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Would you still stay with someone you love, but are not in love with??? you understand what i mean!! Read More
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banned8y, 2m agoPosted 8 years, 2 months ago
Would you still stay with someone you love, but are not in love with???

you understand what i mean!!
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banned8y, 2m agoPosted 8 years, 2 months ago
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#1
are they fit?
#2
Do they have lots of money?
#3
Been through this myself - no........ but think long and hard about it
banned#4
reagrdless of if they are fit or not - as if someone is fit, that doesn't mean the relationship is nessacerly going to work in the longrun
banned#5
yes i would if evrything else was good
banned#6
hunchback
Do they have lots of money?


nope - but dont base a relationship on that
banned#7
Hmmm tough one, probably not
banned#8
DangerGod
Hmmm tough one, probably not


somwtimes you have to make these decisions in life which really do undermine your judge of charchter

i could easily carry on day in day out - careing for this person but deep down being unhappy in the long run
#9
Definately not......
#10
No as there is a big difference from being in love and loving someone.
#11
If this is a personal dilemma, then is this really the place?

If it's hypothetical then I'm not sure you could know until you were in the situation.
banned#12
BlondeBella
No as there is a big difference from being in love and loving someone.


ermmm - i suppose you have a valid point
banned#13
being in love is not the be all, you can be in love and be very unhappy, where as you can love someone with all your heart and be extremely happy, you have to do what makes you happy and not follow what you think is supposed to be right by others standards
#14
sunnysinghcheema;5242990
somwtimes you have to make these decisions in life which really do undermine your judge of charchter

i could easily carry on day in day out - careing for this person but deep down being unhappy in the long run


you've inadvertently answered your own question......move onwards and upwards hun :thumbsup:
banned#15
have they got big norks ?
banned#16
Flick a coin lol
banned#17
spider1986
If this is a personal dilemma, then is this really the place?

If it's hypothetical then I'm not sure you could know until you were in the situation.


i aint going to lie - it is a personal question - however dont worry i wouldn't base my overall decision from a forum. :thumbsup:
#18
only you can know the answer
#19
i think im in this situation...its not easy...im just playing it day by day, seeing shat happens
banned#20
DangerGod
Flick a coin lol


thats an idea - head i win, tales you lose :thumbsup:
#21
no...
banned#22
lil_tiger
i think im in this situation...its not easy...im just playing it day by day, seeing shat happens


yer it tough - what makes it worse is i am 23 and been twice married and twice engaged lol - not looking good on the CV of love
#23
I didn't and then met my wife 3 weeks afterwards.
#24
sunnysinghcheema
i aint going to lie - it is a personal question - however dont worry i wouldn't base my overall decision from a forum. :thumbsup:


Oh good lol.

Good luck figuring it out, just think it over and do what feels right. Don't rush into anything.
#25
sunnysinghcheema
yer it tough - what makes it worse is i am 23 and been twice married and twice engaged lol - not looking good on the CV of love


well seems you have made choices in the pst to stop things...maybe you already know what to do?
banned#26
DangerGod
Flick a coin lol


nah paper , rock.. scissors :thumbsup:
banned#27
sassie
being in love is not the be all, you can be in love and be very unhappy, where as you can love someone with all your heart and be extremely happy, you have to do what makes you happy and not follow what you think is supposed to be right by others standards


:thumbsup: valid point
#28
Carley
I didn't and then met my wife 3 weeks afterwards.


made me smile :)
banned#29
lil_tiger
well seems you have made choices in the pst to stop things...maybe you already know what to do?


maybe - however can't rush these decisions
#30
sunnysinghcheema
maybe - however can't rush these decisions


nope...its your choice completely, so im sure when the time comes you will know what to do...but remember to do whats best for you, dont stay with them to save their feelings.,..think that may be where I am stuck...good luck with whatever YOU decide
banned#31
aint being in love is what its like for the 1st few months, or when your 15, true love is getting over everything, working hard to get through when things are tough, etc,etc there all strong emotions, and what some class as being in love others class as loving, it doesnt matter whats its called its how you get through it that matters
banned#32
or if your rushed ...enie meanie minie mo:thumbsup:
#33
sassie
aint being in love is what its like for the 1st few months, or when your 15, true love is getting over everything, working hard to get through when things are tough, etc,etc there all strong emotions, and what some class as being in love others class as loving, it doesnt matter whats its called its how you get through it that matters


sounds like a best mans speech!
banned#34
lil_tiger
nope...its your choice completely, so im sure when the time comes you will know what to do...but remember to do whats best for you, dont stay with them to save their feelings.,..think that may be where I am stuck...good luck with whatever YOU decide


well i dont want to hurt them as i trully care for them as a person, thats proveing to be the hardest aspect
banned#35
sassie
aint being in love is what its like for the 1st few months, or when your 15, true love is getting over everything, working hard to get through when things are tough, etc,etc there all strong emotions, and what some class as being in love others class as loving, it doesnt matter whats its called its how you get through it that matters


wow - you have been through this lol :-D
banned#36
sunnysinghcheema
wow - you have been through this lol :-D


nah she googled it and cut and pasted :thumbsup:
#37
Agreed. I also think you go through periods where you are more in love with your partner than at other times. I always think so long as the good times outweigh the bad, that's a good start. But at the end of the day, it's what you feel in your heart!!

sassie
aint being in love is what its like for the 1st few months, or when your 15, true love is getting over everything, working hard to get through when things are tough, etc,etc there all strong emotions, and what some class as being in love others class as loving, it doesnt matter whats its called its how you get through it that matters
#38
sunnysinghcheema
well i dont want to hurt them as i trully care for them as a person, thats proveing to be the hardest aspect


ditto
banned#39
sunnysinghcheema
wow - you have been through this lol :-D


you dont get to be old without living along the way :thumbsup:
banned#40
torapoole
Agreed. I also think you go through periods where you are more in love with your partner than at other times. I always think so long as the good times outweigh the bad, that's a good start. But at the end of the day, it's what you feel in your heart!!


ok i understand that, however if you meet someone else and go on a few dates with them and you see the difference in terms of converstion and physical attraction then you do with your partner - in my eyes means its time to move on

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