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Lol - where would this leave you?

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banned5y, 7m agoPosted 5 years, 7 months ago
Crackin story.

My friends mum lays flowers on her ex's grave (my mates dad) on the Anniversary of his death each year. She has since re- married as this happened 6 years ago, so is now with this new guy (mates step dad) but this year it has split them up :/

He has been offered work abroad for 6 months and she won't go because it would mean missing visiting grave/laying flowers down.

Time she moved on don't you think?!?
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banned5y, 7m agoPosted 5 years, 7 months ago
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suspended 1 Like #1
No chance of flying back for a couple of days?
2 Likes #2
losing someone through death is not quite the same as splitting up with someone, its respect for the lost and also her son's father

Edited By: Alfonse on Apr 18, 2011 20:19
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Starr
No chance of flying back for a couple of days?


Yeah i guess, only heard what I was told earlier was trying to be serious but at the same time didn't really know what to say ..

I just put myself in the current guys position can see why maybe it has frustrated him but also understand her reasons.

Just thought what an odd situation!
banned 2 Likes #4
dig them up, have them cremated and carry everywhere in an urn, problem solved
2 Likes #5
Does she get frisky at the grave? He'll probably be all stiff.!!!
1 Like #6
You dont need to visit a patch of earth to remember someone. Carry their memory inside you.
#7
by ex do you mean they split up, or ex because he had died and she then re married
#8
He's better off without her
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Peterdj41
by ex do you mean they split up, or ex because he had died and she then re married


Ex because he is dead.
#10
interflora deliver
#11
blimey, hope you're all this pleasant about your own fathers death
1 Like #12
DangerGod
Peterdj41
by ex do you mean they split up, or ex because he had died and she then re married

Ex because he is dead.

If he hadnt died then chances are she wouldnt be with this new guy, it would be annoying for him/ anyone but he has to understand that he wasnt her first true love.
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Alfonse
blimey, hope you're all this pleasant about your own fathers death
i was like this with my own near death, so anyone else has no chance
1 Like #14
You can still be respectful to the dead without being disrespectful to your new partner. If she wasnt ready to move on she shouldnt have re married

Edited By: pinkleponkle on Apr 18, 2011 20:43
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wow clingy bitch
#16
Perhaps she could get someone else to leave flowers on her behalf.
#17
its probably due to the fact that it is a time when she remembers the relationship and at the grave is the only place she feels some sort of closeness.....

Its hard to say really what they should do, if she has done it for 6 years since being married then the guy cant stop her doing it now......
#18
If it's really important to her why can't she just come home for a day or two at the right time.
On the other hand the new partner should surely try to understand that its clearly still painful for her and she wants to pay her respects. If he's insensitive to her feelings maybe he's not the right person for her.
Give and take bothways.
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I wonder what she'd do if this husband died on the same date, but abroad.

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