New 'proposed' Govt database to find out if your 'Male' partner has a wife beating conviction - Where's the mans one for violent women ?? Can gay partners use it too...NO !! - HotUKDeals
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New 'proposed' Govt database to find out if your 'Male' partner has a wife beating conviction - Where's the mans one for violent women ?? Can gay partners use it too...NO !!

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Typical half baked ideas to appease the minority. Do they not realise women beat men too ??? does this also apply to gay relationships ??. As usual - so many not bothered to look into possibilties…
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8y, 2w agoPosted 8 years, 2 weeks ago
Typical half baked ideas to appease the minority. Do they not realise women beat men too ??? does this also apply to gay relationships ??.

As usual - so many not bothered to look into possibilties

Home Secretary Jacqui Smith told the BBC: "Any violence against women, inside the home, or outside the home, is unacceptable.
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8y, 2w agoPosted 8 years, 2 weeks ago
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#2
half of one and 2 of the other, err wait a sec...............
#3
Your thread title is misleading, as there is no database according to the link you have provided.
#4
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#5
I have read your link and watched the two videos and all I can see is that there is a 12 week consultation to try to reduce domestic violence, with the emphasis on 'against women; there is a push to educate about domestic violence and the home secretary has asked a policeman to produce a review and make suggestions.
The register suggestion seems to be from the BBC, as usual.
One senior policeman spoke about how it may be useful for woment to know if new partners coming into their households had convictions for domestic violence.
I have opinions on each of these points.

Your heading however OP, does not seem to have any basis in fact that I can see from your link.
#6
Strange thread.

Any 'man' who gets knocked about by a woman must have some serious issues.
1 Like #7
Typical.

Men can't beat women up, but women can beat men up 'til the cows some home.

The single most discriminated against group of people in this country are single,straight,white men.

It stinks.
#8
Trickyjabs
Strange thread.

Any 'man' who gets knocked about by a woman must have some serious issues.


The biggest issue being that he's getting the **** beaten out of him, or so I would have thought.
#9
she was on loosewomen today and said that its not just regarding men abusing women but vica versa too she is just promoting violence against women and not just domestic abuse all violence against women...
banned#10
welshkaz
she was on loosewomen today and said that its not just regarding men abusing women but vica versa too she is just promoting violence against women and not just domestic abuse all violence against women...


Promoting Vilence against women..... Lock her up, that can't be right!:p
#11
Trickyjabs
Strange thread.

Any 'man' who gets knocked about by a woman must have some serious issues.


Yes, those issues being:

he has a violent wife/girlfriend

and

he won't hit a woman, even when hit first.

Yes, very serious issues there. bravo...
1 Like #12
Trickyjabs
Strange thread.

Any 'man' who gets knocked about by a woman must have some serious issues.


Whereas someone like you hits back, eh?

You big alpha male you!!!
#13
grex9101
Whereas someone like you hits back, eh?

You big alpha male you!!!


loooooooooooooool!!

You could try restraining her though. Until she starts to pinch :-(
#14
grex9101
Typical.

Men can't beat women up, but women can beat men up 'til the cows some home.

The single most discriminated against group of people in this country are single,straight,white men.

It stinks.


I agree with this, we should put a poll on the gov website lol
#15
Trickyjabs
Strange thread.

Any 'man' who gets knocked about by a woman must have some serious issues.


Shengis
The biggest issue being that he's getting the **** beaten out of him, or so I would have thought.


ChipSticks
Yes, those issues being:
he has a violent wife/girlfriend
and
he won't hit a woman, even when hit first.
Yes, very serious issues there. bravo...


grex9101
Whereas someone like you hits back, eh?
You big alpha male you!!!


v2drinkers
And a woman who allows a man to beat her up doesn't?
Abuse is not about strength its about power. Its just as easy for a woman to abuse a man as it is for a man to abuse a woman.
IMO the police cannot do anything unless the person being abused is prepared to make an official complaint. Unfortunately a lot of the time the person being abused doesnt want the complaint to be made official instead they like to fool themselves by thinking that the abuser will not repeat the offence until sadly it is too late.



Wow, you all jumped on an imaginary bandwagon there.

Firstly, violence in any form is wrong. No one should have to put up with a violent partner. But I do believe there is a very big difference between men and women as far as this issue is concerned, you just can't compare the two. While I would always feel great pity for any woman (and anger at the man) who is on the receiving end of violence, when I hear the recent press that 'men are MORE likely to be on the receiving end', I find it almost laughable.

Secondly, nowhere in my original post did I condone male on female violence. I dispise all forms of violence and I believe no one has the right to harm, physically or mentally, another person.
#16
Trickyjabs
Strange thread.

Any 'man' who gets knocked about by a woman must have some serious issues.


lmao
#17
dt_matthews
lmao


still laughing
#18
Trickyjabs
But I do believe there is a very big difference between men and women as far as this issue is concerned, you just can't compare the two.


Why not?

Trickyjabs
when I hear the recent press that 'men are MORE likely to be on the receiving end', I find it almost laughable.


Why?
#19
I think the issue is if you have to use something like this to check on a new man/woman's history then you have your doubts straight away which leads to all sorts of problems to start with.
#20
I think its wrong someone i know (dont want to say tooo much incase they are a member) well im not sure what happens but they fight like cat and dog, i always had it down to him doing it but now im not so sure.

An incident a while ago ended up with the woman arrested with no marks on her and the man with cuts all down his face, ears etc, and severe body bruising, which to me says it was her, but i think at times they can be as bad as each other, what shocks me the most is the fact she is the profession she is in.

I think it should be equal men should find out about woman as much as the other way round, and also that should be for people in the Gay community as well.
#21
grex9101
Typical.

Men can't beat women up, but women can beat men up 'til the cows some home.

[COLOR="Red"]The single most discriminated against group of people in this country are single,straight,white men.[/COLOR]

It stinks.


agreed
#22
Any violence against spouses / partners is a serious matter, and should be condemned by all right thinking people.

HOWEVER - don't get too excited about this "proposal".

It is simply the Gimmick Of The Day from this useless, useless government.

No matter that the idea is clearly unworkable ("Do a police check on your fiance before you marry him!!") , this New Labour shower of incompetents just love to grab a headline and waste our taxes on such irrelevant, unworkable nonsense.

I am surprised that Jacqui Smith, the Two Home Secretary, can spare the time for this rubbish. Surely she is fully occupied fiddling her taxpayer-funded expenses?
#23
grex9101
Typical.

Men can't beat women up, but women can beat men up 'til the cows some home.

The single most discriminated against group of people in this country are single,straight,white men.

It stinks.


And to the person who messaged me saying they hope i'm "young, naive and ignorant" for saying the above.... I'm none of those things.

I'm VERY aware of how maligned the single straight white men are becoming in this country are becoming.

You only have to look at things like positive discrimination, Father's "rights" and various other issues to see the truth.
#24
grex9101
I'm VERY aware of how maligned the single straight white men are becoming in this country are becoming.


What an absolute load of self-pitying rubbish! How do you know what it's like to be anything other than a 'single straight white man'? So how can you compare?

Being a white male is the luckiest gift you will ever be given. It's wrong, but, presuming you don't come across as a complete neanderthal, you are more likely to be considered for jobs, loans, infact almost anything in life.

As a British white male, you can apply for a credit card and jump on an airoplane and go nearly anywhere in the world, a freedom that 90% of the world's population will never experience.

I am a white male and have had a great life. Nothing gets in my way, self-pity would if I allowed it to, but that would just be foolish. When someone like yourself blames the system/government etc you are just making excuses for not getting on with life.

Let me put it like this, I'm your fairy godfather, I grant you one wish, but I get to choose. You can stay as you are OR you can wake up tomorrow and be a gay, black woman, what would you choose? AND if you choose the latter, do you think your life would get easier OR more difficult?
#25
v2drinkers
What a load of racist rubbish!


I'm confused.com? If you mean I'm racist aginst my own racial group, then yes, I agree! :thumbsup:
#26
Trickyjabs
What an absolute load of self-pitying rubbish! How do you know what it's like to be anything other than a 'single straight white man'? So how can you compare?

The same way that I can compare many, many other things - by assimilating the available evidence and then making an informed decision.
Trickyjabs

Being a white male is the luckiest gift you will ever be given. It's wrong, but, presuming you don't come across as a complete neanderthal, you are more likely to be considered for jobs, loans, infact almost anything in life.

You are missing one VITAL point - proof.
Trickyjabs

As a British white male, you can apply for a credit card and jump on an airoplane and go nearly anywhere in the world, a freedom that 90% of the world's population will never experience.

Hardly my problem, oh, and the word is AEROPLANE.
Trickyjabs

I am a white male and have had a great life. Nothing gets in my way, self-pity would if I allowed it to, but that would just be foolish. When someone like yourself blames the system/government etc you are just making excuses for not getting on with life.

A bit personal, eh? Where did I blame anyone, where did I make excuses? I'm simply pointing out the actuality of the current situation.
Trickyjabs

Let me put it like this, I'm your fairy godfather, I grant you one wish, but I get to choose. You can stay as you are OR you can wake up tomorrow and be a gay, black woman, what would you choose? AND if you choose the latter, do you think your life would get easier OR more difficult?

I'd be a gay black woman!!!!
(and I'd have fun!)


Dude, you're funny.

Have you tried doing stand-up?

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