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My next "would you?" ......your spouse snogs another person...

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6y, 6m agoPosted 6 years, 6 months ago
(thanks to Emmerdale again lol) ...do you take them back??
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#1
????????
#2
nope last bird tht cheated on me (pulled a "mate" of mine) i pumped one of her best mates :-D

revenge is sweet
#3
what would you do LLM
#4
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micoo
nope last bird tht cheated on me (pulled a "mate" of mine) i pumped one of her best mates :-D

revenge is sweet


:w00t:


lol at "pumped" :-D
#5
bossyboots;8676028
what would you do LLM

No......any betrayal is enough for me to say "see ya"....and i'd also add a few extras like "well you were crap in the sack anyway" "my yorkshire terrier has a bigger and fatter weener" etc etc :)
#6
whatsThePoint
your online !! don;t read her other thread :oops:


Hi You :-D..........had a great weekend enjoying the sun so not been in house much:) Yeah av seen her other thread lol
#7
Depends...did he get faceraped?
#8
angelfairee;8676061
Depends...did he get faceraped?

eh??? :thinking:
banned#9
I've no problem forgiving it, the making up she'd have to do for months...
#10
master_chief;8676068
I've no problem forgiving it, the making up she'd have to do for months...

as in how would you fix it? Endless Bj's ect are we talking?
banned#11
Lulu'sMammy
as in how would you fix it? Endless Bj's ect are we talking?


The world doesn't revolve around sex but yes that 3way will definitely be had :thumbsup:
#12
Lulu'sMammy
eh??? :thinking:


did she jump at him, forcefully sticking her tongue in his month without giving him the chance to object
#13
micoo;8676123
did she jump at him, forcefully sticking her tongue in his month without giving him the chance to object

Lol....no.
banned#14
Circumstances make a big difference to my decision.
#15
DLM
Circumstances make a big difference to my decision.


lol what circumstances? they pulled another person
banned#16
micoo
lol what circumstances? they pulled another person


What if they had a one off with someone and are deeply upset about it also.
#17
DLM
What if they had a one off with someone and are deeply upset about it also.


lol, the fact the regret it means nothing, they obvisously didnt at the time
banned#18
micoo
lol, the fact the regret it means nothing, they obvisously didnt at the time


They confess after several month's of guilt.
#19
micoo
lol what circumstances? they pulled another person


:giggle:



I go out most Friday nights with my husband and our friends to the local. You can spot the single females a mile off as they are constantly "scanning" the room :lol: I am sure you single guys do it too, but think sometimes the females are a bit more obvious !!!!!! Alcohol def plays a part I think when philandering married folk go out on their own
#20
DLM
They confess after several month's of guilt.


for me that changes nothing, they cheated, end of
#21
They have still betrayed the one they are "suppose" to love and cherish.
I do see your point DLM, i will give you another example of this happening with a cousin of mine....she met a fella whilst out and exchanged numbers.
They were then texting back and forth for a while and arranged to go for a drink together.
They chatted, she didnt say she was in a relationship or had children, although the man told her he had a child and was single.
She then snogged him when they left.

What do you think in this case? :)
#22
bossyboots
:giggle:



I go out most Friday nights with my husband and our friends to the local. You can spot the single females a mile off as they are constantly "scanning" the room :lol: I am sure you single guys do it too, but think sometimes the females are a bit more obvious !!!!!! Alcohol def plays a part I think when philandering married folk go out on their own


guys are subtle about it, when i walk into a room, i could point out the hot ones, attempt (usually well) to point out the single hot ones, this takes one quick scan, litterally a few seconds and not obvious at all

Most guys are the same :lol:
banned#23
micoo
for me that changes nothing, they cheated, end of


Some people have too much to lose because of a fling.

They prefer to talk it out and mend their relationship.

You might understand when you leave mummy and daddies place :-D
banned#24
Lulu'sMammy
They have still betrayed the one they are "suppose" to love and cherish.
I do see your point DLM, i will give you another example of this happening with a cousin of mine....she met a fella whilst out and exchanged numbers.
They were then texting back and forth for a while and arranged to go for a drink together.
They chatted, she didnt say she was in a relationship or had children, although the man told her he had a child and was single.
She then snogged him when they left.

What do you think in this case? :)


Just a woman missing her single life.

It doesn't mean anything.
#25
oh here we go:roll:
#26
DLM
Some people have too much to lose because of a fling.

They prefer to talk it out and mend their relationship.

You might understand when you leave mummy and daddies place :-D


then they shouldnt have done it in the first place, anyone who takes back a cheater deserves to be cheated in again

and even though its not ur business leaving my parents house would change nothing, i dont want a serious relationship, im happy to keep goin out on the ****, much easier
#27
DLM;8676229
Just a woman missing her single life.

It doesn't mean anything.

Really? You would take your fella back if he was the "she" in this scenario? Would it not be on the back of your mind when you kiss him that those lips have been around somebody elses lips? This is a snog, not a peck were talking.
Your more a woman than me because i'll be honest, it would always be on my mind. If im faithful, i expect my OH to be also.
#28
Lulu'sMammy
They have still betrayed the one they are "suppose" to love and cherish.
I do see your point DLM, i will give you another example of this happening with a cousin of mine....she met a fella whilst out and exchanged numbers.
They were then texting back and forth for a while and arranged to go for a drink together.
They chatted, she didnt say she was in a relationship or had children, although the man told her he had a child and was single.
She then snogged him when they left.

What do you think in this case? :)


She was bang out of order - and mega disrespectful to her partner as well. If a relationship has gotten to that stage where u will look elsewhere - u have to either sit down and talk about it, or end it I think. I have never been cheated on, nor have I cheated, but know people its happened to, and the consequences are just devastating
#29
micoo
did she jump at him, forcefully sticking her tongue in his month without giving him the chance to object


That's the one.

It's not your fault if that happens.
#30
bossyboots;8676236
oh here we go:roll:

Post 24 Big baps....what would you do ;-):p
#31
Lulu'sMammy
Really? You would take your fella back if he was the "she" in this scenario? Would it not be on the back of your mind when you kiss him that those lips have been around somebody elses lips? This is a snog, not a peck were talking.
Your more a woman than me because i'll be honest, it would always be on my mind. If im faithful, i expect my OH to be also.


I think you have summed that up perfectly you know :thumbsup:
#32
Lulu'sMammy
Post 24 Big baps....what would you do ;-):p


answered it !! Respect is everything in a relationship - and how can u be respectful to your OH if ur swapping saliva with someone else
banned#33
micoo
then they shouldnt have done it in the first place, anyone who takes back a cheater deserves to be cheated in again

and even though its not ur business leaving my parents house would change nothing, i dont want a serious relationship, im happy to keep goin out on the ****, much easier


If you have spent many year's together have children etc..

A good chat on what went wrong will probably mend things.

Lulu'sMammy
Really? You would take your fella back if he was the "she" in this scenario? Would it not be on the back of your mind when you kiss him that those lips have been around somebody elses lips? This is a snog, not a peck were talking.
Your more a woman than me because i'll be honest, it would always be on my mind. If im faithful, i expect my OH to be also.


I don't see it as important.

If he was seeing somebody several month's, year's etc...

Different story,

I wouldn't let anyone steal my man :-D
1 Like #34
DLM
If you have spent many year's together have children etc..

A good chat on what went wrong will probably mend things.





:lol: that makes it worse
#35
There is 2 phrases i can come up with it then DLM...

1. Doormat
2. Dependant
Unfortunatly i would refuse to be No. 1.
I honestly don't know how relationships can be repaired after anything like that has happened. It would ALWAYS be there.
#36
If its just a one off and a drunken snog then i would let it drop ,after all we all make mistakes but anything more then i would get rid.

When ive had partners you would be amazed how many people still try it on with you still , they see it as a challenge i guess , most people aint got many morals these days
banned#37
micoo
:lol: that makes it worse


My parent's separated when I was 10.

I wouldn't leave my children without a father at home because of a fling.
banned#38
A-n-d-y
If its just a one off and a drunken snog then i would let it drop ,after all we all make mistakes but anything more then i would get rid.


+1
#39
DLM;8676324
My parent's separated when I was 10.

I wouldn't leave my children without a father at home because of a fling.

and then we come to the argument of "were only staying together for the sake of the kids"....
we only get one life, this aint a practice run. Everybody needs to be happy.
#40
Lulu'sMammy
There is 2 phrases i can come up with it then DLM...

1. Doormat
2. Dependant
Unfortunatly i would refuse to be No. 1.
I honestly don't know how relationships can be repaired after anything like that has happened. It would ALWAYS be there.


Yes I agree with that too. A snog is a betrayal.....full stop. The women who go with married men - and know that fact - are pathetic and am sure would hate it done to them.

DLM u say you would never let anyone steal your "man" - yet you have admitted to being with a married man - wonder if his wife knew about that - like would you know if your "man" done it to you.

I think a lot of woman who have affairs with married men are insecure - Fern has posted up her story and she felt like that at the time

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