I'm going to let you into a little secret.
If your looking for the love of your life and want to try on line dating its usually free to register but you have to pay to communicate.
If your a lady though, you're luck has changedhttp://www.planetpersonals.com
works as above but if you go to http://www.girlsgofree.com
you can access the same site without having to pay for it. :-D
Not saying it's any good but now it's up to you. :-)