My friends mum lays flowers on her ex's grave (my mates dad) on the Anniversary of his death each year. She has since re- married as this happened 6 years ago, so is now with this new guy (mates step dad) but this year it has split them up :/
He has been offered work abroad for 6 months and she won't go because it would mean missing visiting grave/laying flowers down.
Time she moved on don't you think?!?