whilst i was out shopping tonight my 6 yr old has said a couple of things im now worrying about
he asked my partner if father xmas still comes when u die my partner was abit taken back and asked why he had asked my son replied because if i die can my brothers have my presents,my partner reassured him that it was not going to happen then later on my son had asked my 13yr old daughter if its old people that die she told him yes and that wouldnt happen 4 many years he then said his heart hurt and went of to bed
my daughter didnt mention this until i discussed it with my paartner when i got back from shopping
im now worrying about what he has said and im planning on talking 2 him about it tomorrow,i want to be honest with him but i dont want to worry him either
my partner thinks maybe our son is going to be a worrier like me and i really dont want him worrying about it
my partner has told me to stop reading so much into what he has asked but i cant help it and now worried he has sensed something bads going to happen to him
would appreciate any advice and was wondering if ur children have ever asked similar questions and how u explained to them?