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Told Him..

snowflake Avatar
7y, 4m agoPosted 7 years, 4 months ago
My best friend that is, now waiting for him to come back
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7y, 4m agoPosted 7 years, 4 months ago
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go for it, whats the worst that can happen
#2
thai bride :?

tell him....what do you have to lose???? Bet you will feel a lot better with it out in the open...if you dont you will just 'think what if' forever
#3
tell him........dont spend the rest of your life wondering "what if....?"
#4
This is prolly terrible advice... I'd tell.

What you should really do is not tell and wait for their relationship with this other person to dwindle first.... to be fair to all parties.

If you tell.... you may lose a friend.

Or you may gain a lover.

What do you most want?
#5
I can see another "landlord" moment.
#6
tell him quick before he goes!!!!!!!!

never have any regrets!!!
#7
bitseylango;6156796
tell him........dont spend the rest of your life wondering "what if....?"

+1 :thumbsup: good luck hun xx
#8
I seriously want to, we keep texting, going to miss you etc, our kids are best (i mean best) friends, but said person has always been just a friend, recently best friend cos we share everything and laugh about it, i never got to the fancying stage and cos of the moving on so quick with the Chinese bird I didnt want to get in the way, i didnt think in that way anyway, but when tonight when i did the usual hug, kiss on the cheek, i got a kiss on my neck back, not quite expected but very erotic, kinda made me think....but he's going in a couple of days for a month...omg i adore him but cant possibly make a fool of myself or ruin that either :?
#9
Options

a) Tell him how you feel now ( he's still gonna leave babes )
b) Tell him how you feel when he comes back
c) Keep stum.
#10
just tell him, you never know he maybe thinking the same as you
#11
thesaint
I can see another "landlord" moment.


shut up, lol u git, no this is a guy ive known for 6 years hun, my landlord thingy was a crush, i did get the offer in the end by the way but as you know i dont do one night stands :p
#12
snowflake
I seriously want to, we keep texting, going to miss you etc, our kids are best (i mean best) friends, but said person has always been just a friend, recently best friend cos we share everything and laugh about it, i never got to the fancying stage and cos of the moving on so quick with the Chinese bird I didnt want to get in the way, i didnt think in that way anyway, but when tonight when i did the usual hug, kiss on the cheek, i got a kiss on my neck back, not quite expected but very erotic, kinda made me think....but he's going in a couple of days for a month...omg i adore him but cant possibly make a fool of myself or ruin that either :?


exactly what you need to say to him......and the kiss on the neck kinda says he may be thinkin the same???? go for it!!!
#13
ClarityofMind
Options

a) Tell him how you feel now ( he's still gonna leave babes )
b) Tell him how you feel when he comes back
c) Keep stum.


Yeah i know :roll:...so whats the answer? lol

the saint is referring to a crush i had on my landlord a couple of years ago, rightly so, but i kinda blew it when i took the advice of hukd'ers lol
#14
snowflake
Yeah i know :roll:...so whats the answer? lol

the saint is referring to a crush i had on my landlord a couple of years ago, rightly so, but i kinda blew it when i took the advice of hukd'ers lol


lol

as I said hon, I'd tell...

but it's prolly not the right thing to do morally.

Ethically the right thing to do is to wait and see if his relationship with the other girl is gonna work.

But imagine you tell... and he leaves anyway... you're gonna feel *AWFUL* do you really wanna do that to yourself?

But then if you dont tell and you're gonna be beating yourself up about what he's up to and he might not have gone.... that'd be terrible too...

Just do what your heart desires babes and good luck to you xxxxx
#15
starsparkle2311
just tell 'im:)


+1
#16
i would tell, be honest, he may feel the same and not go away, if not at least he will be away for a bit and by the time he return, the embarrassment will have worn off, you deserve something good, i hope it works out x
#17
starsparkle2311
Get in there Snowflake, just go for it!!!


I sooooooooooooooo want to, i mean it, i keep thinking im an idiot, he is totally gorgeous but my best friend, what was i thinking letting him go! He sits there and listens to me say how i'll never trust another man again and then tells me im beautiful and to stop then hugs me ..but he's paid a fortune to go to China, so I think i'll keep quiet and wait until he gets back..
#18
Tell him!!!!
#19
ClarityofMind
lol

as I said hon, I'd tell...

but it's prolly not the right thing to do morally.

[COLOR="Red"]Ethically the right thing to do is to wait and see if his relationship with the other girl is gonna work.

But imagine you tell... and he leaves anyway... you're gonna feel *AWFUL* do you really wanna do that to yourself?[/COLOR]But then if you dont tell and you're gonna be beating yourself up about what he's up to and he might not have gone.... that'd be terrible too...

Just do what your heart desires babes and good luck to you xxxxx


Yep exactly how i've been thinking, thanks hun xxxxxx
#20
snowflake
I sooooooooooooooo want to, i mean it, i keep thinking im an idiot, he is totally gorgeous but my best friend, what was i thinking letting him go! He sits there and listens to me say how i'll never trust another man again and then tells me im beautiful and to stop then hugs me ..but he's paid a fortune to go to China, so I think i'll keep quiet and wait until he gets back..


I have friends like that too hun xx
#21
starsparkle2311
just tell him, he can still go on holiday can't he?


no. lol
#22
hi hun x

why not get your boobs out and see what happens?

best of luck 4ever xx hun xx
#23
starsparkle2311
just tell him, he can still go on holiday can't he?


No, cos he's going to be with the chinese girl, and i think that would drive me crazy lol, so im going to tell him as soon as he comes back ...if i thought telling him would make him not go then id do it, but i cant take that risk... xxxx
#24
starsparkle2311
O RLY?


Yeah, I do... none that I'm in love with though. Just nice guys.
#25
just messin

I agree with most of the tothers, tell him how you feel and seewhat happens, you may lose him either way, but may only win him this way
#26
snowflake
No, cos he's going to be with the chinese girl, and i think that would drive me crazy lol, so im going to tell him as soon as he comes back ...if i thought telling him would make him not go then id do it, but i cant take that risk... xxxx


You're everso like me hun xx
#27
ADZ1478
hi hun x

why not get your boobs out and see what happens?

best of luck 4ever xx hun xx


What boobs :? lol Im snowflake..34b = no boobs lol
#28
snowflake
No, cos he's going to be with the chinese girl, and i think that would drive me crazy lol, so im going to tell him as soon as he comes back ...if i thought telling him would make him not go then id do it, but i cant take that risk... xxxx


but then he might get closer to the chinese girl, unecessary if he feels the same for you?
#29
snowflake
No, cos he's going to be with the chinese girl, and i think that would drive me crazy lol, so im going to tell him as soon as he comes back ...if i thought telling him would make him not go then id do it, but i cant take that risk... xxxx


I reckon if he really liked you then he'd stop himself and it'd be one of his "forget about the money no regrets" moments.
#30
snowflake
What boobs :? lol Im snowflake..34b = no boobs lol


I was handling some 34b's today... true story.

Nice boobs.
#31
ClarityofMind
You're everso like me hun xx


I kinda worked that out too.......... Dave hmm I always liked the sound of that name ...got a month free...what about you? lol :p
#32
Met-Cast
I reckon if he really liked you then he'd stop himself and it'd be one of his "forget about the money no regrets" moments.


Serious...are you a guy ? so in that situation you'd do that? seems a big risk to me, id rather let him go, at least i know he's going to come back???
#33
Met-Cast
I reckon if he really liked you then he'd stop himself and it'd be one of his "forget about the money no regrets" moments.


exactly, least you'd know how he felt, if he likes you, he wont want to go be with someone else, tell him!

what if you wait till he returns, and he brings her back or similar
#34
snowflake
Serious...are you a guy ? so in that situation you'd do that? seems a big risk to me, id rather let him go, at least i know he's going to come back???


what if he dont come back alone
#35
snowflake
I kinda worked that out too.......... Dave hmm I always liked the sound of that name ...got a month free...what about you? lol :p


For you babe, anythin.

:w00t:

I'll whisk you away in my series 5 class bmw co...k car and we'll be ballin into the sunset.
#36
good luck hun xxxxx
its a hard thing to lay your emotions on the line. How you gonna do it. Text? phone? in person?
what you gonna say? have you thought of serenading him? you could sing some kajagoogoo or something, worked for me!!
go for it hunny bun xxx
#37
starsparkle2311
yeh funny how the nice guys are always, 'just friends',lol


Could you bed one babe?
#38
what happens if he bring the chinese gal back :?
#39
ilovepink
what happens if he bring the chinese gal back :?


we hyjack her throw her in the boot of my bmw and find an appropriate cliff?
#40
Tell Him!!!!

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