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paranoid? am i reading into this too much?

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so ive been chatting to someone for a couple years now on and off. we are back on speaking terms and he says he is interested in me and wants to take me out but when i look on his facebook page tonigh… Read More
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8y, 3m agoPosted 8 years, 3 months ago
so ive been chatting to someone for a couple years now on and off. we are back on speaking terms and he says he is interested in me and wants to take me out but when i look on his facebook page tonight i see this message from a lass 'Thank you for the lovely message you are great too. i know i cant believe after all these years we have got back in touch... it will not be long to go now ;-) yey yey yey x x x' whats annoying is he has obviously messaged her before texting me all night. is he secretly a rat? or am i being paranoid over nothing. no i havent met him but i want to and he says he wants to meet me too, now i see this and i dont know what to do
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8y, 3m agoPosted 8 years, 3 months ago
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#1
Don't get me started,most are game players.
#2
Keeping his options open i'd say,lining a few women up!
#3
sorry but, whats he done wrong?
banned#4
Dont hate the player. hate the game.

^ Tru dat

on a serious note though... its not like you two are dating is it? he can have some fun while he is single no harm there. maybe just friendly banter (pahahaha yeh right) nah seriously i think your just looking into it to much .
#5
avoid him!!x
#6
tinkerbell28
Double post, I agree:thumbsup:



i agree, but can't really see what's wrong with it, until you meet up and start a relationship why not?
#7
so should i still go ahead and meet him? hes not your typical lads lad going out drinking all the time and stuff like that which is why this message has me confused. i cant look on her page to see what hes said cos its private and shes in manchester network and im in newcastle network
#8
wonder-baby
i agree, but can't really see what's wrong with it, until you meet up and start a relationship why not?


yeah i was sort of thinkig along those lines, but at the same time i have been shat on in the past and its made me so wary
banned#9
donnaraine
so should i still go ahead and meet him? hes not your typical lads lad going out drinking all the time and stuff like that which is why this message has me confused. i cant look on her page to see what hes said cos its private and shes in manchester network and im in newcastle network


thats doesnt matter you can still add them. or get someone else to add her so it doesnt look suspicious lol
#10
DangerGod
thats doesnt matter you can still add them. or get someone else to add her so it doesnt look suspicious lol


but isnt that crazy stalkerish behaviour? lol
banned#11
donnaraine
but isnt that crazy stalkerish behaviour? lol


yes but its healthy behaviour lol
banned#12
dont hate the playa just play the game
#13
DangerGod
yes but its healthy behaviour lol


OMG ya nutcase lol
#14
DangerGod
yes but its healthy behaviour lol


lol nooooo i cant do that. and im not going to start asking him who she is, i mean we arent seeing each other so he can do what he wants but just makes me think again about meeting himand has me wondering what he said to her
#15
The guy is only after one thing, just go an meet him
#16
makershaker
The guy is only after one thing, just go an meet him


whats the one thing?
#17
donnaraine
whats the one thing?


Wants his end away
#18
Without sounding harsh I think your being a little paranoid. You arent together right? So he is just a single fella whos having fun chatting to girls. Now if you were together and this happened, thas an entirely different story...
If you dont feel comfortable meeting with him after reading that then don't go as the night will just be really awkward
banned#19
makershaker
Wants his end away


lmao
#20
tinkerbell28
I do not what you mean. I know your not dating etc, etc and it should not matter, but it does, doesn't it? Almost like how can I describe it, you don't want to be part of a pick n mix, do you? Like you could be anyone, it's whoever says yes first kind of thing? I know that sounds bad, but I know what I mean as I would feel the same lol.


yeah it does matter. suppose only time will tell
#21
hunter82
Without sounding harsh I think your being a little paranoid. You arent together right? So he is just a single fella whos having fun chatting to girls. Now if you were together and this happened, thas an entirely different story...
If you dont feel comfortable meeting with him after reading that then don't go as the night will just be really awkward


so do i act as if it didnt happen? give him a chance but maybe keep my eyes open? it does sound dodgy though especially after some of the stuff hes said to me. oh if i was seeing him trust me by now his wil ly would be in a vice lol
#22
makershaker
Wants his end away


well if thats all hes after hes not getting it! im not like that lol
#23
donnaraine
well if thats all hes after hes not getting it! im not like that lol



I am,can i have his number!:-D
#24
donnaraine
so do i act as if it didnt happen? give him a chance but maybe keep my eyes open? it does sound dodgy though especially after some of the stuff hes said to me. oh if i was seeing him trust me by now his wil ly would be in a vice lol


You could just jokingly ask what the message was about, he leading you both on type thing.
I couldnt just keep quiet I have a big mouth lol
#25
hunter82
You could just jokingly ask what the message was about, he leading you both on type thing.
I couldnt just keep quiet I have a big mouth lol



Thats me,i'd end up saying something!
#26
deb8z
I am,can i have his number!:-D


:w00t:
#27
deb8z;4697989
I am,can i have his number!:-D


:w00t:
#28
deb8z
I am,can i have his number!:-D


haha dont tempt me to give it out, i would actually find that really funny lol
#29
donnaraine
haha dont tempt me to give it out, i would actually find that really funny lol


ooooh like a love honey trap, catch him good an proper :w00t:
#30
hunter82
ooooh like a love honey trap, catch him good an proper :w00t:



I never thought of that pmsl !!
#31
hunter82
ooooh like a love honey trap, catch him good an proper :w00t:


noooooooo dont tempt me! good idea though
#32
donnaraine
noooooooo dont tempt me! good idea though


fabulous idea if I do say so myself lol :thumbsup:
#33
thing is he was offline when that message was sent so he hasnt seen it yet, think i will just keep an eye on his page for a few days see if she sends anymore
#34
hunter82
fabulous idea if I do say so myself lol :thumbsup:


you volunteering? tell me how the convo would go and i'll think about it lol
#35
donnaraine
you volunteering? tell me how the convo would go and i'll think about it lol


it would have to be censored huni :thumbsup:
pmsl no I am a very happyily married woman pmsl I was thinking more......
someone else...... :whistling:
#36
Men can be so thick,i was seeing this guy once,told me he was single and he was acting NOT single,i looked him up on Friends Reuinted,he was on there complete with a recent profile saying he was married,i confronted him and he said,we're just sharing the house we're splitting up!

There were a few choice words and i said goodbye,but not as politely!
#37
Ya can't set him up thats too mean.
#38
what are you looking for, night of passion, fun or serious. Why not meet him,have a laugh and take it from there.
#39
hunter82
it would have to be censored huni :thumbsup:
pmsl no I am a very happyily married woman pmsl I was thinking more......
someone else...... :whistling:


haha i couldnt do it anyway incase he found out it was me, but sometimes i wish i did have guts to do stuff like that. like i say time will tell
#40
deb8z
Men can be so thick,i was seeing this guy once,told me he was single and he was acting NOT single,i looked him up on Friends Reuinted,he was on there complete with a recent profile saying he was married,i confronted him and he said,we're just sharing the house we're splitting up!

There were a few choice words and i said goodbye,but not as politely!


oooh i wouldve phoned his wife lol

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