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i just had a girlfirend of over 3 1/2 years dump be completely out of the blue. can anyone help me get over this because at the moment it seems to have ripped my world apart. any tips or words o…
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7y, 6m agoPosted 7 years, 6 months ago
i just had a girlfirend of over 3 1/2 years dump be completely out of the blue.

can anyone help me get over this because at the moment it seems to have ripped my world apart.

any tips or words or wisdom would be nice
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7y, 6m agoPosted 7 years, 6 months ago
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#1
Ouch mate, that sucks, hope you're okay.
:friends:

girls eh?
suspended#2
Tbh only time will help you ... it is horrible also some female attention may help x
#3
You've come to the right place :)

Seriously, hope you'll be okay. With every door that closes another door opens:thumbsup:
banned#4
listen to the streets - dry your eyes mate, get it up on you tube, go buy a bottle o voddy and cry yourself to sleep
#5
gsettle24
listen to the streets - dry your eyes mate, get it up on you tube, go buy a bottle o voddy and cry yourself to sleep


Aint you an Optimist :roll:
#6
Btw, u spelt RELATIONSHIP wrong :P
#7
You deserved better anyway, you are far too good for her.
#8
yeah so sorry to hear that mate, really hope your ok. the only thing i can say is go watch some good old films, even crap ones, anything to take your mind off life and just keep your head up high and stay cool bro.
#9
yeah it was, today seems to have been the longest day ever!
#10
Hit the town pull a S*** and do the rest
#11
just move on
#12
Dont worry you will be back on you feet in no time if it wasnt meant to be it wasnt meant to be.
#13
it's going to take time, this is only the first day. Any mates you can go round to tonight? Get planning things for the weekend the best thing to do is keep busy and the days won't drag. It will take time but you will move on eventually.
#14
Tinkytayls is right. Its going to hurt for a while but time is definately a healer. Further on down the line you will realise that it was probably for the best and you'll have moved onto better things. It happens to us all at some time and at the moment you probably feel like crap, If you can accept that, have some good mates, take advantage of being single and dont rush into another relationship you should be fine. Keep your chin up.
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thanks guys
#16
You'll get over it,I'm in a similar situation but way more complicated,longer relationship,kids,home etc involved and I'm hopeful about myself too.
#17
so......where do you live ?
#18
The last thing you want to hear is that you will get over it with time, but it's true. She obviously wasn't happy for whatever reasons, so she isn't the one for you.

hope you feel better soon xxx
#19
what was the reason

1. got someone else
2. became a dyke
3. you were no good in the sack
#20
out comes the singletons
#21
lol you guys are cheering me up im in worcestershire and im only 18 which is why i didnt want to say because most of the time people say 'oh you were too young to care anyway' but im hurting so it obviously mattered.

Thanks though guys
#22
jellybaby22
age doesnt matter...anyone who cares about someone and gets dumped is gutted.....xx


thanks for understanding
#23
05jamhad;6189059
lol you guys are cheering me up im in worcestershire and im only 18 which is why i didnt want to say because most of the time people say 'oh you were too young to care anyway' but im hurting so it obviously mattered.

Thanks though guys


I'm out......you're too young for me :oops:
#24
only 18? great now u can unleash the inner beast, plenty more fish in the sea
#25
oh dear... been there and got the tee shirt fella.. for me only time was the healer really. I found that real good mates are there for you at times like this. Also being single will help you after a while.. it will give you time to breathe and focus on your life.. dont rush into a new relationship. Ive been single for nearly a year now and couldnt be happier. Take care dude
#26
as soon as you get someone new your partner will be thinking twice.and to be honest if your partner can do this to you is your relationship worth it
#27
Just try not to think of her ridding that young stud's throbbing weapon THAT SHE'S SURELY IMPALING HERSELF OVER AND OVER. ( sorry , but perhaps this is not the most helpful thing to say ) Don't worry mate beer will cover just about anything.
#28
:friends: Hugs hun, you'll be just fine, hopefully in a few weeks you'll look back at this thread and wonder why you started it ;-)

Life is just beginning and this will be just one of the 'first love' stories you'll tell to anyone else whose heart is broken xxx Good luck fishing ;-)
#29
Ah It's hard when you lose your first love - I remember feeling really ill when I split with mine.

But I can honestly say that I found an even better love. I didn't seem possible at the time of course, but you will grow strong.

Be kind to yourself and let your heart mend.. I found the best thing to do was to channel my energy into exercising. It released endorphins which helped me feel better, and of course, by the time I was ready to date again I was very fit - lol.

Not that you'll be thinking of that now, but try to get out with some mates too!

Time will heal XxX
#30
snowflake
:friends: Hugs hun, you'll be just fine, hopefully in a few weeks you'll look back at this thread and wonder why you started it ;-)

Life is just beginning and this will be just one of the 'first love' stories you'll tell to anyone else whose heart is broken xxx Good luck fishing ;-)


I hope i can look back at this and wonder why i started it
banned#31
Can I have her number please?
#32
You will get over it, Its the weekend soon go out on the lash with your mates, go to a strip club

basically do everything you werent allowed :lol:
#33
ilovepink
You will get over it, Its the weekend soon go out on the lash with your mates, go to a strip club

basically do everything you werent allowed :lol:


I agree. ;-)
#34
ilovepink
You will get over it, Its the weekend soon go out on the lash with your mates, go to a strip club

basically do everything you werent allowed :lol:


seems like good advice :w00t:

you will get over her, but it may take some time.At 18 you have plenty of time to find someone else and settle down, have some fun :thumbsup:
#35
Times a great healer :) Hope your ok and keep your chin up xx
suspended#36
Congratulations... 18 eh?

ENJOY YOURSELF!!!

Wish someone told me that :cry:
#37
Zak_K
Btw, u spelt RELATIONSHIP wrong :P


That will be why she dumped him then. :whistling:

Like when he first started dating and wrote her a poem about his massive cook.





Hope you start to have fun again soon and find someone who appreciates you.
#38
Do you know why she dumped you?, If you didn't do anything wrong like get off with her mate/spend more time with your mates or beat her up then my guess is she's met someone else either from work/college/uni whatever, Best bet is get down the Boozer with a few mates and get out your tree you never know she might change her mind after a few days.
#39
I think many relationships end around this time. Not many people marry their childhood sweetheart!

There's most likely nothing either of them have done 'wrong' in particular. But it is an experience that many go through - and it will make him stronger.
#40
vibeone
Can I have her number please?


I've just about had it with you and your saki comments you :p

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