in a nutshell, me and hubby went through a rough patch earlier this year resulting in him having an affair and leaving me and our boys, aged 2 and 4. he has paid the mortgage but i have had to pay everything else. i think i have coped pretty well so far but i of course miss him as do the kids. i have asked him to come back for those and other reasons - i miss the company, he cant pay my mortgage forever and afford his own place etc. He says he is sorry and misses us but doesn't want to come back if we'll end up breaking up again. Im not sure if wanting him back for all these practical reasons is the right thing to do as physically i cant bear him touching me. will that get better in time or is it too late? I appreciate any advice anyone could give me as im in turmoil!!