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I dont know where my life is headed, moved every year for the last 4 years and each time have moved within same town every few months. As many of the "older" posters know I had issues a few years b… Read More
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7y, 1m agoPosted 7 years, 1 month ago
I dont know where my life is headed, moved every year for the last 4 years and each time have moved within same town every few months.

As many of the "older" posters know I had issues a few years back that I never truely recovered from and I feel old before my time(27 years old and missed most of my early twenties due to family problems)

So I never experienced my twenties as I should so part of me is holding back and trying to be a student forever or just laze about and the other part wants to settle down but I can count the girls I slept with on 2 hands and just barely.

When I was younger I wanted to move to Bognor or similar in Sussex or Essex as I like seaside places and "common" places but never got around to it.

I was happy in home town till the family crisis in fact it was the best place I lived, but my own brother told me yesterday that time is running out and I need to settle down soon which I parly believe but I want to date first and work my way into a ok job and finish off my twenties first.

So shall I go back to home town or stay where I am now or move to another part of the UK?
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7y, 1m agoPosted 7 years, 1 month ago
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#1
up to you

bongor? wtf's that?

most people would probably want to move to australia or somewhere else exotic but bongor?
#2
I dont think moving to another part of the UK - where you will probably know no one - will help. Try move somewhere - if you really do need to move - where u have good friends.

Good luck Ryouga - and its good you can face things and try deal with them also.
#3
So I never experienced my twenties as I should so part of me is holding back and trying to be a student forever or just laze about and the other part wants to settle down but I can count the girls I slept with on 2 hands and just barely.


it doesnt matter how many girls you slept with, my early 20s was about getting drunk, hols in ibiza and having a laugh with my mates

do this and your be fine
banned#4
move down south and sleep with a few men! :-D
#5
How about trying some counselling to source the root of your problems
#6
You should move to somewhere you have connections too, going to a place where you know no-one isn't the best start!
#7
Your 27, there is no rush to do anything you could mess about for another 10 years before meeting 'the one'. Not like your biological clock is ticking.
banned#8
You are only 27 you have the rest of your life to find somebody nice.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

I wish I could count my sexual partners on 2 hands.

I was far too wild in my 20's, I can't change that but I am settled now.
banned#9
choc1969
How about trying some counselling to source the root of your problems


+1

Hi choc x x
#10
27 is getting on a bit though
asking to date or settle down is also late
get a job and get a life
1 Like #11
DLM
You are only 27 you have the rest of your life to find somebody nice.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

I wish I could count my sexual partners on 2 hands.

I was far too wild in my 20's, I can't change that but I am settled now.


do you use your toes too?
banned#12
jasonrat
do you use your toes too?


Yes and and and :p
#13
jasonrat
27 is getting on a bit though
asking to date or settle down is also late
get a job and get a life


Fool
#14
DLM
You are only 27 you have the rest of your life to find somebody nice.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

I wish I could count my sexual partners on 2 hands.

I was far too wild in my 20's, I can't change that but I am settled now.


Pebble, Grand Canyon. That is all
#15
DLM;7992320
+1

Hi choc x x


Hi hun, have more Farm Food vouchers if you want them :) xx

Ryouga - you need to stop moaning about things around you. Don't think I have seen one positive thread from you. Life is too short, no relationship is the same and having excessive sexual partners isn't a good thing IMO
banned#16
could be worse, you could have no fingers, so the count could be none
banned#17
CFC_Mark
Pebble, Grand Canyon. That is all


Oh well, I am experienced and have lived :p
#18
choc1969
Hi hun, have more Farm Food vouchers if you want them :) xx

Ryouga - you need to stop moaning about things around you. Don't think I have seen one positive thread from you. Life is too short, no relationship is the same and having excessive sexual partners isn't a good thing IMO


Lol you arent looking then, I dont make threads very often but when I do its tech help these days lol, you must be thinking back to about 2 years ago when I did have quite a few problems.
banned#19
choc1969
Hi hun, have more Farm Food vouchers if you want them :) xx

Ryouga - you need to stop moaning about things around you. Don't think I have seen one positive thread from you. Life is too short, no relationship is the same and having excessive sexual partners isn't a good thing IMO


When are they valid until?

I wish I could remove them notches from my bed :oops:
#20
DLM
You are only 27 you have the rest of your life to find somebody nice.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

I wish I could count my sexual partners on 2 hands.

I was far too wild in my 20's, I can't change that but I am settled now.


This you! :giggle:

http://static-p4.fotolia.com/jpg/00/01/08/95/400_F_1089583_YmkUNOvoPnX31lVtzsc0kdV2dtzaKD.jpg
banned#21
jubbyme
could be worse, you could have no fingers, so the count could be none


In a way I wish it was none.
#22
DLM
Oh well, I am experienced and have lived :p


thats whats life alls about
27 was living up large in miami then:thumbsup:
banned#23
GAVINLEWISHUKD
This you! :giggle:

http://static-p4.fotolia.com/jpg/00/01/08/95/400_F_1089583_YmkUNOvoPnX31lVtzsc0kdV2dtzaKD.jpg


Maybe :p

At least you didn't post a picture of a bike :p
#24
DLM;7992374
When are they valid until?

I wish I could remove them notches from my bed :oops:


end of Apr 2010 :)
banned#25
jasonrat
thats whats life alls about
27 was living up large in miami then:thumbsup:


Nothing wrong with that :thumbsup:
#26
CFC_Mark
Fool


obviously u havent got or had a life either
#27
My 30s were the best years of my life so far lol but this year is pretty good :-D
banned#28
choc1969
end of Apr 2010 :)


Oh right, that would be fab.

Do you still have my details?

Would you mind cutting them out and posting them in a smaller envelope x x
banned#29
choc1969
My 30s were the best years of my life so far lol but this year is pretty good :-D


Hope it stays that way x x
#30
[COLOR="Red"]Sell everything you own and put it all on red.[/COLOR]
#31
I had loads of problems at home when I was 18, so I moved away from home to a new place, on my own. I moved around 100 miles, knew no one and everything was strange at first. But now, nearly 2 years later it's the best thing I ever did. I had loads of new friends, and really do enjoy life.

Now I kind of want a new challenge and want to move somewhere else.. when I finish Uni I'm thinking about doing 6 months in New York, and if I like it I might stay.

One thing about the OP, if "Bongor" = Bangor, then don't do it.
1 Like #32
DLM;7992424
Oh right, that would be fab.

Do you still have my details?

Would you mind cutting them out and posting them in a smaller envelope x x


will do :thumbsup: xx
#33
The JFK
[COLOR="Red"]Sell everything you own and put it all on red.[/COLOR]


Lol interestingly enough one of my main concerns is I own so much i.e tv, pc and hundreds of dvds not very batchelor like and compared to other students who are minimalists i.e just have a laptop.
#34
The JFK
[COLOR="Red"]Sell everything you own and put it all on red.[/COLOR]


but not on avforums (if this is the same guy)
#35
Whatever you decide....stay away from Maccy D's! :p
banned#36
nickw90
I had loads of problems at home when I was 18, so I moved away from home to a new place, on my own. I moved around 100 miles, knew no one and everything was strange at first. But now, nearly 2 years later it's the best thing I ever did. I had loads of new friends, and really do enjoy life.

Now I kind of want a new challenge and want to move somewhere else.. when I finish Uni I'm thinking about doing 6 months in New York, and if I like it I might stay.

One thing about the OP, if "Bongor" = Bangor, then don't do it.


I think he might mean bognor.

Parents can be a nightmare :roll:
#37
jasonrat
but not on avforums (if this is the same guy)


Yep that Avforums thing from 18 months ago was me.
#38
DLM
I think he might mean bognor.

Parents can be a nightmare :roll:


I hope so. I wouldn't wish Bangor on anyone.
banned#39
choc1969
will do :thumbsup: xx


Would you like any money for postage?

Repped you sweetie.

You are so special x x
#40
Guildford ain't all bad if you wanna move here! lol

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