Well, since ive spotted 2 this morning i thought id share my own :giggle:
Ive got a little mates dilemma of my own.
I only have a couple of close friends, then theres just the other ones who i see once in a while/text a bit.
I fell out with my "best friend" at the back end of last year.
Weve been friends for 7 years (quite alot i guess since ive only lived here 10 years, and im only 22....) and i thought we were best mates, did stuff together etc.
Then she met her fella, things always seemed a bit akward, cos i knew he fancied me and used to text me :geek: asking me to sleep with him(nice i know!) needless to say, i never replied or even told her, as i didnt want to lose my friend, i stopped going round as much, as i didnt want to bump into him, as i thought it would be weird, so when i went round id make sure he was out, so i didnt stop seeing her.
Anyway, we fell out, due to the fact, that last year, she didnt even sent a text or a card to me or my little boy on our birthdays (usually get each other cards and presents) but i decided to let it go, and make up.
In the couple of weeks we'd fell out, shed gone and got herself engaged to her fella.
So, anyway, we started talking wedding arrangments etc, then i found out i wasnt asked to be a bridesmaid :shock: I personally felt really hurt, that she has people who shes been friends with ONLY a year as a bridesmaid, but not me, and i guess that hurt alot, so i brought it up with her one day.
The reply i got was "I dont want any of the bridesmaids showing me up with being prettier than me"
So, i tried to carry on and be happy for her, but i guess i was really hurt by the fact i wasnt asked, and would just be a normal guest. But i decided i couldnt anymore, due to the fact i thought we were as close as sisters and i felt snubbed by it.
She texted and rang me, and i just didnt reply.
Anyway, sorry to ramble, but, she lives on the same street as my mum, went to see my mum, and saw her house is up for sale now :geek: so what on earth do i do?
If i dont contact her shes going to move away to god knows where and itll definatly be the end of our friendship.
She is still on my myspace, and im still on hers (she obviously knows ive fallen out with her as we used to see each other every week) so, she obviously isnt that mad with me or shed have deleted me.
Meh, i just dont know what to do, and i guess im a bit upset at the prospect of never seeing her again :-( Or do i just let her go?