My gorgeous wife and I have been happily married now for many years and you can say we are just an ordinary couple, but recently she's been saying things like "isn't Alice (a friend of ours) really pretty?" and "hasn't Gemma got really nice boobs?" Or "i think Cameron Diaz is really hot" (whilst watching In her Shoes). Now most men right now would be thinking I should be thanking my lucky stars but I can't help but feel a bit nervous. I asked a female friend of ours if this was normal and she just laughed and said "All women do it! We're always checking out other women!", but I'm still not sure. Should I be worried?!