Ok well i thought i may as well ask for some advice on here seeing as i tried talking to mates but none of them no what to say as they feel caught in the middle. Here goes-
Tomorrow was supposed to be the best day of my life, i was supposed to be getting engaged (found out thanks to one of my mates lettign slip) anyhows two weeks ago my em now ex decided that they didnt actually want a r'ship (2 years 7months late!) but want to 'do their thing'.
After probing enough i found it was so they could do what they want i.e hang out with mates when they want (not that they couldnt before though) and if they wanted go with other people. But during a long heart to heart last night they said they didnt think they would go with someone else but couldn't be sure but they also said they thought when they got their thoughts sorted out they would probably realise they wanted me.
So what would you do?
a. Bide my time and hope they want me?
b. Let them go with others and then wait and see if they want me?
c. Play them at their own game and go with some randomer 1st?
d. Cut all ties?
e. Do something else?
f. remain friends?
Oh and i'm female!"
Update - He already has a new girlfriend
So much for wanting freedom seems all along he just started to fancy someone new and ugly lol