my mum has always been a drunk but she has got worse over the years then 4 years ago i just had enough of her attention seeking ie calling me over saying she was commiting suicide etc i just didnt need it i had 3 kids at the time and was pregnant with my 4th her constant c**p wore me down and i evetually lost my baby boy at 22 weeks so i just stopped all contact with her and said i would only rebuild a relationship if she gave up the drink
through the years my grandmother who i think the world of has tried her best to get us to make friends but i wasnt having any of it
but then when i went into labour with zack 8 months ago my grandmother came over to look after my other children and my mother dropped her of since then i have started a relationship with her again,
but now i regret it she hasnt changed,her behaviour sickens me i feel bad as i have introduced 3 of my children to a drunk to be fair she doesnt always drink she goes on benders instead and drinks in the house for days
i just dont know what to do for the best she doesnt want help she is happy the way she is and if 4 years of us not talking to her and not seeing her grandkids isnt enough to make her change,what is?
anyone else been through this?