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'IV FALLEN IN LOVE WITH A STRANGER!!! WHAT SHALL I DO ABOUT IT?

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Ok so here goes..... advice needed please? Went into a warehouse to enquire about storage for a friend and cupids arrow hit me straight on!!! Now I know what real love is coz once before I fell in l… Read More
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8y, 8m agoPosted 8 years, 8 months ago
Ok so here goes..... advice needed please?
Went into a warehouse to enquire about storage for a friend and cupids arrow hit me straight on!!!
Now I know what real love is coz once before I fell in love across a crowded room and lived a fairy tale for a while but sadly we had to part, but I still have happy memories ahh!!!
Well on my enquiry visit we chatted about the place for a while but somehow moved on to chit chat when he told me about his divorce 5 years ago and his new cats ( I love cats too!) etc etc, but all too soon I had to leave! God why didn't I make a move or ask the obvious???
But I haven't been able to get him out of my mind and am driving friends crazy talking about my new husband etc but I don't know how to approach him or ask him out as although he told me about his divorce it was ages ago and he may have a new lady??
He did look rather tanned so maybe just had a nice romantic holiday! He is smart, nice voice, and maybe a tad younger than me so how do I go about it without making myself look a wally?
I must be getting old as I would never have had a problem asking him out before? Friends are just saying to just go back and ask him out but I am feeling like one big chicken and need some advice from all you helpful cupids please?
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8y, 8m agoPosted 8 years, 8 months ago
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banned#1
Can you ask one of his colleagues!
#2
Don't mean to be nosey, but how old are you (to the nearest 10 years if you want)?
#3
just do it!!! life's too short to not take chances.... he can only say yes or no and if its a no then so be it but if he says yes then happy days :thumbsup:
#4
Wow that was quick thanks! mmm maybe I could ring and ask but would probably sound like a stalker!!:oops:
#5
I am 39 years young!!! No dependents!!! Going on 16.......Thats why it is so sad that I should be sooooooo tongue tied as I am usually very bubbly and confident! God sad and single, I am doomed to be a spinster with lots of cats around me! Mind you can you be a spinster if your divorced (15 years ago!)
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fifitrix123
Wow that was quick thanks! mmm maybe I could ring and ask but would probably sound like a stalker!!:oops:


About 13 year's ago, i had the hot's for a friend of a friend, i rang him on a Monday at work.

I went out with him for a while after the telephone call!

Good Luck x x
#7
"But I haven't been able to get him out of my mind and am driving friends crazy talking about my new husband etc but I don't know how to approach him or ask him out as although he told me about his divorce it was ages ago and he may have a new lady??"

wow u sound like one scary lady, talking as if hes ur husband when u spoke to him once loooool, poor guy.
#8
fifitrix123
Wow that was quick thanks! mmm maybe I could ring and ask but would probably sound like a stalker!!:oops:


Go for it I say... although when it comes to stalkers you are now definitely in the right place. There are a few on here that could give loads of advice in that field.

:lol:
#9
as a fella that is single and would love to be asked out i think the best way is to go in there and say you enjoyed the chat you had last time and do you fancy a drink to get to know each other.. good luck.. i'm always available if he's married tho :O)
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fifitrix123
I am 39 years young!!! No dependents!!! Going on 16.......Thats why it is so sad that I should be sooooooo tongue tied as I am usually very bubbly and confident! God sad and single, I am doomed to be a spinster with lots of cats around me! Mind you can you be a spinster if your divorced (15 years ago!)


You will find somebody nice x x

Have you put your picture on here for the HUKD stalkers to see :thumbsup:
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acecatcher3
"But I haven't been able to get him out of my mind and am driving friends crazy talking about my new husband etc but I don't know how to approach him or ask him out as although he told me about his divorce it was ages ago and he may have a new lady??"

wow u sound like one scary lady, talking as if hes ur husband when u spoke to him once loooool, poor guy.


http://thegrumpyman.files.wordpress.com/2007/11/bunny-boiler-small.jpg

:lol:
#12
I kind of think you're confusing love with being attracted to someone, TBH (as a bloke) the way you're talking is coming over a 'little' scary. You like the guy, you clearly hit it off, get yourself together and go ask him if he fancies going for a drink but don't build yourself up for a crushing fall if he says no by pinning the rest of your life on his reply.
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http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:4hJh9T5wi_s3bM:http://www.greenbergs.net/images


http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:OklqigtAtTbvtM:http://www.fastfixdirect.co.uk/images/categories/Nut_Full_STST_82.jpg
#14
NOTHING TO LOSE.................You Don't ask, you DON'T GET !!!!!
#15
fifitrix123;3245801
I am 39 years young!!! No dependents!!!


Then you have life's experience on your side, and it won't be the end of the world if he says no (it would be if you were a teenager!!!).

go for it girl - what have you got to lose???
#16
Hey everyone loving the advice and the pics!!! Although please take the bunny out he may hurt himself!!!

I'm not scary honest and I don't think my world will end if he says no as my mate got loadsa fishies in her pond!!!
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Hey everyone loving the advice and the pics!!! Although please take the bunny out he may hurt himself!!!

I was hoping to get myself a stalker..........

I'm not scary honest and I don't think my world will end if he says no as my mate got loadsa fishies in her pond!!!

Thanks kermitzbitz too, I think you are the only bloke to give nice sensible advice, maybe thats why I normally stay clear!!!

Well I am going to spend the evening pondering and then probably do the most sensible thing available...................................... get my mate to call hahahahaha!!!!:giggle:
#18
good luck hun....,u cant spend ur life wondering what if! x
#19
go back and ask him out. i did something similar nearly 14 years ago and very happy married ...good luck
#20
fifitrix123
Hey everyone loving the advice and the pics!!! Although please take the bunny out he may hurt himself!!!

I was hoping to get myself a stalker..........

I'm not scary honest and I don't think my world will end if he says no as my mate got loadsa fishies in her pond!!!

Thanks kermitzbitz too, I think you are the only bloke to give nice sensible advice, maybe thats why I normally stay clear!!!

Well I am going to spend the evening pondering and then probably do the most sensible thing available...................................... get my mate to call hahahahaha!!!!:giggle:


hahaha.. Well let us all know how you get on.. i'll keep those pinkies crossed for ya...
ps.. if you have any mates near Portsmouth.. point them my way will ya..

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