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9y, 8m agoPosted 9 years, 8 months ago
hello, me again - day off work you see


im feeling a little crappy today and wanted to talk/write about it.
it was our engagement party at the weekend, my mum and dad came up from wales to stay the night. I was sat on the couch with ella (davids neice) and I glaned up and noticed I was surrounded by davids family, not mine, and I felt so lonely.

we will be having a party in wales where it will just be my family, and ofcourse davids mum & dad, and maybe david will look up and feel lonely too. it just got me missing my family, and wishing I lived closer to them.

ive been living away from them for 9 months now, and I wish we could be closer. Id like to nip into town on my days off with my mum, and spend time with my sister hanging out on the beach near their house. but I cant.

their in wales, were in sheffield. we have to be where work is, davids job is very important. I dont have a proper career yet, I dont even know what I want to do, so I can move around and get a basic job anywhere, but david cant. The nature of his job means we could move to tons of different places before hes old and retired.

meh, I guess I just want consoleing.
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9y, 8m agoPosted 9 years, 8 months ago
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#1
aww *hugs* it can be hard to be away from family, but just remember their only a phone call away and if you needed them then I'm sure they'd be there in a flash.
#2
thought id attempt to cheer myself up with some spending:

Blair Witch 2 - Book Of Shadows (Region 2 DVD)
Garden of Shadows - Virginia Andrews (Books)
Jacob's Ladder (Region 2 DVD)
Masters Of Horror: Series 1 Vol. 2 (6 Discs) (Region 2 DVD)
Poltergeist 2 - The Other Side (Region 2 DVD)
Poltergeist 3 (Region 2 DVD)
Snakes On A Plane (Region 2 DVD)
The Haunting (1963) (Region 2 DVD)

:)
#3
dont watch blair witch 2, it'll make you more depressed because its so terrible!
#4
david gave it 5/10 and it was only £4.99 so I thought I might as well buy it
I was made sadder because flowers in the attic (dvd) is out of stock
#5
i know how you feel, most of my family and friends live miles away and i hardly see them.
#6
its horrible, and I cant even see them all at the same time because some live in warrington, some in leigh and the others in wales
#7
mine some of mine live abroad and most of my friends are miles away. ive had a busy weekend coz my mate broke his back playing rugby and we had to find a key 2 get into his house to feed the dog and then had to pick his car up, by the time we had finished it was 2am
#8
I cant wait to go to wales again and see my sister andf my doggies and my mum & dad
#9
I know how you feel, my mum was always finding it really difficult because of my dad's job. We were always moving (in fact I ended up going to four different primary schools across Yorkshire, Derbyshire and Lancashire). But as much as we hated constantly leaving our friends, it was always much harder for my mum.
#10
I know exactly what you are going through chuck.
I was born and brought up in the vallies, then, at the age of 19, got married and moved to Cheshire.
I missed my family SO much and I missed all the quirky Welsh things and when I visited, I couldn't believe how Welsh everybody sounded! It was so nice.
Time makes it easier. Its hard with working full time but on occasion, if I have a day off, I ring my retired mother and we arrange to get together half way and spend a couple of hours together.
http://www.fotw.net/images/g/gb-wales.gif
#11
what makes me extra sad is that all my life ive wanted to live in wales! I love wales so much, its beautiful. and now my mother, father and favorite sister have moved there with my lovely little chihuahas, and a week later my brother moved there too!

david says theres no games companies in wales :(
we get to go up for a day in april though, cant wait to take david to the beach and stroll along holding hands, I think he'l fall in love with the place.
#12
Fingers crossed x
#13
(I havent read garden of shadows, but have a few of virginia andrews other books, not just the flowers in the attic series)

Sorry to hear that you are not feeling your usual self, missed you on HUKD the last few days. Dont forget, you always have your friends on HUKD if you are feeling lonely :)
#14
kelly_o_fanatic
(I havent read garden of shadows, but have a few of virginia andrews other books, not just the flowers in the attic series)

Sorry to hear that you are not feeling your usual self, missed you on HUKD the last few days. Dont forget, you always have your friends on HUKD if you are feeling lonely :)


thanks :)
I also have my 2 books 2 read, didnt think too much of petals on the wind, though I loved the christmas party where she got some revenge
#15
Flowers in the Attic - good film:thumbsup:
#16
If there be thorns is good :) better than petals on the wind

'My Sweet Audrina' and 'Heaven' are both good books by Virginia Andrews

I have just started 'The four last things' by Andrew Taylor, which is the first of 4 books that the tv drama 'fallen angel' was based on. Is good so far, but not quite as good as the tv show.
#17
col
Flowers in the Attic - good film:thumbsup:


Thats what geek grrrl said, so I told her to get the book :) Is much better than the film, grandmother is a lot scarier!
#18
geek grrrl
its horrible, and I cant even see them all at the same time because some live in warrington, some in leigh and the others in wales

thats the way the cookie crumbles..i have family in limerick i rarely see...my oldest son and his gf and daughter (my grand daughter)60 miles away
#19
download the song sunscreen always works 4 me wen im down
#20
geek grrrl
[SIZE=1]hello, me again - day off work you see
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im feeling a little crappy today and wanted to talk/write about it.
it was our engagement party at the weekend, my mum and dad came up from wales to stay the night. I was sat on the couch with ella (davids neice) and I glaned up and noticed I was surrounded by davids family, not mine, and I felt so lonely.

we will be having a party in wales where it will just be my family, and ofcourse davids mum & dad, and maybe david will look up and feel lonely too. it just got me missing my family, and wishing I lived closer to them.

ive been living away from them for 9 months now, and I wish we could be closer. Id like to nip into town on my days off with my mum, and spend time with my sister hanging out on the beach near their house. but I cant.

their in wales, were in sheffield. we have to be where work is, davids job is very important. I dont have a proper career yet, I dont even know what I want to do, so I can move around and get a basic job anywhere, but david cant. The nature of his job means we could move to tons of different places before hes old and retired.

meh, I guess I just want consoleing.



Hey girl, snap out of it, this is not the you I saw a few weeks ago, What's he got for me now, WOW I'm so excited, whoopee, is it a ring, come on remember those days :-D it wasn't that long ago.

But one thing you have to accept is, David is now your family :w00t: . Spending money is not going to help you in the long term and in short will probably make you more depressed, or should that be the other way around :thinking:

So get up and start looking on the bright side, the sun is shining and we all love hearing about your hectic days of uncertainty, not your down in the dumps' days :giggle:

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