It makes me feel less of a man, because the man of the house is supposed to earn the most right? Anyone else in the same situation how do you forget about it. I've decided i don't like her talking about how much she earns as it makes me feel s***, but i enjoy my job on less pay, more benefits and lots of flexibility. Where as she hates her job and is looking at getting a job where the staff are treated better but less pay. I supported her through uni paying for meals out, drinks driving for 2hrs every weekend to see her. I just hate money i wish we could just all go back to exchanging services and favours (not the rude ones).