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thread removal because of different opinions

loupomm Avatar
9y, 7m agoPosted 9 years, 7 months ago
Right, i think its terrible that a thread has been removed just because there was a difference in opinion, in a forum such as this there WILL be many different views aired, no one can expect to post a thread and not expect people to give honest thoughts, so why do it if you dont want to hear them?

Everyone is different and what is the point in a community like this if our posts will get deleted if its not the answer that was wanted?
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9y, 7m agoPosted 9 years, 7 months ago
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[mod]#1
Which thread?? What did i miss?
#2
completely agree
banned#3
[SIZE=2]true I agree lou , but should we have to read the self sympthy threads which always end up in a bun fight ? Which really dont have a place on here at all, I am sure there are plenty of self help forums:whistling: [/SIZE]
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[SIZE=2]But free speech without expletives is always healthy :giggle: [/SIZE]
1 Like #4
im not saying anyone shouldnt ask for help/advice/cheering up, but different views will surface and should be dealt with accordingly, not deleted
[admin]#5
Has geekgrrls thread been deleted? What happened? It was a healthy debate when I left.... can't leave you alone for a second Lou :giggle:
#6
i agree as well lou, if the op don't want to hear all opinions then they should think before they post.
i also don't think that the people on here are qualified to respond to posts like that (no offence anyone but you know what i mean) and could cause more harm than good.
#7
dog_cop
[SIZE=2]true I agree lou , but should we have to read the self sympthy threads which always end up in a bun fight ? Which really dont have a place on here at all, I am sure there are plenty of self help forums:whistling: [/SIZE]
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[SIZE=2]But free speech without expletives is always healthy :giggle: [/SIZE]


yeah I don't think this is the place to get advice on depression .. and why post about it if you don't want an honest opinion .....had a feeling that thread would get pulled
#8
juliet_bravo
Has geekgrrls thread been deleted? What happened? It was a healthy debate when I left.... can't leave you alone for a second Lou :giggle:



twasnt me!, i was offering good advice i thought, i meant it in the nicest way :)
focus on plus's in life not the negatives :thumbsup:

my point here isnt about the thread but the issue of it being deleted cos of difference in opinions :-D
[admin]#9
If you want to debate about depression please start another thread to do so.

I'm don't want to see people hurt personally on this forum. If you can't say something nice or supportive personally don't say it. Just because you can say something doesn't mean you should.

Yes there's room for debate and in a case like this it would be better for people who want to debate depression to start their own thread about that instead of jumping on someone's personal situation.

Don't forget there are real people with real feelings and real problems behind their avatars.
banned 1 Like #10
I'm sure we wil all hear about it on the news later.

Woman, 21 found dead (or atleast high) after spamming a forum, buying a goldfish which was later used in an armed robbery of a post office. Before the tragic events she also assualted her boyfriend.
1 Like #11
Admin
you should have either removed the thread when she started it or locked it or asked her to discuss the "problem " in private. If she leaves it open for opinion every ones opinion will differ whether it hurts feelings or not
#12
JDeal
I'm sure we wil all hear about it on the news later.

Woman, 21 found dead (or atleast high) after spamming a forum, buying a goldfish which was later used in an armed robbery of a post office. Before the tragic events she also assualted her boyfriend.



oh jdeal, why??????????????
[admin]#13
I have to say I did feel sorry for her. Fair enough a public forum is not the best place to talk through her depression, but I bet the last thing she needed to hear was 'pull yourself together' and 'grow up, you've not got it that bad'

I'm not disagreeing with what anyone said, I'm not trying to be a pain in the bum, and of course everyone is entitled to their opinion but I reckon poor old geekgrrl is probably feeling about a million times worse now than when she started the thread asking for help....
banned#14
loupomm
oh jdeal why??????????????


That is only if she followed my advice, nobody ever does - so don't worry.

P.S - I was saying not having a mortgage is a good thing.
#15
There have been several threads on the forum recently where I've decided it's best to steer clear. I have been reading everyone's posts with interest though...
banned#16
Admin
If you want to debate about depression please start another thread to do so.

I'm don't want to see people hurt personally on this forum. If you can't say something nice or supportive personally don't say it. Just because you can say something doesn't mean you should.

Yes there's room for debate and in a case like this it would be better for people who want to debate depression to start their own thread about that instead of jumping on someone's personal situation.

Don't forget there are real people with real feelings and real problems behind their avatars.



Yes as may be in respect of real people with real problems but as its been said from another poster,this is a public forum. and not the best place to discus private problems, when you know that there are a vast amount of views from all across the spectrum and some views the poster will not like.. or are we saying we should always agree with the poster to keep them sweet ?
#17
Admin
If you want to debate about depression please start another thread to do so.

I'm don't want to see people hurt personally on this forum. If you can't say something nice or supportive personally don't say it. Just because you can say something doesn't mean you should.

Yes there's room for debate and in a case like this it would be better for people who want to debate depression to start their own thread about that instead of jumping on someone's personal situation.

Don't forget there are real people with real feelings and real problems behind their avatars.


my debate isnt with depression, i sympathise with anyone who goes through that, ive been through my fair share of tough times to know how it feels, but i just feel that everyone has the right to express a view and not get slated if its not matched by everyone elses
#18
Admin
If you want to debate about depression please start another thread to do so.

I'm don't want to see people hurt personally on this forum. If you can't say something nice or supportive personally don't say it. Just because you can say something doesn't mean you should.

Yes there's room for debate and in a case like this it would be better for people who want to debate depression to start their own thread about that instead of jumping on someone's personal situation.

Don't forget there are real people with real feelings and real problems behind their avatars.


Did somebody ask for that thread to be removed? If not, I think removing their post/thread could cause more problems that it solved.
[admin]#19
C'Mon Everyone.. Let's move on! Group Hug Anyone?.....

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#20
if i started a thread about extra shopping i got delivered, should i send it back or not, im sure there would be a split vote but could i then complain when someone posted 'take it back' when i want to keep it?
#21
dog_cop
Yes as may be in respect of real people with real problems but as its been said from another poster,this is a public forum. and not the best place to discus private problems, when you know that there are a vast amount of views from all across the spectrum and some views the poster will not like.. or are we saying we should always agree with the poster to keep them sweet ?


totally agree we all have our own opinion's why should some be allowed and some not
#22
ive missed what was said, as we had a power cut
#23
Miss Pink
ive missed what was said, as we had a power cut


JDeal was going to run away and join the circus...
#24
MBeeching
JDeal was going to run away and join the circus...

I thought he already had. :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
#25
MBeeching
JDeal was going to run away and join the circus...



but they saw him coming so packed up and left early :giggle: :giggle:
#26
loupomm
but they saw him coming so packed up and left early :giggle: :giggle:


lol :giggle:
#27
God, I've only just got home.... What Happened?
#28
MBeeching
JDeal was going to run away and join the circus...


:-D
banned#29
I just came back to tell you what happened, seems that you all have already heard the bad news.
#30
OK

The OP requested the thread to be removed. Locking this thread, as that is all the explanation we need, and admin has shared his views.

Thanks.

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