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ok a bit of a dilema and i want to know peoples views am i wrong to be a bit annoyed

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OK to start of i have a sister who lives in wales that my family was only re united with in february MY sister from wales contacted me this morning asking if i had heard from our mum , i replied YE…
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banned7y, 8m agoPosted 7 years, 8 months ago
OK to start of i have a sister who lives in wales that my family was only re united with in february

MY sister from wales contacted me this morning asking if i had heard from our mum , i replied YES this morning , why whats up. she says has mum mentioned next week to you , i replied no why whats happening , she says OH well i cant tell you then

i got it out her eventually that my mother had went and booked a week travel down to london with my other sisters and brother to go visit my sister from wales and grandfather,

now when i spoke to my mother she says she didnt no what my sister was on about , while saying this to me on the phone she was on msn to my sister saying her tickets had arrived and she couldnt wait to see my sister ,

im very close to my mother and do alot for her , i re united her with my sister , so i dont understand whyshe felt she had to lie to me
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banned7y, 8m agoPosted 7 years, 8 months ago
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banned#1
you mum needs to stop having babies




EDIT: your mum and your bro and sis are in the wrong. the one that asked you about the 23rd is the nice one.

tell your mum that you are not annoyed that she is going away with some of your other siblings and that you are hurt that she felt the need to lie to you.
#2
ive tried to read it 3 times
banned#3
bykergrove
you mum needs to stop having babies



lol theres 6 of us in total , my older sis from wales was the one i justmet for the 1st time in 22 years in february on the tv
banned#4
kungfu
ive tried to read it 3 times



sorry im terrible at long stories
#5
that almost perfectly typed welsh...lol
#6
kungfu
ive tried to read it 3 times


Ditto!

What did your mum say about it?
banned#7
bfjem
that almost perfectly typed welsh...lol



i no , im not on for a slagging just a bit ****** and wanting to no ppls views
banned#8
toni15500
lol theres 6 of us in total , my older sis from wales was the one i justmet for the 1st time in 22 years in february on the tv


nice baps btw
banned#9
bellabonkers
Ditto!

What did your mum say about it?


say about what part ?
banned#10
bykergrove
nice baps btw


lol :thumbsup:
banned#11
toni15500
say about what part ?


about lying to you.
#12
i'd go on trisha and have it out with her.
#13
[COLOR="Red"]Have you ever heard of paragraphs?[/COLOR]
#14
toni15500
sorry im terrible at long stories


I think some paragraphs may help, as it's very hard to read one large block of text.
banned#15
kungfu
ive tried to read it 3 times


+1 if anyone does work out what it says
please let the rest of us know:thumbsup:
banned#16
The JFK
[COLOR="Red"]Have you ever heard of paragraphs?[/COLOR]




yes i have and im sure i could re write the story , im not n for litteracy lessons either just wantin some advice on the matter
banned#17
rm13_hammer
+1 if anyone does work out what it says
please let the rest of us know:thumbsup:



never mind if anyone actual wants to give me advice pm me please
#18
I 100% agree with you tbh...I hate it when loved ones lie to me...infact when anyone does...and when they try back track etc....I read your story perfect 1st time but my old mans welsh and I went Uni in cardiff so I guess I have an advantage lol advice ono the sitaution with your mum is just let it all clam down a bit first then ask her why she lied and let her know it wasn't to nice
#19
she told my sister that the reason she didnt tell me or my other sister is that we would have wanted to go excuse me but i have my own life with my man and 3 kids to lead im just back my holidays so i dont see where she got that from


Perhaps that's why she didn't mention it then.....
Do your other siblings have their own families? Maybe she just acted without thinking.
banned#20
sven256
I think some paragraphs may help, as it's very hard to read one large block of text.


try harder
#21
Perhaps you and or you sister have kicked off before when your mum hasn't invited or taken you somewhere at some point in the past??? Just ask your mum why she felt she had to lie to you.

Good luck
#22
i think what ppl are saying is yr post is abit hard to understand what you are saying, as its all in one paragraph. maybe edit yr post, so its easier to read what you saying. dont shoot me, just giving MHO
#23
kungfu
ive tried to read it 3 times


I only got half way :lol:
#24
Like others have said, my advice would be to use paragraphs. Not knocking you, but it's hard to read and it left me out breath in trying! :)
#25
toni15500
yes i have and im sure i could re write the story , im not n for litteracy lessons either just wantin some advice on the matter

[COLOR="Red"]
How can anyone give you advice when you can't explain the situation?

You should:
-Take English lessons
-Bullet point the situation, breaking down the key points
-Then turn your bullet points into prose
-Run it through 'spell check'
-Re-post your 'situation'

Then people might be able to help you.

:)[/COLOR]
#26
bykergrove
try harder


If someone wants help on a subject, surly it's in their interest to make it easy to read for everyone.

I'm not the only one, as there are quite a few with the same problem. It was just a suggestion to the original poster, so she may get more responses.
#27
i would be annoyed if someone lied to me ask her why she thought she had to lie
banned#28
bellabonkers
Perhaps that's why she didn't mention it then.....
Do your other siblings have their own families? Maybe she just acted without thinking.


no they dont , and i mean i tell my mom everything as i am close to her after everything i went thru to find my older sister , and she tells me all but to go and do this then sayshe didnt tell me because i would have wanted to go was a bit of a ****** thing see my sis told me what was says mum didnt tell me face to face
#29
Just speak to your mum again hun and just explain to her that you are really hurt that she lied to you, even when you mentioned the date she still lied to you and ask her why she did this, why she felt the need to lie to you. Hope you get it sorted, nothing worse than fighting with your mum :)
banned#30
fab_1
i would be annoyed if someone lied to me ask her why she thought she had to lie


i tried and my sis tried and she blanked me , im not a bad person , i mean im the sort of person that would have says BRILLIANT will utake chez down some pics of my kids or mum here u go there £20 each for the kids
banned#31
munnski
Just speak to your mum again hun and just explain to her that you are really hurt that she lied to you, even when you mentioned the date she still lied to you and ask her why she did this, why she felt the need to lie to you. Hope you get it sorted, nothing worse than fighting with your mum :)


i tried to speak with her this evening and she just sent me atxt saying oh well u have fallen out with me i wont go , but when i called earlier all i got was abuse from my 15 year old sister
#32
Are you on good terms with the sibling (s) your mother is going to see??

Perhaps it was just something that got out of her control.

Still I'd be hacked off too
#33
its obvious she didnt want you to know as she didnt want to give you the opportunity to tag along
#34
the reason could be your mum doesn't like you as much as you thought.










perhaps Jeremy Kyle could help with this
#35
I'd be miffed as well to be honest, but the only way to get to the bottom of it is to talk to her. Why don't you arrange to go and see your sister some time yourself? Might make you feel a bit better.
#36
Are you absolutely sure its your mum lying to you? Could it be your sister stirring up trouble between you and your mum? Before accusing your mum make sure you are sure, I would hate to think you spoilt your relationship by making an accusation. Better to be careful and find out all sides then make a decision. Good luck, families are always the most difficult of things to fathom. :)
banned#37
jennybubbles
Are you on good terms with the sibling (s) your mother is going to see??

Perhaps it was just something that got out of her control.

Still I'd be hacked off too



YES my sister i have just been re united with afer 20 odd years and we get on brilliant thats why she didnt get that our mother kept it a secret
banned#38
kidcat
Are you absolutely sure its your mum lying to you? Could it be your sister stirring up trouble between you and your mum? Before accusing your mum make sure you are sure, I would hate to think you spoilt your relationship by making an accusation. Better to be careful and find out all sides then make a decision. Good luck, families are always the most difficult of things to fathom. :)




i am sure , because i messgaed my mum saying mum dont lie to me i no all whats going on and she went straigh on the phone to my sister saying what i had just messaged her and does she think i no all whatsgoing on
banned 1 Like #39
my sister who lives in Wales contacted me today asking if i'd heard from our mother.
I told her I had spoken to her this morning. She then asked if my mother had mentioned something about the 23rd. My mother hadn't and I asked what the significance of the 23rd was.

She explained that she couldn't tell me herself but I persevered and in the end she told me that my mother (who I am very close to) booked a week to london with two of my other siblings. The adgenda of the trip to london was to meet another sister of mine, also from Wales.

I phoned my mother immediately and asked if anything indeed was occurring on the 23rd. She denied any such trip for three hours but after persevering again, she admitted the fact that she was going to london and that now, because she has fallen out with me, she won't be going to London after all.

I am not bothered about the fact that she was going away, nor that she hadn't told me.

I'm more annoyed about the fact she lied when I asked her.

She said she was thinking about it but she had actually already booked the tickets and they arrived today.

As I already mentioned, I am close with my mother and I do a lot for her, I was also brought up to never lie. Especially to people who you claim to love.

She is now trying to make me feel guilty by texting me and telling me she won't go because we have fallen out. I haven't fallen out with her. I am just annoyed with the fact she kept it a secret and she told me the reason she did this is because I would have wanted to go also. But since I have three kids and massive baps I have my own things to worry about.


(tried my best here guiessssssssss there may be the odd grammatical error)
banned#40
bellabonkers
I'd be miffed as well to be honest, but the only way to get to the bottom of it is to talk to her. Why don't you arrange to go and see your sister some time yourself? Might make you feel a bit better.



i keep regular contact with my sister , thats what i dont get my mum calles me to call my sister to see how she is

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