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upset angry with neighbour moaning about rabbit

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8y, 4m agoPosted 8 years, 4 months ago
Im really really fed up, i have a neighbour who gossips to another neighbour, they have nothing esle to do except gossip about people.

They go around talking to anyone who listens about everyone else.
Ive just had a phone call from my best friend who overheard them - with me being there next target!!

Bascially i have 2 rabbits which live in a hutch, not a normakl hutch, a BIG one, so they would have plenty of space. Its 5ft x 4ft square. They come in the house every evening for run around and play.

Apparently these neighbours are spreading nasty things, saying my rabbits are stuck in a hutch, they dont come out etc, HOW would they know!! We have them in EVERY evening. So now people probably think im cruel!! Im not!

My daughter is a junior champion at showing rabbits. They are VERY well looked after.
This has really upset me, as i have tolerated being woken up by this neighbour EVERY night at midnight for the last 3 yrs!! When she lets her dog out for a wee and cant get him back in!! She is that loud calling her dog it does wake me up. I now dont bother going to bed until after midnight JUST because of her antics!!

I think its time i tell some home truths... OR maybe get a letter sent to them, about deformation of character?

Why are people like this. :(
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8y, 4m agoPosted 8 years, 4 months ago
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#1
I can understand why this has upset you, as if you really care about your animals, it does upset you when people say untrue things about how you are keeping them or looking after them.
Personally, I'd make a point of waiting till I knew the miserable neighbours were in the garden and saying very loudly to a friend or other person that's in the garden with you, that my rabbits aren't just stuck in a hutch all of the time despite what some sad, bored people sit there gossiping about. Probably won't achieve anything, but would give me the satisfaction of them knowing that their gossip does occasionally get back to the person it's about.

Other than that, just let it go over your head. Anyone that knows you obviously knows your rabbits are well looked after, and that's all that matters really. :thumbsup:
#2
Try not to take it to heart hun, you know what they're saying isn't true. Some people are just bloody pathetic & have nothing better to do!!!

**hugs**
#3
Ive just had a phone call from my best friend who overheard them



...so you and ya eaves dropping friend don't gossip :whistling:
#4
Just laugh at them and wind them up by being overheard saying stuff like "that rabbit stew was lovely last night, who'd have thought it from such depraved animals".
#5
LadyMadonna
Just laugh at them and wind them up by being overheard saying stuff like "that rabbit stew was lovely last night, who'd have thought it from such depraved animals".


:giggle: :giggle:
#6
far from it, i dont participate in loose tongues. Any best friend would have done the same and told me. Thats if you have best friends that is:whistling:
#7
LadyMadonna
Just laugh at them and wind them up by being overheard saying stuff like "that rabbit stew was lovely last night, who'd have thought it from such depraved animals".


lol now thats a good idea
#8
Aww..Rabbits are soo cute...I think your neighbour is jealous of your rabbits.

If i was in your place, i would ignore the person and not stoop to their level..and don't get upset by it as people always talk ****...i believe if you think good about yourself no one should ever be able to make you feel bad about yourself (unless you've done something wrong)

Oh and i would also buy a little rabbit for my neighbour as a present and tell them to look after it..that is a subtle way of showing your emotions. :)
#9
My initial reaction was to go and confront them both. I have tolerated her dog waking me up everynight and just live with it, as having neighbours you have to give and take.

They are taking the pi$$ though..
#10
do your neighbours rabbit on then ?
#11
pcnutta
....Thats if you have best friends that is




:thinking: .. :| .. :shock: ...... :-( ............................ :cry:
#12
owlass
:thinking: .. :| .. :shock: ...... :-( ............................ :cry:


pmsl never banter a woman in a rage about rabbits! unless its battery sort!! lol
#13
Karim786
do your neighbours rabbit on then ?


lol yep they rabbit about anyone and everyone,

i ought to blast that song...... rabbit rabbit...
#14
Its before the watershed yet still a thread can be posted about moaning rabbits and loose tongues? I'm gonna cancel my 3 year old daughters membership to hukd as it is a disgrace!
#15
LOL the mind it goes into!
#16
owlass
:thinking: .. :| .. :shock: ...... :-( ............................ :cry:


At least she said best.... could have been any.
#17
I had a similar problem with a neighbour moaning about my dogs barking all hours,spreading rumours until I confronted her in the street, she then went on to say (to my face) that she was going to ring the RSPCA and report me for leaving them out all day long, in all weathers, when I was at work..................stupid mare didnt realise that:
A. I didnt work at the time (and never left the dogs outside)
B. It was another neighbours dogs' barking on the road behind ours!
It was great to be able to shoot her down in flames, she just shrugged her shoulders and muttered "sorry" under her breath! Not spoken to her since. :-D
It is difficult to ignore, it bugged me for ages till I decided enough was enough, and I was so pleased when I got it all off my chest! There really are some nasty people out there :x
#18
next time she wins in one of her rabbit shows ring local paper and tell them and they will come and do a story as she is a championship material meets the criteria cute rabbits and children and puts all your mouthy neighbours to shame thats what i did with my daughters guinea pigs local rag came took photos and did story
#19
Lets get a posse together. I'll get my baseball bat........
#20
I might make a chicken casserole, put some in dish and nip some around. pass it to her and tell her its rabbit stew... champion rex and dwarf lop meat!!
#21
BlasterLad
Lets get a posse together. I'll get my baseball bat........


u cant use my rabbit as a ball !:roll:
#22
pcnutta
I might make a chicken casserole, put some in dish and nip some around. pass it to her and tell her its rabbit stew... champion rex and dwarf lop meat!!


LMAO, that would be classic!
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LadyMadonna
Just laugh at them and wind them up by being overheard saying stuff like "that rabbit stew was lovely last night, who'd have thought it from such depraved animals".


yep, got to say thats the one i would go with too:thumbsup:
#24
If your neighbours are complaining about your rabbit(s) being kept in a very enclosed space all day long I'd get thicker curtains & some decent fans so you can close the double glazing??!?

(Possibly concerned by all the moaning & wailin'??!?...miracle you've not got a combined Vice squad?RSPCA Taskforce in a van accross the road......reg no is S111 YCW in case there's a blue transit parked up)
#25
i have tolerated being woken up by this neighbour EVERY night at midnight for the last 3 yrs!!


Id put money on that you have 'gossipped' about this with close friends :whistling:
#26
CHARLIETHIRTYTWO
If your neighbours are complaining about your rabbit(s) being kept in a very enclosed space all day long I'd get thicker curtains & some decent fans so you can close the double glazing??!?

(Possibly concerned by all the moaning & wailin'??!?...miracle you've not got a combined Vice squad?RSPCA Taskforce in a van accross the road......reg no is S111 YCW in case there's a blue transit parked up)



lol trust you!!!

my sister just gave me the sister advice, how to tackle this the diplomatic way. She thinks i should get inspector out from rspca, invite the neighbours around ( not tell them why just say its important) then when inspector says everything is fine, i tell the neighbours, i dont want to hear anymore gossip and if anymore lies get told i will take this further.
#27
kungfu
Id put money on that you have 'gossipped' about this with close friends :whistling:


Friends no, they wouldnt want to know about anything like that.
However i have spoken to my mother about it. As at one point i was contemplating mentioning it to her about her dog.
#28
And to think, i take in all her flipping parcels for her when shes not home.
Cheeky blooming toe rags....

I gotta stop thinking about it cos i will loose my head! |Lol
#29
pcnutta

I gotta stop thinking about it cos i will loose my head! |Lol


Well you've been talking to yourself for the last 3 posts.....

[SIZE="1"](as if I can talk!!?!)[/SIZE]
#30
If you really want to scare her into shutting up, dress up as a rabbit, like the one in Donny Darko and wait outside the door she lets her dog out at midnight! When she opens the door she'll get the fright of her life and in a calm voice just say "any more gossip about my owner and the dog gets it!" then jump the fence and hide. Shell call the police and when they come round get your daughther to take the police to show them her sweet rabbits, your neighbour will then be warned with wasting police time!

God i thought about that way too much.....
#31
I'd report her for noise pollution. I can't stand people who are noisy after about 10pm. Especially friends arriving and peeping horns. As for the rabbit gossip, it's chinese whispers and I'd just ignore it, as long as you know the truth. It's not like they were saying you were having 'relations' with it :)
#32
lol i know, this is me, it will fester until i snap! I think a lavender bath will be needed this evening. Hahaah

Breatheeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
#33
go away for the weekend and leave the telly on REALLY LOUD
#34
ThePasty
If you really want to scare her into shutting up, dress up as a rabbit, like the one in Donny Darko and wait outside the door she lets her dog out at midnight! When she opens the door she'll get the fright of her life and in a calm voice just say "any more gossip about my owner and the dog gets it!" then jump the fence and hide. Shell call the police and when they come round get your daughther to take the police to show them her sweet rabbits, your neighbour will then be warned with wasting police time!

God i thought about that way too much.....


pmsllllllllllllll im crying laughing here! LOL

now that is something my OH would DO!! LOL
#35
Ok heres the plan,

Step 1)
get a piece of fake fur from somewhere, make it look raggedy wrap it around a bit of freshly ground course mince and chicken livers and giblets etc making sure the "fur" gets nicely wet in meat juices and lob it into next doors garden while they arent looking, somewhere in easyish sight just after their dog has been out.

Step 2) Knock on their door and politely explain that one of your prized show rabbits worth £500+ has escaped and would they mind checking their back yard, go with them if you can and start screaming when you see your "rabbits remains", gather the poor thing up gently so they dont get too close and play it for what its worth, burial etc, and tell everyone their dog is a vicious psycho killer.

See how they like that!
#36
harlzter
Ok heres the plan,

Step 1)
get a piece of fake fur from somewhere, make it look raggedy wrap it around a bit of freshly ground course mince and chicken livers and giblets etc making sure the "fur" gets nicely wet in meat juices and lob it into next doors garden while they arent looking, somewhere in easyish sight just after their dog has been out.

Step 2) Knock on their door and politely explain that one of your prized show rabbits worth £500+ has escaped and would they mind checking their back yard, go with them if you can and start screaming when you see your "rabbits remains", gather the poor thing up gently so they dont get too close and play it for what its worth, burial etc, and tell everyone their dog is a vicious psycho killer.

See how they like that!


I like the way you think, big guy :thumbsup:
#37
pcnutta
Friends no, they wouldnt want to know about anything like that.
However i have spoken to my mother about it. As at one point i was contemplating mentioning it to her about her dog.


Lol, my point was that at some point even you YES YOU :p have gossipped about someone being upto something, wether it be in jest or serious or whatever, we have ALL done it, you just dont like it cos its about you thats all, theres nothing to worry about though its just talk by people with nothing better to do as you said! Oh and if you think NO ONE else ever in the world is gonna talk behind your back and [email protected] you off for something...................then you are in for a serious shock haha!!!! It actually make sme laugh if i know anyone is that bothered by me to actually be huddling in corners moaning
#38
Theres gossips and theres gossips though.
I really dont give a flip if people talk about me, flipping heck in my prev job, the names i was called! part and parcel of life...

I dont like the fact they are making out im cruel to an animal, I am not. I find that offensive. Id rather them just talk about me, call me all names i dont care. But not cruel to animals. THAT is something i am not.
#39
harlzter
Ok heres the plan,

Step 1)
get a piece of fake fur from somewhere, make it look raggedy wrap it around a bit of freshly ground course mince and chicken livers and giblets etc making sure the "fur" gets nicely wet in meat juices and lob it into next doors garden while they arent looking, somewhere in easyish sight just after their dog has been out.

Step 2) Knock on their door and politely explain that one of your prized show rabbits worth £500+ has escaped and would they mind checking their back yard, go with them if you can and start screaming when you see your "rabbits remains", gather the poor thing up gently so they dont get too close and play it for what its worth, burial etc, and tell everyone their dog is a vicious psycho killer.

See how they like that!



lol....... why does that sound tempting loll
#40
Ignore it, if you get any trouble from any groups or organizations, you can easily prove it.

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