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Should I be worried?!

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6y, 4m agoPosted 6 years, 4 months ago
My gorgeous wife and I have been happily married now for many years and you can say we are just an ordinary couple, but recently she's been saying things like "isn't Alice (a friend of ours) really pretty?" and "hasn't Gemma got really nice boobs?" Or "i think Cameron Diaz is really hot" (whilst watching In her Shoes). Now most men right now would be thinking I should be thanking my lucky stars but I can't help but feel a bit nervous. I asked a female friend of ours if this was normal and she just laughed and said "All women do it! We're always checking out other women!", but I'm still not sure. Should I be worried?!
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6y, 4m agoPosted 6 years, 4 months ago
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1 Like #1
Try and bag yourself a three way.
1 Like #2
Maybe she wants a threesome?
1 Like #3
Er.. no. I would be jumping for joy if I were you... good times ahead :{
banned 1 Like #4
no homo ?!
suspended#5
No i say it to my boyfriend and he is convinced i fancy kim kardashian.

I think women just appreciate other womans beauty :)
#6
Of course your answers were 'she's not as pretty as you', 'they're not as nice as yours' and 'not as hot as you'. She is seeing what you think of them in a sneaky way.
#7
I believe it's a woman thing, I hear it all the time from my female friends :)
banned 1 Like #8
yeah be afraid very afraid
#9
you should start checking out men to compensate
1 Like #10
never worry about the future, what ever will be will be!!!
4 Likes #11
My Wife does it too, but I find the when she says "Isnt she gorgeous" the quickest qay to stop this is to reply "Yes I deffinitely would". However you need to be able to run and apologise at the same time.
#12
I dont see that there's a problem here.......... If she was saying "that bloke from the local shop is good looking" or "that guy i work with",,,, then you need to be worried!!!
banned#13
wasnt the a deal for cheap divorces 99 quid or something
1 Like #14
She been buyin any 'personal' electrical items lately?
#15
isn't this an Friends episode......
#16
greg_68
Of course your answers were 'she's not as pretty as you', 'they're not as nice as yours' and 'not as hot as you'. She is seeing what you think of them in a sneaky way.


She'll say don't be so patronizing!
#17
greg_68
She been buyin any 'personal' electrical items lately?


Come to think of it didn't he post a deal the other day for an electric massager?
1 Like #18
Only be worried when she enters the bedroom with a massive strap-on attached to her.
banned#19
match .com doing some deals if your worried
#20
Mellow Yellow
Only be worried when she enters the bedroom with a massive strap-on attached to her.


;D no that hasn't happened yet thank god!
#21
lady love best love in the world
1 Like #22
Has she had her haircut short lately or purchased any dungarees or Dr Martens?
#23
greg_68
She been buyin any 'personal' electrical items lately?


Nah, she's not that adventurous! Lol
#24
ei8hty5ive
greg_68
She been buyin any 'personal' electrical items lately?


Nah, she's not that adventurous! Lol


She's trying to be though, this is the first step.
#25
ei8hty5ive
greg_68
She been buyin any 'personal' electrical items lately?


Nah, she's not that adventurous! Lol


Well....maybe not with you anyway.....
#26
She may be feeling insecure.
#27
greg_68
ei8hty5ive
greg_68
She been buyin any 'personal' electrical items lately?


Nah, she's not that adventurous! Lol


Well....maybe not with you anyway.....


Now you're making me nervous!

No, I just find it a bit weird cause blokes don't do this, ever!
#28
cherishu2
She may be feeling insecure.


Insecure women are the easiest. Its why i love them X)
#29
She's wanting to sample the rug...
#30
step 1. get a video camera

step 2.mount in hidden position in bedroom

step 3. go "away on business" for a few days

step 4.tesco are doing 2 for a quid on bounty kitchen tissues

jobs a goodun!
#31
Btw, Gemma does have really nice boobs, if that helps...
#32
its normal but she may be doing it more in front of you to get your reaction how quickly did you reply 'yeah gemma has cracking baps' ?
#33
ei8hty5ive
Btw, Gemma does have really nice boobs, if that helps...


You're doomed if she sees that.
#34
dmissy13
its normal but she may be doing it more in front of you to get your reaction how quickly did you reply 'yeah gemma has cracking baps' ?


I usually reply "does she?! I hadn't noticed..."
#35
ei8hty5ive
dmissy13
its normal but she may be doing it more in front of you to get your reaction how quickly did you reply 'yeah gemma has cracking baps' ?


I usually reply "does she?! I hadn't noticed..."


Why not discuss it with your wife? You said you've been married a few years so are obviously comfortable with each other, ask her if there is a reason that she's telling you, maybe she thinks its hot to discuss it with you?
banned#36
ei8hty5ive
dmissy13
its normal but she may be doing it more in front of you to get your reaction how quickly did you reply 'yeah gemma has cracking baps' ?


I usually reply "does she?! I hadn't noticed..."


Well you clearly have, so why are you not being open with your wife?

It jus sounds like you're hugely insecure, so much so that you're reading simple observations and compliments as being something more than they likely are.
#37
FilthAndFurry
[quote=ei8hty5ive]

It jus sounds like you're hugely insecure, so much so that you're reading simple observations and compliments as being something more than they likely are.


it's either that or he's a pervert who gets his kicks talking about a fake lesbian wife with white knights, bored housewives and students.
#38
It's not something i've had convos with my OH about,so i've no idea if it's "normal"
#39
ants97
FilthAndFurry
[quote=ei8hty5ive]

It jus sounds like you're hugely insecure, so much so that you're reading simple observations and compliments as being something more than they likely are.


it's either that or he's a pervert who gets his kicks talking about a fake lesbian wife with white knights, bored housewives and students.


I always pegged you for a bored housewife antsy.
#40
AshleyRFC
ei8hty5ive
Btw, Gemma does have really nice boobs, if that helps...


You're doomed if she sees that.


pics or lies?

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