line, but and we end up blaming everyone but ourselves for personal failure. If the "hope" I have turns out to be false, then I already know that I chose to do it my own way.
#20
MinstrelMan
thats the one.... apparently she came across as a bit of a bunny boiler, so I heard anyway


No idea mate, i think she was taking the p*ss though.
Says she likes kids but only if they're well behaved, if they're naughty then she can't deal with them so gets her boyfriend to scare them. And yet she considering becoming a child minder.
Sounds a bit shhtooooopid if you ask me, but then who am i to judge..... :whistling:

And why does sassie not like DLM?
#21
King of Thieves
No idea mate, i think she was taking the p*ss though.
Says she likes kids but only if they're well behaved, if they're naughty then she can't deal with them so gets her boyfriend to scare them. And yet she considering becoming a child minder.
Sounds a bit shhtooooopid if you ask me, but then who am i to judge..... :whistling:

And why does sassie not like DLM?


lol i beliieve DLM said she would kick sassies head in
or somethign along them lines
#22
Always best to be optimistic - the power of positive thought!
#23
numptyj
lol i beliieve DLM said she would kick sassies head in
or somethign along them lines


LOL. Women are so nice these days :-D
banned#24
he,he,he, i dont hate anyone, just canna be doing with the bull, so tend to speak out, where otheres just quietly s******
#25
The belief of everything is OK but when really you know full well it isn't.

As it says its false hope so you're only believing in the better as a comfort zone of emotional control but inevitably you have to face the real consequence of the situation, kind of an act of futility IMO repeat IMO.

No fat people were offended in this post.......
#26
sassie
he,he,he, i dont hate anyone, just canna be doing with the bull, so tend to speak out, where otheres just quietly s******


So what actually happened, if you don't mind me being nosy?

(if you do then just tell me to ***** off :thumbsup:)
banned 1 Like #27
have to shorten it about, me sausages are burning

she insinauted i was a dog
i told her she was fugly
she lost the polt
and started effin and blinding
and wanted to come to find me to rip me head off
all the time i was shaking in me boots............




















laughing like that always has that affect, gotta go cook tea, bye xxx
#28
sassie
have to shorten it about, me sausages are burning

she insinauted i was a dog
i told her she was fugly
she lost the polt
and started effin and blinding
and wanted to come to find me to rip me head off
all the time i was shaking in me boots............



















laughing like that always has that affect, gotta go cook tea, bye xxx


lol
enjoy your sausages :)
#29
sassie
have to shorten it about, me sausages are burning

she insinauted i was a dog
i told her she was fugly
she lost the polt
and started effin and blinding
and wanted to come to find me to rip me head off
all the time i was shaking in me boots............




















laughing like that always has that affect, gotta go cook tea, bye xxx


Haha, i like you already :-D.

Shame you can't cook though, take some lessons :p
banned#30
sausages where lovely, chips were gopping and the egg yolks split, back to being a shat parent
#31
King of Thieves
No idea who DLM is....



DLM is a comedy genius, just wish I'd given her more credit at first. She sometimes takes it too far like with what she said about pk but some of her retorts are hillarious. That last thread had me in stitches.
#32
I prefer no hope... Straight and forward is the way to go.
#33
sassie
sausages where lovely, chips were gopping and the egg yolks split, back to being a shat parent

What's gopping?
banned#34
chrysha
What's gopping?


not very nice, yacky, cacky, errrr, etc,etc
#35
sassie
not very nice, yacky, cacky, errrr, etc,etc

Just looked it up in the Urban Dictionary, not a definition I could post on here!
1 Like #36
I hoped to see a pic :(
banned 2 Likes #37
THRILLER-DEEJAY
I hoped to see a pic :(
I have the pics. I'll PM them to you tomorrow




































































(false hope)
1 Like #38
sherg
THRILLER-DEEJAY
I hoped to see a pic :(
I have the pics. I'll PM them to you tomorrow




































































(false hope)

Thanks! Oh wait a minute :(
#39
THRILLER-DEEJAY
I hoped to see a pic :(

Fill yer boots.....

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/03/23/article-0-0B3F8F1800000578-599_634x355.jpg

Though why you wanna see a pic of that miserable fecker god only knows! oO
#40
markq
THRILLER-DEEJAY
I hoped to see a pic :(
Fill yer boots.....

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/03/23/article-0-0B3F8F1800000578-599_634x355.jpg

Though why you wanna see a pic of that miserable fecker god only knows! oO

Is that fluffy?

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