As many of you know,me and my ex seperated in the Summer.
We only bought a house which got completed mid July,a few days after getting the keys,we had an arguement and he announced he had feelings for another. He later denied it several hours later and said he said it to make me jealous etc.
Anyway weeks went on and we eventually moved house and he got colder towards me and more arguements followed,I had enough and told him not to bother coming back home after work. Several weeks later he moved out and into a private rented flat.
I've been trying keep mortgage payments going for the past few mths,he been pestering me for cash for his share of the house as we went 50/50. I would be ok not having his share if he paid half the mortgage each mth but he can't afford to.
It was agreed I would pay him back most of his original deposit but to do this I would be about 100K in debt with the mortgage and borrowing of cash. He found out he would have solicitor fees to pay to put share across and started moaning about it.
I'm now fed up of him so now I'm not going bother borrowing some cash off a friend to pay him off a large lump sum,aswell as giving him £500 a mth to make up his deposit for the next year or so.
Anyway,I said keep the share of the house,I'm not giving you any money as it's putting me and children in hardship and I'm already taking on the mortgage each mth. He saying when youngest one gets to 18 he force me to sell up through courts, and then he will want half the sale.
This really not on as he will not have paid a penny more into it.
I will then have to move out of what been my home for a long time,so I'm just not paying anymore into it now and moving out into my parents into the New Year.