firstly please dont think im an uncaring person,i am,i love my mum to bits but i dont know how to deal with this anymore
my mum who has always been a heavy drinker and an attention seeker has recently had breast cancer,she has undergone a masectomy and now has to have 6 lots of chemo
so far she has had 2 and she is now drunk again saying she has decided not to have the treatment anymore and that her body cant take it
im not trying to be hard but i have had enough of hearing it everytime she drinks,i know she is going through alot but at the same time i think back to my friend and her lovely little 4 year old who had many ops and chemo only to be told there was no hope for her and she still smiled everyday
also my childrens other grandmother only got given 2 weeks to live she only saw one of our children and died days after he was born
she has always been a binge drinker and constantly makes a show of herself but now people are saying well she is going through alot,
my mum has just phoned her mother (my grandmother) who is 80 and told her she is stopping all treatment and the docs have told her its only prolonging her life(which is a lie) so now my grandmother is worried sick and cant sleep
how would u deal with this?