my mum left my dad when she was pregnant with me and she never allowed him acces and i grew up thinking my step dad was my real father,
they told me when i was 11,i started writing to my dad but my mum shortly put an end to it and she told me to tell him i wasnt interested anymore
then a few days ago i was told he has been trying to find me for a long time,spoke to my dad on monday and have made plans to meet him on friday so im driving over to walsall.
im also one of 11 children and have a big family to meet which is going to be strange as i have a distant relationship with my parents here
anyone else been through the same thing?